
Common Mistakes Entrepreneurs Should Avoid With Derik Fay
09/25/23 • 76 min
Listen to today’s episode as Derik Fay shares his amazing life story. He started with a tough childhood and learned to be strong, make friends, and grab opportunities. Hear how he succeeded in different businesses by being flexible and making good relationships.
Learn about Derik's talent for making friends and growing small companies. Find out how he turned $70 into $5 million in real estate. Discover tips for negotiating with companies and avoiding common business mistakes. Understand why having a strong company culture and being responsible are important for business growth. Plus, stay tuned for part two of Derik's amazing journey!
About:
Derik Fay is an experienced entrepreneur who started a venture capital firm called “3F Management” in 2002. He's successfully built and sold over 30 companies and helps young entrepreneurs grow. His goal for partners is to achieve growth and profits and sell their businesses within 3-5 years. Derik and his partners also give back by donating millions to local charities, emphasizing the importance of resilience, innovation, and making a positive impact.
HIGHLIGHTS:
- Derik Fay's journey from a challenging childhood to success
- How Derik adapted and thrived in various business ventures
- Derik's knack for connecting people and identifying opportunities
- The incredible story of turning a $70 investment into $5 million in real estate
- Profitable negotiation experiences with companies
- Insights into common mistakes entrepreneurs should avoid
- The importance of a consistent company culture and vision
- The role of accountability in business growth
SOCIAL MEDIA:
Website URL: https://derikfay.com/ & https://beacons.ai/derikfay
Derik Fay IG 👉 https://www.instagram.com/derikfay/
Derik Fay Facebook 👉 https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100085006716140
Derik Fay YouTube 👉 https://www.youtube.com/@derikfay
Derik Fay Twitter 👉 https://twitter.com/derik_fay
Derik Fay LinkedIn 👉 https://www.linkedin.com/in/derik-fay-8ba92181/
Derik Fay TikTok 👉 https://www.tiktok.com/@fayderik
TIME STAMPS:
- 00:00: Intro
- 00:49: Introduction to Derik Fay
- 01:28: What does Derik do as an adult entrepreneurial man?
- 02:57: Entrepreneurship, investing, and personal finance
- 06:05: Childhood abuse and resilience
- 08:11: The importance of finding inspiration and redirection in difficult moments
- 11:38: Eric’s advice when you’re in a bad situation
- 12:45: Overcoming abuse and finding strength
- 15:24: Dealing with past trauma and abuse
- 21:44: Abuse of power in religious organizations
- 28:27: Meeting needs with products or services
- 30:20: The value of being a connector
- 36:59: Leadership styles and approaches
- 43:54: Entrepreneurship and opportunity recognition
- 47:07: Business deals
- 49:45: Things that motivated Derik to save money to be ready to go
- 54:09: The importance of Networking and conversations in finding opportunities
- 55:31: Real estate deals and ethics
- 58:54: Recognizing opportunities and taking action
- 1:01:59: There's massive value in being first!
- 1:03:19: The shadow CEO
- 1:06:16: Leadership mistakes in business
- 1:08:12: How people are treating employees and the resulting impact
- 1:11:30: The importance of clarifying the company's culture and vision
- 1:13:53: Chick-fil-A closes on Sundays to stay true to their values
- 1:14:57: Going against one's culture and values can lead to instability
- 1:16:02: END
Want to Achieve More Success in Your Network Marketing Career?
If you are specifically involved in Network Marketing or Direct Marketing, go to www.ericworre.com to learn how I can help you achieve your business, team, and personal goals faster than you ever thought possible.
Questions or Comments?
Do you have questions you would like me to answer in future podcasts or comments on the show you'd like to share? Email me at [email protected]
Listen to today’s episode as Derik Fay shares his amazing life story. He started with a tough childhood and learned to be strong, make friends, and grab opportunities. Hear how he succeeded in different businesses by being flexible and making good relationships.
Learn about Derik's talent for making friends and growing small companies. Find out how he turned $70 into $5 million in real estate. Discover tips for negotiating with companies and avoiding common business mistakes. Understand why having a strong company culture and being responsible are important for business growth. Plus, stay tuned for part two of Derik's amazing journey!
About:
Derik Fay is an experienced entrepreneur who started a venture capital firm called “3F Management” in 2002. He's successfully built and sold over 30 companies and helps young entrepreneurs grow. His goal for partners is to achieve growth and profits and sell their businesses within 3-5 years. Derik and his partners also give back by donating millions to local charities, emphasizing the importance of resilience, innovation, and making a positive impact.
HIGHLIGHTS:
- Derik Fay's journey from a challenging childhood to success
- How Derik adapted and thrived in various business ventures
- Derik's knack for connecting people and identifying opportunities
- The incredible story of turning a $70 investment into $5 million in real estate
- Profitable negotiation experiences with companies
- Insights into common mistakes entrepreneurs should avoid
- The importance of a consistent company culture and vision
- The role of accountability in business growth
SOCIAL MEDIA:
Website URL: https://derikfay.com/ & https://beacons.ai/derikfay
Derik Fay IG 👉 https://www.instagram.com/derikfay/
Derik Fay Facebook 👉 https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100085006716140
Derik Fay YouTube 👉 https://www.youtube.com/@derikfay
Derik Fay Twitter 👉 https://twitter.com/derik_fay
Derik Fay LinkedIn 👉 https://www.linkedin.com/in/derik-fay-8ba92181/
Derik Fay TikTok 👉 https://www.tiktok.com/@fayderik
TIME STAMPS:
- 00:00: Intro
- 00:49: Introduction to Derik Fay
- 01:28: What does Derik do as an adult entrepreneurial man?
- 02:57: Entrepreneurship, investing, and personal finance
- 06:05: Childhood abuse and resilience
- 08:11: The importance of finding inspiration and redirection in difficult moments
- 11:38: Eric’s advice when you’re in a bad situation
- 12:45: Overcoming abuse and finding strength
- 15:24: Dealing with past trauma and abuse
- 21:44: Abuse of power in religious organizations
- 28:27: Meeting needs with products or services
- 30:20: The value of being a connector
- 36:59: Leadership styles and approaches
- 43:54: Entrepreneurship and opportunity recognition
- 47:07: Business deals
- 49:45: Things that motivated Derik to save money to be ready to go
- 54:09: The importance of Networking and conversations in finding opportunities
- 55:31: Real estate deals and ethics
- 58:54: Recognizing opportunities and taking action
- 1:01:59: There's massive value in being first!
- 1:03:19: The shadow CEO
- 1:06:16: Leadership mistakes in business
- 1:08:12: How people are treating employees and the resulting impact
- 1:11:30: The importance of clarifying the company's culture and vision
- 1:13:53: Chick-fil-A closes on Sundays to stay true to their values
- 1:14:57: Going against one's culture and values can lead to instability
- 1:16:02: END
Want to Achieve More Success in Your Network Marketing Career?
If you are specifically involved in Network Marketing or Direct Marketing, go to www.ericworre.com to learn how I can help you achieve your business, team, and personal goals faster than you ever thought possible.
Questions or Comments?
Do you have questions you would like me to answer in future podcasts or comments on the show you'd like to share? Email me at [email protected]
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The conversation turns to leadership in Network Marketing, where they discuss challenges posed by influencers and the pandemic. They draw a clear line between earners and leaders, emphasizing the importance of adaptability and team development.on improving product quality.
A central theme is Ray's personal journey towards faith and kindness, which has significantly impacted his life and career. He highlights the role of faith in decision-making and addresses various topics, including confidence, overcoming obstacles, and integrating spirituality into personal and professional growth. Ray's journey serves as a powerful example of how personal development and spirituality can transform one's business and life.
About:
Ray Higdon is a bestselling author, motivational coach, and philanthropist. He went from facing financial difficulties to achieving multimillion-dollar success in just a few years. His latest book, "TIME MONEY FREEDOM," co-written with his wife Jessica, helps people achieve their dreams with actionable steps. Ray is also a top keynote speaker, sharing the stage with renowned thought leaders. He's a dedicated philanthropist, raising over $600,000 for charitable causes. Ray is the founder and CEO of Higdon Group, a fast-growing company specializing in sales training and coaching. He lives in Florida with his family.
HIGHLIGHTS:
- Ray Higdon's life journey: From challenges to Network Marketing success
- Keys to triumph: authenticity, self-awareness, and openness
- A powerful story of forgiveness and reconnection with Ray's estranged father
- Building resilience through daily rejection goals and continuous self-improvement
- Leadership in the Network Marketing industry
- Earning vs. leading: What sets leaders apart in Network Marketing?
- Advocating for a focus on product quality and research over distributor commissions
- Ray's switch from money to faith and how it changed him
- How kindness and biblical ideas help in work and life
- Building confidence, surmounting obstacles, and faith-based decision-making
- Ray's inspiring journey highlighting power of growth and spirituality in achieving success
SOCIAL MEDIA:
Website URL: https://rayhigdon.com/
Ray Higdon IG 👉 https://www.instagram.com/rayhigdon/
Ray Higdon Facebook 👉 https://www.facebook.com/ray.higdon1/
Ray Higdon YouTube 👉 https://www.youtube.com/@HigdonGroup
Ray Higdon Twitter 👉 https://twitter.com/rayhigdon
Ray Higdon LinkedIn 👉 https://www.linkedin.com/in/rayhigdon/
TIME STAMPS:
- 00:00: Cold open intro
- 00:30: Introduction to Ray Higdon
- 02:21: Ray’s origin story
- 08:03: Sacred wounds
- 09:20: Awareness is the first step to changing your habits
- 11:40: The concept of being aware and getting better
- 13:18: Childhood trauma
- 16:45: How did Ray get into real estate?
- 19:37: Went through a divorce and into foreclosure
- 20:25: Becoming interested in Network Marketing
- 23:08: Reuniting with his father
- 25:53: Ray’s advice for those who have an estranged family member
- 28:36: Turning 20 noses a day into a big income
- 32:25: The importance of team building and recruiting
- 37:12: The importance of staying in your position
- 38:57: Learn more about how Eric can help you grow your business
- 40:46: Making the decision to leave the field
- 42:52: Ray’s decision to merge into a bigger company
- 47:33: The decision to make the leap of faith in 2016
- 48:43: The lessons Ray has learned from teaching people
- 54:45: Four languages of leaders
- 1:01:30: Challenges in the Network Marketing profession
- 1:04:44: The difference between the Hall of Fame and all-stars
- 1:09:19: The difference between 10 one-year careers and a 110-year career
- 1:10:46: The difference between an earner and a leader
- 1:12:09: How some people are upset when the comp plan changes
- 1:14:16: The typical commission structure
- 1...
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Social Media Strategies for Network Marketing in 2023 with John & Nadya Melton
Join us in this episode of “The Excellence Project” as Eric Worre interviews John and Nadya Melton, two remarkable Network Marketing leaders and social media experts. Discover their inspiring journey from traditional methods to the dynamic world of online marketing, where they share invaluable insights on building a personal brand and finding prospects in the Network Marketing industry.
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About:
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HIGHLIGHTS:
- John and Nadya Melton journey from traditional to online Network Marketing
- The importance of personal branding online to attract prospects
- How video marketing transformed their business during tough times
- Understanding the enduring value of personal branding in Network Marketing
- Tips on using social media effectively for networking and growth
- Staying current in the digital business landscape
- Taking control of your online brand-building journey
SOCIAL MEDIA:
Website URL: https://mylifestyleacademy.com/
John & Nadya Melton IG 👉 https://www.instagram.com/mylifestyleacademy/
John & Nadya Melton Facebook 👉 https://www.facebook.com/mylifestyleacademy/
John & Nadya Melton YouTube 👉 https://www.youtube.com/@JohnAndNadyaMelton/
RESOURCES:
Recommended book by Eric Worre:
- Born Standing Up, Steve Martin: https://a.co/d/fz4gvBY
TIME STAMPS:
- 00:00: Intro
- 00:34: Introduction to John and Nadya Melton
- 01:03: How John and Nadya met through Network Marketing
- 03:47: Cultural differences and accents
- 06:46: Overcoming fears and maximizing social media strategies
- 10:00: Story about a team member who struggled with presentations
- 12:30: Network Marketing journey and industry changes
- 15:35: Eric’s “whatever it takes” mentality story
- 21:17: Nadya’s journey of overcoming obstacles and building a successful career
- 26:07: Experience in the mortgage industry
- 29:55: Resilience during an economic downturn
- 31:26: Transitioning to the internet and starting to make six figures in Network Marketing
- 34:13: Eric’s quick story in the early 2000s
- 37:12: Transitioning from Network Marketing to online business
- 46:56: Vemma's shutdown and the importance of professionalism in the industry
- 51:19: The importance of building an audience
- 54:13: Building a personal brand and recruiting for success
- 57:07: The importance of expanding your network
- 1:02:58: Using humor and creativity on social media
- 1:06:59: The importance of consistency, value, and fun in the content
- 1:10:38: Creating valuable content for social media platforms
- 1:13:36: Building trust with the audience by engaging in both marketing and prospecting
- 1:16:21: The importance of posting content
- 1:20:15: The importance of building confidence
- 1:22:05: Keep it simple!
- 1:24:55: The two big takeaways
- 1:26:38: The value of being approachable and relatable on social media
- 1:29:56: Mining connections for value and expansion
- 1:30:29: We’d love to hear from you!
- 1:30:55: END
Want to Achieve More Success in Your Network Marketing Career?
If you are specifically involved in Network Marketing or Direct Marketing, go to www.ericworre.c...
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