S3E14 - What it's Like Being an SMC and How it Changed Everything w/ Aisha

07/31/24 • 29 min

In this heartfelt episode, I share the transformative journey of becoming a Single Mother by Choice (SMC) and how it has profoundly reshaped my life. From confronting my deepest fears to embracing a slower pace dictated by the tiny legs of my toddler, this path has taught me invaluable lessons about legacy, grace, and simplicity. Join me as I discuss the importance of health, estate planning, and maintaining perspective through the joys and challenges of solo parenting. Whether it’s reclaiming the simple joys of road trips and pillow forts, or navigating the complexities of dating as a single parent, this episode is filled with personal insights and reflections. Don’t miss out—listen now and discover how becoming an SMC might inspire changes in your own life! If you enjoyed this episode, please share it with others who might find it meaningful.

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S3E13 - What's it Like Going Through the Thinking Phase as a Twenty Something w/ Charon

Join Aishaas she chats with Charon, a 28-year-old finance professional from Chicago, about what it's like to consider becoming a Single Mother by Choice (SMC) while living a balanced life. Sharron shares her journey through the thinking phase, highlighting the importance of self-reflection, financial preparedness, and the emotional rollercoaster of facing criticisms and support from different avenues. Listen as they discuss dating, managing ADHD and autism, and living life to the fullest. Tune in for practical advice and inspiring stories, and don't forget to follow Start to Finish Motherhood on Instagram or email Aisha to continue the conversation!

00:00 Introduction to Start to Finish Motherhood 01:45 Meet Charon: A 28-Year-Old in the Thinking Phase 02:26 Navigating the Thinking Phase: Challenges and Reflections 04:21 Support Systems and Safe Spaces 05:50 Dealing with Unsupportive Friends and Family 12:33 Dating as a Single Mother by Choice 18:12 Unexpected Encounters at Trader Joe's 18:27 Trader Joe's Love Language 20:41 Living Life: Fresh Starts and Haircuts 22:05 Content Creation Journey 24:50 Future Plans and Geographic Considerations 29:13 Advice for Aspiring Single Mothers by Choice 34:17 Final Thoughts and Social Media Handles

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S3E15 - What's it Like to Welcome a Second Child w/ Shivonne

Join Aisha as she reunites with Shivonne, who shares her journey for a second child and the challenges of juggling motherhood. Discover the emotional rollercoaster of IVF, the reality of mom guilt, and the joy of completing her family. Shivonne opens up about the support she received, the adjustments she had to make, and the importance of giving oneself grace during this journey. Listen in for practical advice, touching moments, and a testament to resilience. If you’re a single mother by choice or supporting one, this episode is a must-listen! Follow us on Instagram or email Aisha at starttofinishmotherhood.com for more insights. Click here to listen to the previous episode with Shivonne, S1E12 00:00 Introduction to Start to Finish Motherhood 00:26 Catching Up with Shivonne 01:39 Shivonne's Journey to a Second Child 04:31 Navigating the Fourth Trimester 08:42 Adjusting to Life with Two Children 09:31 Financial and Emotional Challenges 14:03 Preparing for a New Addition 20:10 Support Systems and Advice 23:08 Balancing Life and Motherhood 24:42 Essential Baby Items and Childcare Plans 28:03 Maternity Leave and Final Thoughts 30:54 Advice for New and Expecting Moms 33:56 Conclusion and Farewell