S3E17 - What's It like Parenting (as an SMC) Through and After a Breast Cancer Diagnosis w/ Erika
08/21/24 • 47 min
In this heartfelt episode, we sit down with Erica, a courageous member of the Melanated Single Mothers by Choice community, to discuss her powerful journey through single motherhood, adoption, and a breast cancer diagnosis. Erika opens up about her decision to become a single mom through adoption, the emotional impact of her cancer diagnosis, and the strength it took to fight for her life while raising two young children. She emphasizes the importance of self-advocacy, the support of her loving village, and maintaining an optimistic outlook during tough times. Erika's story is one of resilience and hope—don't miss it!
00:00 Introduction and Trigger Warning
00:33 Erica's Journey to Single Motherhood
02:53 Breast Cancer Diagnosis
03:20 Ground Rules for the Conversation
05:45 Navigating the Diagnosis
10:10 Understanding Triple Negative Breast Cancer
11:57 Receiving the Diagnosis and Mobilizing Support
19:42 Undergoing Treatment and Managing Life
25:44 Support System During Treatment
26:26 Parenting Through Treatment
29:18 Coping with Hair Loss
33:45 Life After Treatment
41:30 Advocacy and Self-Care
In this heartfelt episode, we sit down with Erica, a courageous member of the Melanated Single Mothers by Choice community, to discuss her powerful journey through single motherhood, adoption, and a breast cancer diagnosis. Erika opens up about her decision to become a single mom through adoption, the emotional impact of her cancer diagnosis, and the strength it took to fight for her life while raising two young children. She emphasizes the importance of self-advocacy, the support of her loving village, and maintaining an optimistic outlook during tough times. Erika's story is one of resilience and hope—don't miss it!
00:00 Introduction and Trigger Warning
00:33 Erica's Journey to Single Motherhood
02:53 Breast Cancer Diagnosis
03:20 Ground Rules for the Conversation
05:45 Navigating the Diagnosis
10:10 Understanding Triple Negative Breast Cancer
11:57 Receiving the Diagnosis and Mobilizing Support
19:42 Undergoing Treatment and Managing Life
25:44 Support System During Treatment
26:26 Parenting Through Treatment
29:18 Coping with Hair Loss
33:45 Life After Treatment
41:30 Advocacy and Self-Care
Previous Episode
S3E16 - What Are the Stages of The SMC Journey w/ Regine
Join Aisha as she chats with Regine, founder of Solo Mom by Choice (SMBC) Resources, for an insightful conversation about the stages of the Single Mother by Choice (SMC) journey. From contemplation and deciding the right path, to preparing, waiting, and ultimately welcoming a child, Aisha and Regine break down the intricate steps involved. They share personal experiences, the importance of community, and the emotional and financial aspects of this unique path to motherhood. Tune in to learn more and get practical advice if you’re considering or navigating the SMC path. Reach out with your questions or join the conversation on @smbcresources on Instagram! 00:00 Welcome to Start to Finish Motherhood 00:31 Introducing Regine and Her Journey 00:55 Stages of the SMC Journey 01:25 Regine's Story and SMBC Resources 03:41 Contemplation and Research Stage 05:31 Choosing the Path: Adoption or ART 09:51 Emotional and Physical Preparation 15:22 Waiting and Coping with Uncertainty 16:18 Pregnancy and Placement 24:45 Financial Considerations and Challenges 26:43 Welcoming the Child and Parenting Realities 28:28 Building Community and Support 29:57 Conclusion and Resources
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S3E18 - What's Involved in Breast Reconstruction Surgery w/ Erika
Erika was gracious enough to return this week and share the often untold story of her breast reconstruction after a double mastectomy. She shares her thoughtful decision-making process, overcoming challenges, and the emotional highs and lows of her journey. This candid conversation offers invaluable insights into the decisions, surgeries, and considerations involved in breast reconstruction, all while highlighting the importance of support, self-awareness, and medical guidance. Tune in to hear her inspiring story and discover the strength and resilience that fuels her recovery. If you know someone on a similar path or seeking support, share this episode with them!
00:00 Introduction to Breast Reconstruction Journey
00:20 Choosing the Right Surgeon
00:46 Deciding on Double Mastectomy and Implants
01:26 Challenges and Delays Due to COVID
02:33 Deep Flap Surgery Explained
04:22 Nipple Reconstruction Options
10:15 Chemotherapy and Radiation Differences
13:03 Triple Negative Breast Cancer
14:17 Deep Flap Surgery Details
18:46 Final Thoughts and Gratitude
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