
Building Conscious Control of Self by Redefining Boundaries
07/16/24 • 23 min
Ever wonder how a control freak can transform stress into resilience? Let me tell you about my personal journey of managing emotional challenges, channeling my inner Monica from "Friends" to declutter my mind and soul. By likening human existence to a tree's roots—uncontrollable aspects like birth and environment—I share how shifting from subconscious to conscious control can pave the way for personal growth and resilience. This episode dives deep into the significance of coping strategies, offering actionable insights that can help you foster a sense of control and enhance your mental well-being.
Join me as I recount the invaluable lessons learned from my mentor, Sergeant Major Goodman, who taught me to never accept "I can't." Explore the transformative power of redefining self-worth and personal boundaries through the concept of "40 inches" of personal space learned in ROTC. This idea was further expanded to "six feet" during the COVID-19 pandemic, underscoring the importance of close relationships and community. By consciously managing our time and energy, and ensuring our environments and interactions uplift us, we can build a solid foundation to face an unpredictable world. Tune in for a heartfelt and practical guide on navigating the path to resilience.
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Disclaimer: “The Artist Within Podcast” is for educational and informational purposes only. We are not medical professionals, and the content should not be considered medical advice. For specific medical advice, diagnoses, and treatment, consult your physician or a qualified healthcare provider.
Ever wonder how a control freak can transform stress into resilience? Let me tell you about my personal journey of managing emotional challenges, channeling my inner Monica from "Friends" to declutter my mind and soul. By likening human existence to a tree's roots—uncontrollable aspects like birth and environment—I share how shifting from subconscious to conscious control can pave the way for personal growth and resilience. This episode dives deep into the significance of coping strategies, offering actionable insights that can help you foster a sense of control and enhance your mental well-being.
Join me as I recount the invaluable lessons learned from my mentor, Sergeant Major Goodman, who taught me to never accept "I can't." Explore the transformative power of redefining self-worth and personal boundaries through the concept of "40 inches" of personal space learned in ROTC. This idea was further expanded to "six feet" during the COVID-19 pandemic, underscoring the importance of close relationships and community. By consciously managing our time and energy, and ensuring our environments and interactions uplift us, we can build a solid foundation to face an unpredictable world. Tune in for a heartfelt and practical guide on navigating the path to resilience.
Listen, follow, subscribe, and share! Join us in spreading the message of creativity and empowerment. Subscribe to our YouTube channel for more inspiring content.
Website: https://www.phinc-ing.org/taw
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/projecthumanincphinc
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taw_theartistwithin_podcast/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552201342590
Disclaimer: “The Artist Within Podcast” is for educational and informational purposes only. We are not medical professionals, and the content should not be considered medical advice. For specific medical advice, diagnoses, and treatment, consult your physician or a qualified healthcare provider.
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Listen, follow, subscribe, and share! Join us in spreading the message of creativity and empowerment. Subscribe to our YouTube channel for more inspiring content.
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YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/projecthumanincphinc
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taw_theartistwithin_podcast/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552201342590
Disclaimer: “The Artist Within Podcast” is for educational and informational purposes only. We are not medical professionals, and the content should not be considered medical advice. For specific medical advice, diagnoses, and treatment, consult your physician or a qualified healthcare provider.
The Artist Within Podcast - Building Conscious Control of Self by Redefining Boundaries
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Hello friends , welcome to the Artist Within Podcast Season 1 , the Road to Resilience . I am your host , adela Hittel ,
Speaker 1and this podcast is produced by Project Human Think a new way to think about mental health . Our whole mission and vision of this podcast and our organization is to provide you with resources that you can take upon y
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