BODY MEDITATION: For Partners of Lovers with Sexual Trauma by LORRAINE PENTELLO
11/16/24 • 4 min
Please benefit from this short grounding meditation led by Sexual Healer, Lorraine Pentello. At least 50% of the population has been sexually traumatized in their lifetimes which means it's very likely you, as a lover, are with someone who has been. This mediation can help you to help them - if ever you notice your partner drifting off, freezing, numb, destablized, highly reactive in a sexual context. Their sexual trauma may be being triggered - by no fault of your own! Here is how to help...your lover, and yourself, so that you don't take it personally, get defensive, feel rejected, maybe angry and frustrated - all of which could deepen that trauma. The more you can stay regulated, present, objective and compassionate, the more you can actually help your parter to heal sexually and increase presence and pleasure.
MORE ALI MEZEY:
Website: https://www.alimezey.com
Personal Geometry® and the Magic of Mat Work Course information:
https://www.alimezey.com/personal-geometry-foundations
Transgenerational Healing Films: https://constellationarts.com/
MORE LORRAINE PENTELLO:
BIO: Lorraine Pentello (she/he/they)
Lorraine is a Somatic Therapist and bodyworker specialising in sexuality and trauma. They have worked in the field of sexuality for the past 26 years, starting in entertainment then shifting to healing & embodiment in 2014.
Certified in Sexological Bodywork, Embodied Counselling, Craniofacial Bodywork, Myofascial Bodywork, STREAM Scar Remediation, EMDR, EFT Tapping for Trauma, Inner Child Healing and Ego State therapy, Lorraine works holistically 1:1 with clients, both online and in person. Helping them heal emotional and physical pain.
COMING IN 2025:
Lorraine will be teaching again interactive erotic education along with four other highly skilled somatic sex educators.
This is an online course designed to bring a somatic framework for people who work with touch in a two way capacity, using the body as a tool to help clients learn and heal through exploration and play.
As this course is being hosted from Australia, they will be creating a US timezone friendly version of it to be released in the new year.
Visit intereros.com for more information and expressions of interest.
Please benefit from this short grounding meditation led by Sexual Healer, Lorraine Pentello. At least 50% of the population has been sexually traumatized in their lifetimes which means it's very likely you, as a lover, are with someone who has been. This mediation can help you to help them - if ever you notice your partner drifting off, freezing, numb, destablized, highly reactive in a sexual context. Their sexual trauma may be being triggered - by no fault of your own! Here is how to help...your lover, and yourself, so that you don't take it personally, get defensive, feel rejected, maybe angry and frustrated - all of which could deepen that trauma. The more you can stay regulated, present, objective and compassionate, the more you can actually help your parter to heal sexually and increase presence and pleasure.
MORE ALI MEZEY:
Website: https://www.alimezey.com
Personal Geometry® and the Magic of Mat Work Course information:
https://www.alimezey.com/personal-geometry-foundations
Transgenerational Healing Films: https://constellationarts.com/
MORE LORRAINE PENTELLO:
BIO: Lorraine Pentello (she/he/they)
Lorraine is a Somatic Therapist and bodyworker specialising in sexuality and trauma. They have worked in the field of sexuality for the past 26 years, starting in entertainment then shifting to healing & embodiment in 2014.
Certified in Sexological Bodywork, Embodied Counselling, Craniofacial Bodywork, Myofascial Bodywork, STREAM Scar Remediation, EMDR, EFT Tapping for Trauma, Inner Child Healing and Ego State therapy, Lorraine works holistically 1:1 with clients, both online and in person. Helping them heal emotional and physical pain.
COMING IN 2025:
Lorraine will be teaching again interactive erotic education along with four other highly skilled somatic sex educators.
This is an online course designed to bring a somatic framework for people who work with touch in a two way capacity, using the body as a tool to help clients learn and heal through exploration and play.
As this course is being hosted from Australia, they will be creating a US timezone friendly version of it to be released in the new year.
Visit intereros.com for more information and expressions of interest.
Previous Episode
TABOO Part Two: Sex, Trauma & Attachment Styles with LORRAINE PENTELLO, Ali & Flo
SYNOPSIS:
Join us for Taboo Part Two, as we welcome back the brilliant Lorraine Pentello to discuss the multifaceted aspects of sexual experience and relationships. In this episode, we explore a range of complex and often misunderstood topics, including jealousy, different attachment styles, the dynamics of polyamory, the importance of identity, and the healing journey from sexual trauma. Lorraine shares experienced insights that not only shed light on these sensitive subjects but also offer practical advice for navigating them. Whether you're seeking to better understand these issues or looking for tools to enhance your own relationships, this episode is packed with valuable, thought-provoking content.
To be an angel to the podcast, click here
To read more about the podcast, click here
MORE ALI MEZEY:
Website: https://www.alimezey.com
Personal Geometry® and the Magic of Mat Work Course information:
https://www.alimezey.com/personal-geometry-foundations
Transgenerational Healing Films: https://constellationarts.com/
MORE LORRAINE PENTELLO:
BIO: Lorraine Pentello (she/he/they)
Lorraine is a Somatic Therapist and bodyworker specialising in sexuality and trauma. They have worked in the field of sexuality for the past 26 years, starting in entertainment then shifting to healing & embodiment in 2014.
Certified in Sexological Bodywork, Embodied Counselling, Craniofacial Bodywork, Myofascial Bodywork, STREAM Scar Remediation, EMDR, EFT Tapping for Trauma, Inner Child Healing and Ego State therapy, Lorraine works holistically 1:1 with clients, both online and in person. Helping them heal emotional and physical pain.
COMING IN 2025:
Lorraine will be teaching again interactive erotic education along with four other highly skilled somatic sex educators.
This is an online course designed to bring a somatic framework for people who work with touch in a two way capacity, using the body as a tool to help clients learn and heal through exploration and play.
As this course is being hosted from Australia, they will be creating a US timezone friendly version of it to be released in the new year.
Visit intereros.com for more information and expressions of interest.
OTHER RESOURCES, LINKS AND INSPIRATIONS:
THE EROTIC MIND, by Jack Morin PhD
HARRY POTTER FANDOM.COM
"They were there, they had found the place: high as a church and full of nothing but towering shelves covered in small, dusty, glass orbs. They glimmered dully in the light issuing from more candle brackets set at intervals along the shelves. Like those in the circular room behind them, their flames were burning blue. The room was very cold"
— Description of the Hall of Prophecy[src]
The Hall of Prophecy was a chamber within the Department of Mysteries, on Level 9 of the British Ministry of Magic in London, England.
The hall featured shelves containing records of
Next Episode
The Emotional Body with Healer, Mona Wind
SYNOPSIS: In this episode Ali had the pleasure of conversing with Mona Wind about the embodiment of emotion and its significance in our evolution. Mona is an energy practitioner and teacher who had a near-death experience at two months old, connecting her to a state of stillness and enabling her to share this energy. This experience unlocked various capacities and gifts, leading her to integrate elements like past lives, core wounds, karma, shadows, ego, and the still point. Mona describes our body as the universe's creative playground, where physical and non-physical phenomena intertwine. Tune into today to hear our conversation!
To be an angel to the podcast, click here
To read more about the podcast, click here
MORE ALI MEZEY:
Website: https://www.alimezey.com
Personal Geometry® and the Magic of Mat Work Course information:
https://www.alimezey.com/personal-geometry-foundations
Transgenerational Healing Films: https://constellationarts.com/
MORE MONA WIND:
BIO:
Mona Wind is an energy practitioner and consciousness teacher with direct access to the still point where no thought exists.
When Mona transmits this energy, spiritual growth accelerates at rapid speeds and healing occurs simultaneously. She teaches others this direct connection in her online classes, sessions and programs.
During her healings, transmissions and teachings, this energy is shared with her clients and students. It allows them to have a direct experience of oneness without drugs, visualizations or external techniques. There is a complete integration of mind, body and spirit. When this energy is transmitted, spiritual growth accelerates at rapid speeds and healing occurs simultaneously. Mona teaches others this direct connection in her online classes, sessions and programs.
If you would like to learn from Mona how to have direct and immediate access to your integrated wholeness, you can find her at Lifeintegrity.com.
OTHER RESOURCES, LINKS AND INSPIRATIONS:
Cartesian Divide: The conceptual separation between mind and body, coined after René Descartes, emphasizing a dualistic view of human existence, isolating mental and physical aspects.
Our episode on the Cartesian Divide: Bridging Divides with Rachel Fell: Neurodivergence, Conscious Body Awareness & Inclusive Intelligence
Walking in Your Shoes: WIYS is a process that allows the practitioner, in partnership with a facilitator, to address questions or needs through an intuitive questioning of the body-mind through movement. The applications of the questioning process are quite broad and can be applied to everything from healing trauma and managing addiction, to business development or a more organic method of acting. This is another means of “knowing” through your body.
HELP US SHARE OUR MESSAGE
Our events remain free as part of our mission to awaken people to the boundless potential of our bodies, inviting them to explore the profound knowledge, memory, brilliance & capacity within. By delving into the depths of our bodily intelligence as a healing resource for not just ourselves, but as a part of the larger, global body, we have the potential for meaningful change and experiences as bodies. Join us in this journey of transformation as we redefine our understanding of the human body and its infinite capabilities. While our events remain free, any contributions are deeply appreciated and are seen as a generous gesture of support and encouragement in sharing our messages with the world.
If you like this episode you’ll love
Episode Comments
Generate a badge
Get a badge for your website that links back to this episode
<a href="https://goodpods.com/podcasts/the-brilliant-body-podcast-with-ali-mezey-470827/body-meditation-for-partners-of-lovers-with-sexual-trauma-by-lorraine-78373836"> <img src="https://storage.googleapis.com/goodpods-images-bucket/badges/generic-badge-1.svg" alt="listen to body meditation: for partners of lovers with sexual trauma by lorraine pentello on goodpods" style="width: 225px" /> </a>
Copy