The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast

Roy Biancalana

The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast is hosted by Roy Biancalana, a certified relationship coach, three-time #1 best-selling author and nationally-recognized expert in the field of attraction and conscious relationships. His podcast is devoted to supporting single people in their desire to attract a healthy, sustainable, intimate relationship. The perspective shared is a mindful or conscious perspective on life, love and the pursuit of intimacy. Roy does not focus much on telling single people where to go, how to approach or what to say to a potential partner. Rather, he focuses on helping people identify and let go of the barriers, blockages and self-sabotaging patterns that keep them single. Roy's work and this podcast are in alignment with the advice given from the famous 13th century mystic poet, Rumi, who said, "Your task is not to seek love, but instead to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it."

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181 What They Never Told You: The Root Cause of Masculine & Feminine Suffering

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08/26/24 • 55 min

The host shares, quite candidly, that he's been struggling in his personal life. He talks about being in an angry, dark, whiney place and it hasn’t been pretty, to put it mildly.

He explains that as he's paid attention to how shitty he's felt and why, it’s become clear to him that he's been lied to. There is something no one’s ever told him about the reality of life and relationships, and it’s led to misery.

So, in this episode, Roy, the host, gets very personal, sharing all about his recent bout with anger and depression—because he believes that you’ll be able to relate.

He's pretty sure that what he's never been told, you’ve never been told either. Take the time to listen to this episode because what he's realized might produce a turning point in your life as it has in his.

You will learn...

...what you most crave as a masculine or feminine being;

...what no one ever told you about getting what you crave;

...the reason behind the inherent tension between men and women;

...the discovery that leads to the possibility of relational happiness;

...and much, much more.

Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

Roy’s 3 Books:

· Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

· Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

· A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at [email protected] or call his cell 407-687-3387.

The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

189 A Deep Dive Into Trauma: A Conscious Perspective on Life's Deepest Pain (and how to resolve it)

The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast

10/21/24 • 62 min

The issue of "Trauma" brings up some very important questions, the first of which is, how do you know if you have Trauma (with a capital "T") or just basic baggage/pain from the past and its corresponding neurosis?

The second question that comes up is, how do I deal with them? What processes, strategies or support do I need to find freedom from Trauma or basic baggage?

These and other questions are the focus of this episode and it's one you don't want to miss.

Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

Roy’s 3 Books:

· Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

· Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

· A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at [email protected] or call his cell 407-687-3387.

187 ChatGPT vs. Conscious Wisdom, Question #4: What makes a WOMAN most attractive to the opposite sex?

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10/07/24 • 55 min

There are some very important questions that single people ask concerning their pursuit of intimacy, and in this episode, we address the third question.

But where do you go for answers you can trust?

Well, at the risk of oversimplifying, you can ask A.I. (Artificial Intelligence via the Internet) or you can seek C.I. (Conscious Intelligence via a relationship expert).

A.I. is all the rage, and perhaps ChatGPT is the most popular version going. It’s sort of like Google. You can ask it questions and it will give you answers based on all the digital information that’s found online. It’s pretty amazing.

That got our host thinking: What does ChatGPT have to say about some of the most important and relevant questions we have about our pursuit of intimacy?

So, in this, the first of a five-part series, Roy puts questions to A.I. and compares its answers to C.I. (Conscious Intelligence) so that you can be fully informed and make the best decisions and choices for your love life.

This episode’s question is, “What makes a WOMAN most attractive to the opposite sex?”

Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

Roy’s 3 Books:

· Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

· Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

· A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at [email protected] or call his cell 407-687-3387.

162 The Path of Spiritual Awakening, Pt. 1: The Description—What is Awakening & Why You Should Be Interested

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04/15/24 • 63 min

Many think that spiritual awakening leads to a boring life, one of abstaining and renunciation. They fear it means never having any fun and sitting on a cushion all day saying goofy words like, “Om” and “namaste”.

But in this 5-part series, you’ll learn that the opposite is true. In fact, our host, Roy Biancalana, says enlightenment leads to a life of engagement, playfulness, and authenticity, a life where the past is powerless, loneliness disappears, and drama ends.

In this first episode of the series, you’ll discover not only what spiritual awakening is, but you will embark on the greatest journey of all—the discovery of who you truly are.

You will learn...

· how spiritual awakening is tragically misunderstood;

· the drastic difference between personal growth and spiritual awakening;

· the simplest definition of enlightenment;

· 12 reasons to be interested in spiritual awakening;

· ...and much, much more!

Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

Roy’s 3 Books:

· Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

· Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

· A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at [email protected] or call his cell 407-687-3387.

177 Five Signs You Need a Relationship Coach

The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast

07/29/24 • 70 min

This is probably the most important podcast Roy has ever recorded. Yes, on the surface it looks like he’s simply promoting his coaching practice, but in reality, something much, much deeper takes place.

Roy is offering the solution to your disappointing love life. In fact, three major themes are addressed: (1) You want a great relationship with all of your heart, and you know it’s possible; (2) Your relationship history, up until now, has been disappointing and painful; (3) You are more than a little concerned about how or if it will ever change.

If you resonate with those three, you CANNOT miss this episode because you will learn how to change the trajectory of your love life once and for all.

In this episode, you will be presented with 5 (maybe even 6) signs that you need to hire Roy as your relationship coach. These signs are not mysterious or difficult to identify. In fact, they are obvious, yet if they are not faced, your love life will never change.

Don’t miss this episode.

Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

Roy’s 3 Books:

· Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

· Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

· A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at [email protected] or call his cell 407-687-3387.

172 Seven Habits of Highly Miserable People, Pt. 4: Un-Questioned Beliefs

The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast

06/24/24 • 54 min

In a playful, tongue-in-cheek, reverse psychology kind of way, Roy shares how each of us can be utterly miserable and ruin our lives. (LOL!) If you want to feel stuck, angry, and unmotivated, if you want to feel dead on the inside and be the type of person no one wants or wants to be around, then this series is for you!

In this, the fourth episode of a 7-part series, Roy shares that perhaps the best way to turn people off and ruin any relationship in your life is have “Un-questioned Beliefs,” especially everyone’s favorite belief: I am right! If you can master the art of being right and making others wrong, you are sure to be an utterly miserable person.

You will learn:

...why “should” needs to be your favorite word;

...the benefits of needing and wanting to be right;

...why others will appreciate you for making them wrong;

...if you think something is true, it most certainly is;

...and much, much more!

Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

Roy’s 3 Books:

· Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

· Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

· A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at [email protected] or call his cell 407-687-3387.

171 Seven Habits of Highly Miserable People, Pt. 3: Un-Kept Agreements

The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast

06/17/24 • 45 min

In this, the third episode of a 7-part series, Roy shares another great way to ruin your life, which is have “Un-Kept Agreements”. If you can master the art of making agreements or promises and then not keep them consistently, you are sure to be an utterly miserable person.

You will learn:

...how to lose all your friends and ruin your career;

...how to get people to negatively gossip about you;

...how to destroy trust and keep yourself single;

...why we sometimes say “yes” when we don’t mean it;

...and much, much more!

Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

Roy’s 3 Books:

· Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

· Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

· A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at [email protected] or call his cell 407-687-3387.

168 Four Types of Women Guys Should Avoid: A Discussion of Toxic Femininity

The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast

05/27/24 • 61 min

While it certainly isn’t politically correct to speak of toxic femininity, it needs to be addressed because it’s a real thing. Yes, feminine people are rarely toxic physically, especially when compared to masculine people, but they can, and often are, emotionally, psychologically, and verbally toxic.

So, building off the previous episode, Roy points out four counterfeit and toxic versions of the divine feminine. They are: The Super Scared Woman, The Super Self-Sufficient Woman, The Super Special Woman and The Super Seductive Woman. Each is a dangerous distortion of the true, healthy expression of the divine feminine nature.

The message being communicated is that men should avoid the first 4 toxic “super” women, and women should strive to let go of any tendency to embody their toxic qualities.

Don’t miss this opportunity to learn about how The Radiant Woman shows up in the world and displays her loving, life-giving qualities.

Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

Roy’s 3 Books:

· Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

· Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

· A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at [email protected] or call his cell 407-687-3387.

166 The Path of Spiritual Awakening, Pt. 5: The Destination—A Conversation with Jim Dethmer

The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast

05/13/24 • 55 min

This series on spiritual awakening has been conceptual in nature so far, and rightly so. We need to understand what awakening is (and isn’t). We need to know what starts us on a true spiritual journey (and what doesn’t), and we need a map that shows us how to get there. Those are some of the things that have been covered so far in this series.

But now that the conceptual foundation has been laid, we need an up-close-and-personal conversation with an awakened being, and that’s what we have here.

In this episode, Roy interviews his long-time friend and mentor, Jim Dethmer. Jim is the co-founder of The Conscious Leadership Group, the co-author of The 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership, but more than anything else, Jim’s life is about awakening and spiritual realization.

People like Michael Singer, Eckhart Tolle or Byron Katie are rarely interviewed. And when they teach in large group settings, they rarely get personal and describe their own journey from beginning to end.

But in this episode, you get both. You get to hear from an enlightened person, and you get to hear him talk about his journey and what he’s learned along the way. This is the best episode ever produced by this podcast. Don’t miss it.

Jim's Blog referred to in this episode: https://conscious.is/blogs/three-waypoints-on-the-journey

Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

Roy’s 3 Books:

· Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

· Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

· A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at [email protected] or call his cell 407-687-3387.

188 ChatGPT vs Conscious Wisdom, Question #5: Am I Ready to Work With a Relationship Coach?

The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast

10/14/24 • 42 min

There are some very important questions that single people ask concerning their pursuit of intimacy, but in this, the final episode of the series, there’s a big twist.

Instead of addressing another frequently asked question, as was the case in the previous four episodes, Roy addresses a question that single people should be asking, but usually don’t.

In the final episode of the series, Roy puts the question you should be asking to A.I. (Artificial Intelligence, i.e., ChatGPT) and compares its answers to C.I. (Conscious Intelligence).

This episode’s question is... well, you have to listen to find out!!

Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

Roy’s 3 Books:

· Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

· Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

· A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at [email protected] or call his cell 407-687-3387.

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The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast currently has 192 episodes available.

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The podcast is about Spirituality, Dating, Buddhism, Religion & Spirituality, Chemistry, Podcasts, Self-Improvement, Education, Intimacy, Relationships and Mindfulness.

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The episode title '176 Michael Singer on Learning to Prefer Reality' is the most popular.

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The average episode length on The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast is 58 minutes.

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The first episode of The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast was released on Apr 3, 2021.

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