Start to Finish Motherhood with Aisha

In this heartfelt episode, we sit down with Erica, a courageous member of the Melanated Single Mothers by Choice community, to discuss her powerful journey through single motherhood, adoption, and a breast cancer diagnosis. Erika opens up about her decision to become a single mom through adoption, the emotional impact of her cancer diagnosis, and the strength it took to fight for her life while raising two young children. She emphasizes the importance of self-advocacy, the support of her loving village, and maintaining an optimistic outlook during tough times. Erika's story is one of resilience and hope—don't miss it!

00:00 Introduction and Trigger Warning

00:33 Erica's Journey to Single Motherhood

02:53 Breast Cancer Diagnosis

03:20 Ground Rules for the Conversation

05:45 Navigating the Diagnosis

10:10 Understanding Triple Negative Breast Cancer

11:57 Receiving the Diagnosis and Mobilizing Support

19:42 Undergoing Treatment and Managing Life

25:44 Support System During Treatment

26:26 Parenting Through Treatment

29:18 Coping with Hair Loss

33:45 Life After Treatment

41:30 Advocacy and Self-Care

Erika was gracious enough to return this week and share the often untold story of her breast reconstruction after a double mastectomy. She shares her thoughtful decision-making process, overcoming challenges, and the emotional highs and lows of her journey. This candid conversation offers invaluable insights into the decisions, surgeries, and considerations involved in breast reconstruction, all while highlighting the importance of support, self-awareness, and medical guidance. Tune in to hear her inspiring story and discover the strength and resilience that fuels her recovery. If you know someone on a similar path or seeking support, share this episode with them!

00:00 Introduction to Breast Reconstruction Journey

00:20 Choosing the Right Surgeon

00:46 Deciding on Double Mastectomy and Implants

01:26 Challenges and Delays Due to COVID

02:33 Deep Flap Surgery Explained

04:22 Nipple Reconstruction Options

10:15 Chemotherapy and Radiation Differences

13:03 Triple Negative Breast Cancer

14:17 Deep Flap Surgery Details

18:46 Final Thoughts and Gratitude

In this episode, we have an enlightening conversation with Dr. Natasha, also known as the Medical Tourism RN. We dive deep into important topics surrounding reproductive health, fertility options, and the growing trend of medical and fertility tourism. From understanding a basic fertility workup to navigating international healthcare systems, we cover a wide variety of topics that are crucial for women, especially those in the Single Mother by Choice (SMC) community. Whether you're considering IVF, looking for cost-effective healthcare options abroad, or just want to understand your reproductive health better, this episode is packed with valuable information. Don't miss out—tune in to empower yourself with knowledge and make informed decisions about your fertility journey!

MedicalTourism RN

Reproductive Health: Navigating Wellness For Black Women to Prepare to Go Abroad

00:00 Introduction and Podcast Goals

01:40 Introducing the Guest: Dr. Natasha

02:19 Fertility Conversations and Advocacy

06:10 Understanding Fertility Workups

16:20 International Perspectives on Fertility and Healthcare

25:08 Understanding Your Health Plan

25:22 Preparing for Travel During Pregnancy

25:42 International Coverage and Reimbursement

26:17 Personal Experience with International Coverage

28:25 Researching International Healthcare Options

28:37 Accreditation and Quality of Care

30:26 Key Considerations for Fertility Treatment Abroad

32:24 Financial Feasibility of Medical Tourism

33:27 Local Fertility Laws and Regulations

39:17 Popular Countries for IVF Treatment

41:31 Increasing Trend of Medical Tourism

44:06 Final Thoughts and Resources

In the final episode of season three, Aisha reflects on a transformative year and shares her excitement for an upcoming epic trip (to Sri Lanka) with her two daughters. Aisha discusses the importance of living an extraordinary life, surrounding oneself with a supportive community, and the enriching experiences of travel. As she plans their journey to Sri Lanka with the help of a dear friend, Aisha provides practical tips and heartfelt advice for single mothers by choice. Tune in for an inspiring close to the season and follow the conversation on Instagram or via email to stay connected and share your own experiences.

00:00 Introduction to Start to Finish Motherhood

00:28 Reflecting on Season Three

01:06 Planning an Epic Trip

01:48 Living an Extraordinary Life

03:48 Community and Support

05:55 Preparing for a Sabbatical

06:54 Challenges and Resilience

10:59 Deciding on the Destination

12:12 Travel Logistics and Considerations

20:08 Final Preparations and Excitement

21:58 Conclusion and Farewell

In this episode, Aisha is joined by Alease, an esteemed embryologist from North Carolina, to discuss the significant Alabama Supreme Court ruling on frozen embryos. This ruling has sparked discussions about the legal status of embryos and its effects on IVF treatments. Alease provides an in-depth look at Assisted Reproductive Technologies (ART), from the science behind embryo development to the steps leading to potential pregnancy. They also address the immediate concerns of patients in Alabama, including the impact on ongoing and future treatment cycles, legal uncertainties, and the situation for those with embryos stored in the state. This conversation offers valuable insights into the intersection of reproductive technology, law, and ethics.

Follow Alease: Alease Daniel Barnes, B.S. Embryologist (@alease_the_embryologist) • Instagram photos and videos

RESOLVE’s Statement Regarding Alabama Supreme Court Ruling |

ASRM Condemns Profoundly Misguided and Dangerous Court Decision in Alabama | American Society for Reproductive Medicine | ASRM