Living Life to the Fullest with Terminal Illness with Guest Host: Booky

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05/23/23 • 35 min

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Welcome back, squad! This is a special episode where our hosts, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles, sit down with the ever-inspiring Booky, who shares her incredible life story and imparts wisdom that only comes from facing life's toughest battles head-on. From living with a terminal illness to finding joy in the mundane, this episode is a rollercoaster of emotions wrapped with laughter, insights, and unfiltered truths.

**Key Lessons:**

1. **Live in the Moment:** Booky's philosophy of living life spontaneously, without excessive planning, is a testament to the importance of being present and enjoying life's journey, no matter where it leads you.

2. **Laughter Is Healing:** The power of laughter, especially self-deprecating humor, is a healing force that Booky, G-Rex, and the squad deeply believe in. Human connection and shared joy can be the best medicine.

3. **Wisdom With Age:** Reflections on youth and maturity remind us to learn from past experiences but not dwell on them. Booky's look back at her recklessness in youth sheds light on the value of growth and wisdom.

4. **Value Experiences Over Things:** Our conversations reveal how travel and experiences bring far more joy and fulfillment than material possessions ever could. Greece, Edinburgh, or just a simple reunion at the beach – it’s all about the memories.

5. **Openness and Planning:** Despite her diagnosis, Booky's approach to being open with her family and making necessary legal arrangements teaches us to confront difficult situations head-on and with clear, open communication.

6. **Pursue Joy and Avoid Procrastination:** Don't put off what can bring happiness to you and your loved ones. Time is precious, so make the most of it with those who matter.

7. **Support Systems are Crucial:** Whether it's dealing with recovery, fears, or the daunting task of making complex decisions, having a 'squad' or family, both blood and chosen, is invaluable.

8. **Dealing with Substance Use Sensibly:** Booky's decision to abstain from alcohol due to her health conditions highlights the importance of making wise choices for long-term well-being.

9. **Find Beauty in Scars:** From discussing nipple tattoos to embracing the stories our bodies tell, there is empowerment in choosing how to heal and adorn ourselves after life-changing events like breast surgery.

**Wisdom Shared:**

"Worry more about the neighbors than the neighborhood."

"Don’t procrastinate the joy."

If this episode has moved you, taught you, or simply made you laugh, don't forget to share it with your own squad. Remember, it’s okay to not be okay, and there's strength in talking it out. Until next time, keep finding your joy, embracing the chaos, and chatting about all the sh!t that goes on in our heads.

**Special Thanks:**

A heartfelt thank you to Booky for her courage, humor, and for gracing us with her presence on today's episode. You are a beacon of light in the darkness, and we're all the better for knowing you.

Remember to leave a review, share the podcast, and, if you're feeling deeply touched by the conversation, consider supporting causes that Booky holds dear. Until the next time our thoughts collide, take care of your headspace!

#TerminalWisdom #LaughterIsTherapy #ValueExperiences #OpennessInAdversity #SquadGoals #TravelTherapy #SelfCareSquad #LifeBeyondCancer #TattooHealing #LifeLessonsUnleashed

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**Key Lessons:**

6. **Pursue Joy and Avoid Procrastination:** Don't put off what can bring happiness to you and your loved ones. Time is precious, so make the most of it with those who matter.

7. **Support Systems are Crucial:** Whether it's dealing with recovery, fears, or the daunting task of making complex decisions, having a 'squad' or family, both blood and chosen, is invaluable.

8. **Dealing with Substance Use Sensibly:** Booky's decision to abstain from alcohol due to her health conditions highlights the importance of making wise choices for long-term well-being.

**Wisdom Shared:**

"Worry more about the neighbors than the neighborhood."

"Don’t procrastinate the joy."

**Special Thanks:**

A heartfelt thank you to Booky for her courage, humor, and for gracing us with her presence on today's episode. You are a beacon of light in the darkness, and we're all the better for knowing you.

#TerminalWisdom #LaughterIsTherapy #ValueExperiences #OpennessInAdversity #SquadGoals #TravelTherapy #SelfCareSquad #LifeBeyondCancer #TattooHealing #LifeLessonsUnleashed

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Solid as a Rock

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In this thought-provoking episode of "Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads," we dive headfirst into the complexities of modern parenting with our guest Rock – a single father who’s candidly managing the balance between protecting his children and preparing them for the realities of an often prejudiced world.

**What We Covered:**

**Modern Parenting in a Digital Age:** Rock’s anxiety regarding his 10-year-old’s encounter with inappropriate online content lead to a necessary conversation with the child’s mother, showcasing their commitment to co-parenting.

**Facing Societal Challenges:** Rock delves into his fears regarding how his kids, especially due to their racial background, are perceived and treated by society.

**The Height Debate:** Our guest shares a moment of humor, declining to reveal his height, which he feels could unfairly affect perceptions in hypothetical confrontations regarding his children's safety.

**Race and Reality:** Powerful discussions ensue about the paramount importance of teaching children about racial discrimination, influenced by Rock’s personal experiences and the Black Lives Matter movement.

**Dating and Dialogue:** Rock opens up about encouraging his daughters to embrace their sexuality without shame, ensuring they feel comfortable to communicate freely with him.

**A Fathers’ Joys and Jokes:** Despite the heavier themes, Rock keeps up a lighter side, joking about wanting to become a young grandpa, while also addressing concerns about young exposure to technology.

**Lessons Learned:**

1. Co-parenting requires open communication and a unified response to digital-age challenges.

2. Nurturing your child includes preparing them for the reality of societal prejudices while instilling hope for the future.

3. Honesty is key in conversations with children about sensitive topics, from sexuality to race relations.

4. Bigotry often stems from ignorance; education and real-life experiences can pave the way for enlightenment and empathy.

5. It’s vital to have a support system and be able to share experiences, easing the solitary burden of difficult emotions.

**Inspirational Moment**

Rock reflects on the gravity of his duty as a parent to shield his children from discrimination, simultaneously recognizing the strides made by the younger generation influenced by movements like BLM.

**Heartfelt Humor**

Even amidst serious discussion, the episode is peppered with inside jokes and lighthearted banter, reminding listeners of the joy that can coexist with struggle in the journey of parenthood.

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**Follow along with Rock, G-Rex, and Dirty Skittles as they unpack the "Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads" and navigate the messy, yet rewarding path of raising the next generation.**

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#Parenthood #CoParenting #DigitalAge #SocietalChallenges #BlackLivesMatter #OnlineDating #ModernFamily #ParentingHumor #RacialEquality #LifeLessons #STGOIOHpodcast

S02E04 Solid as a Rock

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G-Rex returns to the States after a memorable trip to Europe

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In this enthralling episode of "Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads," join G-Rex and Dirty Skittles as they take you on a European journey filled with culinary delights, luxury travel, cultural richness, and heartfelt moments. Get ready to stamp your mental passport as we dive into the details from G-Rex's European adventure.

### Highlights of Today's Episode:

**Pasta with a Side of Escargot:** G-Rex's kitchen dilemma turns into a delightful recollection of tasting escargot in France. Should we dare to serve escargot to our producer?

**Retirement Reflections:** G-Rex opens up about retirement and cherishes the time he's spending with his beloved wife. It's all about finding the value in every moment!

**David and Drinks:** A humorous exchange about Michelangelo's David leads to a bigger conversation about "drinking" and "little pickle"—prepare for laughs and a cheeky size joke. Disclaimer: G-Rex professes no expertise on men!

**Travel Tips for the Greek Isles:** G-Rex recommends working with a travel agent for those needing mobility accommodations in Mykonos and Santorini. Discover when Mykonos’s beauty peaks and why staying atop Santorini’s hills is a step saver!

**Embracing Life with Less Luggage:** Our favorite memories from G-Rex's trip include a cooking class and an island cruise. Hear his advice on traveling light, being grateful, and soaking in life’s experiences.

**Future Travels:** G-Rex and his wife are eyeing Canada, Newport, and a possible aloha to Hawaii. Any recommendations?

**Tales of Transit:** From negotiating a stylish Italian bag down to $300 to traveling in bougie vehicles, G-Rex's travel tales are as luxurious as they are enlightening.

**Paris to Athens:** The couple’s journey led them from the fashionable streets of Paris to the historical depths of Athens. Discover why Business Class is the secret weapon against jet lag.

**Champagne Dreams and Tuscan Scenes:** G-Rex paints a vivid picture of Paris’s Champagne region and Florence's divine food and art. Don't miss the story of his romantic re-proposal in the City of Light!

### Lessons Learned:

Embrace the local culture and cuisines to fully experience your travel destinations.

Sometimes the best way to remember a trip is by the people you meet and the relationships you strengthen, not just the sights you see.

Luxury travel may offer comfort, but the true richness comes from the places you visit and the memories you create.

Retirement offers a precious opportunity to explore the world and savor moments with the ones you love.

Life can be unpredictable, and we should be grateful for every experience we have.

### Recommendations:

Interested in a trip to Greece? September to mid-October in Mykonos is a revelation, just as staying on top of Santorini's hills is a logistical win.

Consider packing light to make your travel more enjoyable and less cumbersome.

#EuropeanAdventure #TravelTips #CulinaryJourneys #RetirementGoals #LuxuryTravel #GreekIsles #EmbraceLife #CarryOnOnly #WineAndDine #ArtAndCulture #EscapeWithUs #PodcastTravelDiaries #STGOIOH

S02E06 G-Rex returns to the States after a memorable trip to Europe

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