089 Gratitude as a Way of Life (Thanksgiving Edition)

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11/21/22 • 47 min

Who are you more attracted to: a person who bitches, moans and complains about everything, or a person who is grateful, appreciative and thankful? The answer is obvious, wouldn’t you say? But who doesn’t struggle, at times, with negativity, complaining and feeling entitled?

Well, in this Thanksgiving edition of the podcast, Roy talks about gratitude—not just for this time of year—but as a way of life. He explores the inner shifts in perspective that enable us to be more thankful and appreciative every day of the year.

If you would like to boost your gratitude quotient, and become a more attractive partner because of it, then don’t miss this episode.

Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

Roy’s 3 Books:

Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR
Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh
A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at [email protected] or call his cell 407-687-3387.

If you would like to boost your gratitude quotient, and become a more attractive partner because of it, then don’t miss this episode.

Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

Roy’s 3 Books:

Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR
Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh
A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at [email protected] or call his cell 407-687-3387.

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088 The Scarcity Mindset: The Silent Killer of the Single Person's Soul

Have you heard the cliché, “what you see is what you get”? It points to the truth that our beliefs create our realities. In other words, if we see the world in a certain way—for example, if we believe that there is a scarcity of quality, available partners—the world will show up that way.

Having a scarcity mindset is probably THE most common, self-sabotaging barrier to attracting lasting love. The scarcity mindset will kill your soul and keep you single.

Therefore, in this episode, Roy explores not only the dangers of the scarcity mindset, but in a playful (and musical!) way, he lays out a very practical step-by-step way to let go of scarcity and embrace sufficiency as a world view.

If you want to change your view from “all the good ones are taken or gay,” to “it’s raining men, hallelujah, it’s raining men!,” then don’t miss the episode.

Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

Roy’s 3 Books:

Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR
Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh
A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at [email protected] or call his cell 407-687-3387.

Next Episode

090: Practical Ways to Love Yourself

In previous episodes, Roy has shared a list of his favorite personal growth books (#30), his favorite personal growth questions (#’s 62-66), and his favorite personal growth quotes (#’s 77-82). But now, in this episode, he shares his favorite personal growth tools.

The tools he mentions are things he has practiced and still practices to this very day. The premise is simple: Loving yourself means using these tools on yourself so that you can feel more grounded, be less reactive, end drama and connect deeply with those around you.

If you want that, then don’t miss this episode.

Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

Michael Singer: www.tou.org

Byron Katie: www.thework.com

Hale Dwoskin: www.sedona.com

For The Radiant Woman or The Superior Man eCourses, see Roy's website.

Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

Roy’s 3 Books: