
110 Wisdom for "The Search": How Looking for a Partner is Like Looking for a House
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04/17/23 • 46 min
When this podcast was recorded, Roy and his wife, MaryMargaret, were looking for a new place to live. And as they searched for a house, Roy noticed how similar it is to searching for a partner. Roy felt like he was “single” again, searching for the “one.”
In this episode, Roy shares what we can learn about our search for a partner from his search for a house. He points not so much to the desired outcome (the right partner or house), but more to how we are going about the search itself. You’ll learn that either search can be done from fear and scarcity or trust and abundance.
If you’re searching for your life partner, don’t miss this powerful, creative episode.
Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:
Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com
Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/
Roy’s 3 Books:
· Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR
· Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh
· A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K
Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/
Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at [email protected] or call his cell 407-687-3387.
When this podcast was recorded, Roy and his wife, MaryMargaret, were looking for a new place to live. And as they searched for a house, Roy noticed how similar it is to searching for a partner. Roy felt like he was “single” again, searching for the “one.”
In this episode, Roy shares what we can learn about our search for a partner from his search for a house. He points not so much to the desired outcome (the right partner or house), but more to how we are going about the search itself. You’ll learn that either search can be done from fear and scarcity or trust and abundance.
If you’re searching for your life partner, don’t miss this powerful, creative episode.
Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:
Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com
Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/
Roy’s 3 Books:
· Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR
· Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh
· A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K
Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/
Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at [email protected] or call his cell 407-687-3387.
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109 How to Resurrect Your Love Life (Easter Edition)
In this Easter edition of the podcast, Roy offers direction and hope to people who feel like their love lives are “dead and buried.”
You will be asked to face 3 essential questions that will raise your love life from the dead—if they are answered with self-awareness and courage. So, if you’d like to “roll away the stone” and resurrect your love life, then don’t miss this episode.
Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:
Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com
Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/
Roy’s 3 Books:
· Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR
· Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh
· A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K
Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/
Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at [email protected] or call his cell 407-687-3387.
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111 The Birthday Battle (Roy's Birthday Edition)
Since this podcast originally dropped on Roy’s birthday (April 25), he’s devoted this episode to discussing the very common but very powerful feelings that can arise around birthdays.
So, whether you’re turning 30 and you thought your career would have taken off by now, or if you’re turning 40 and you thought you’d have started a family by now, or if you’re turning 50 and having a midlife crisis because it feels like you’re living someone else’s life, or if you’re just feeling old and past your prime, this podcast is sure to offer help.
If you like your next birthday to feel happy rather than helpless, don’t miss this episode.
Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:
Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com
Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/
Roy’s 3 Books:
· Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR
· Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh
· A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K
Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/
Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at [email protected] or call his cell 407-687-3387.
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