The Better: True Community, Purpose, and Rest - Winging It: Letting Systems Fail

Winging It: Letting Systems Fail

01/23/25 • 13 min

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The Better: True Community, Purpose, and Rest

What if our search for the perfect formula is keeping us from experiencing something better? From parenting books to religious systems, we keep trying to reduce life's complexities into step-by-step guides. But what if these attempts at control are actually preventing us from experiencing the relationship we're seeking? In this episode, we explore why our systems keep failing us and what it might mean to let them fail.

#PersonalGrowth #Faith #Relationships #SystemsThinking #Spirituality #Wisdom #Authenticity

Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction: The Parenting Books Problem

2:41 - Working with Teenagers: The Pattern Emerges

4:02 - Welcome to The Better

4:28 - Dogs and Relationships: Creating Space for Connection

6:30 - Washing Dishes

7:07 - Why Religious Systems Fall Short

8:58 - The Mathematics Analogy

10:12 - Moving Beyond Understanding

11:14 - What We Really Want: Relationship Over Rules

11:54 - Holding Frameworks Loosely

12:54 - Closing Thoughts: The Better as Relationship

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#PersonalGrowth #Faith #Relationships #SystemsThinking #Spirituality #Wisdom #Authenticity

Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction: The Parenting Books Problem

2:41 - Working with Teenagers: The Pattern Emerges

4:02 - Welcome to The Better

4:28 - Dogs and Relationships: Creating Space for Connection

6:30 - Washing Dishes

7:07 - Why Religious Systems Fall Short

8:58 - The Mathematics Analogy

10:12 - Moving Beyond Understanding

11:14 - What We Really Want: Relationship Over Rules

11:54 - Holding Frameworks Loosely

12:54 - Closing Thoughts: The Better as Relationship

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