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Date More Stress Less With My Little Black Book Co-Founders Billie Prisby and Melissa Gross
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07/22/22 • 29 min
Today's guests are Billie Prisby and Melissa Gross, the co-founders of the new app–My Little Black Book–The Dating Organizer launching in August. This app will revolutionize the complicated world of online dating.
The truth is–dating apps can be overwhelming, time-consuming, and unorganized. Billie and Melissa share how they’ve developed an organizational productivity system, so you can enjoy dating in a fun, easy, and safe way so finding love won’t feel like a full-time job!
Billie Prisby and Melissa Gross met in dentistry, and while working together realized they experienced similar dating issues. Together, they combined their knowledge and passion and plan on shaking up the dating industry hoping to make real and impactful social change. Their goal is to put the power back in the hands of the user, with safety being the core of My Little Black Book. Whether you prefer Tinder, Match, Christian Mingle or Bumble to get busy, My Little Black Book offers a one-stop shop. A place where trying to remember who is on what app will be a problem of the past. These two impressive women are here to modernize a landscape that has remained virtually untouched for the past ten years, and to give the power of organization and control and control back to you!
Today, we discuss how to put safety into our own hands and be proactive. And how this dating toolbox works as a diary or spreadsheet keeping track of everyone you're communicating with while organizing upcoming dates and learn why digital organization starts with a little black book!
Kerry Brett, Billie Prisby and Melissa Gross cover a lot of ground topics include;
How My Little Black Book keeps you organized making the whole process easier, so you’ll have more time to date.
How My Little Black Book helps you avoid mixing people that you’re texting.
Examples of how My Little Black Book helps you be more successful at dating.
My Little Black Book’s safety features.
How My Little Black Book tailors to each person’s needs helping you to keep everything straight in a more organized way.
How My Little Black Book allows you to add specific details about the people you are in communication with.
My Little Black Book has a built-in feature where you can rate your date.
My Little Black Book has a built-in feature where it does background checks and supplies you with an incognito number if you choose for safety purposes.
To find out more about My Little Book go to www.mlbb.rocks.
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Searching For A Unicorn In An Online World: 10 Things Women Wished You Knew With Writer, Mara Stefan
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07/17/22 • 41 min
In this week’s episode we discuss 10 tips for showing up online as yourwonderfully unique and attractive self. Today’s guestisMara Stefan who wrote the article that was published in the Good Men Project titled Searching for a Unicorn in an Online World: 10 Things Women Wished You Knew. We discuss how to make the task of sorting through all of the profiles a little easier, why the eyes have it, why you should smile in your photographs, be available emotionally and for God sake keep your clothes on!
Mara Stefan has spent most of her more than 25-year career helping companies and executives establish thought leadership positions with their industries. She has overseen strategic partnerships with organizations including, The World EconomicForum, TED, The Nantucket Project and Thinkers50 among others. She’s also awriter who is currently working on a book aimed at women in the post pandemic world of work and often writes lifestyle blogs that have been published on sites like Thrive Global. Mara is a recovering hockey mom and attempts to navigate life’s challenges with the help of her family, friends, silly pets, and wine as needed.
Mara has been single for years now and is no stranger to online dating and has a lot to say about profiles, her love/hate relationship with online dating and the process of finding a soul mate.
Kerry Brett and Mara Stefan cover a lot of ground. Topics include;
The value of investing in yourself.
Take small steps putting the focus on you, book a professional headshot, buy a new pair of jeans or make the effort to get back out their even if it’s making new friends.
How to plan to date differently this time around.
How to shift the energy when you put yourself first and invest in yourself.
Mara’s list of 10 Things: What Women Wish You Knew.
Dating can be difficult and at times frustrating but it’s not enough to not try.
If the process of online dating scares the hell out of you it’s helpful to lean on your friends, have a wing girl or an accountability partner–someone to cheer you on to push you out of your comfort zone.
The pandemic made us feel bad about ourselves–Mara’s advice for rebuilding your confidence and how you feel about yourself.
The time is now! It’s time–WHY because you’ve run out of excuses. Take one step at a time and I promise it will get easier, you’ll gain more confidence over time and you’ll get there.
To find out more about Mara Stefan, you can follow her under Mara Stefan on LinkedIn, and Facebook. You can read her article Searching for a Unicorn in an Online World: 10 Things Women Wished You Knew on the Good Men Project.
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07/06/22 • 33 min
Too often, we default to victim mode when dating, and falling into this mindset hurts our results. Today's guest is Jill Sylvester, a licensed therapist and author of the book, Trust Your Intuition. Jill helps us avoid staying stuck, feeling bad about our past mistakes, and how to find confidence in our abilities. Summer is the time to be out dating, and there is no reason to hold ourselves back. Why are we waiting months, weeks, or days to find love? Jill shares how she helps her clients realize the time is now and, most importantly, how to change their mindset. Because when you change how you feel about yourself, everything will change! Jill discusses the power of setting intentions, manifestation and trusting your intuition.
Jill's also a speaker, host of the podcast Trust Your Intuition and author of the book Trust Your Intuition: 100 Ways to Transform Anxiety and Depression for Stronger Mental Health, and author of the young adult novels, The Land of Blue and Devon: Dream Agent Series. Her work deals with personal growth and development, intuition, and energy. Jill teaches by focusing on your power, you raise the standards for your life, ultimately affecting the world around you. She has successfully guided thousands of client sessions in her private practice toward stronger health, wellness, and transformation. Jill's passion is helping others see past the darkness to find the light.
Kerry Brett and Jill Sylvester cover a lot of ground. Topics include;
How to find the next thing that helps you find joy and get out of pain.
Why goals need to be fed every day.
How to align with the force to make a change.
How to flip the script with action. What are you doing to move forward? Find one thing each day to do to move forward.
Why it's so important to flex the muscle of worthiness and remind ourselves that we are worth it.
Jill's tips around working on the worthiness piece.
How to get out of victim mode.
Start somewhere – put it out there, do one thing to bring that person towards you.
Why you need to stop worrying about what other people think.
You can't hold a negative thought and a positive thought at the same time. Chose the positive thought.
How to avoid perfection – and why you have the opportunity to get it right every day.
To find out more about Jill Sylvester, go to her website jillsylvester.com. All of Jill's books can be found on Amazon. Listen to her podcast Trust Your Intuition and follow her on Instagram @jillsylvester.
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03/31/23 • 39 min
This week we will learn about Lola, a new dating app launching in Boston and New York this summer. Today's guest is Paul English the founder of six startups and co-founder of Kayak, a travel industry giant he sold to Priceline for 1.8 billion dollars. Paul is passionate about finding a better way and uses his creativity to solve problems. Years ago, when online dating himself - Paul could identify issues and became compelled to solve the frustrations many faced with existing dating apps. It was a match on Bumble with Rachel Cohen, who became his girlfriend, and now the couple is taking on a new challenge with the upcoming launch of their dating app, Lola. Through Lola, Paul and Rachel plan on creating a new way to connect. Paul shares the vision and inspiration behind Lola, and learn about the exciting possibilities that lie ahead for this new dating app.
Paul English is the founder of Boston Venture Studio and he’s also an entrepreneur, and philanthropist who has previously co-founded and successfully sold six startups – Kayak, Lola, Moonbeam, GetHuman, Boston Light, and Intermute. Paul is also the founder of four nonprofits – Summits Education in Haiti, Embrace Boston, The Winter Walk for Homelessness, and The Bipolar Social Club. Paul is the subject of Tracy Kidder's book "A Truck Full of Money" and you can hear an interview with Paul on "How I Built This" with Guy Raz and view his video from TEDxBoston in 2022. I’ve watched and listened to it all and I can’t tell you how special this man is!
Kerry Brett and Paul English discuss the common struggles many have with online dating and how Paul plans on changing the online dating culture and improve and simplify the over dating experience.
How Lola will filter out terrible daters.
How Lola will use A1 to give the users better matches.
Lola will be very safe for women.
Lola will have a component built into the app that will find a place in the middle for you to meet.
How Lola will use machine learning to help find you a better date.
Lola will cut down catfishing.
Lola will filter out people who don't practice good behavior.
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It’s never too late for a new beginning or to live the life of your dreams. Just ask Raven Blair Glover, the Talk Show Maven, founder of Raven International Broadcast Empire, and Power Me Up Radio Talk 24/7. After years of searching for her purpose, Raven began to fulfill her lifelong dream by creating a show on a hospital computer at the age of 55 at her mother’s bedside at the Methodist Hospital in Texas – a show she took all the way to the top! Jack Canfield calls her the best interviewer on the planet, to becoming a 5-time Award Winning Radio Host and receiving prestigious awards such as being the proud recipient of the 2016 Lifetime Achievement Award from President Barack Obama. Aside from achieving her professional goals she also found personal success when she found love at age sixty with soul mate Grammy Award-Winning mixing engineer Khaliq Glover. Raven shares her story of how her life changed when she decided to step up, show up and grow up to make her dreams come true and why you don’t have to wait to be great!
Kerry Brett and Raven Blair Glover cover a lot of ground topics include;
What the mind can conceive it will achieve and why you need to be ok failing forward.
Raven’s golden rule – "if it’s meant to be then it’s up to me.”
What you speak about you bring about – if you speak it out into the universe it will happen.
Why you should give yourself permission to succeed.
Why nothing beats failure than a try.
Why you should show up in a big way when you’re going for your dream – showing up in a way thatl makes you stand out in the relationship.
Be honest with yourself and take a good look in the mirror. Be willing to own your part.
It’s not over until it’s over and why it’s not how you start but how you finish.
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In this special episode, I’m honored to welcome Natalie Lue, someone who has profoundly influenced the lives of countless individuals, including myself. Natalie Lue, a beacon of inspiration, joins us today. As a podcaster, speaker, artist, and renowned author, her remarkable works, particularly "Mr. Unavailable and the Fallback Girl," have left an indelible mark. Natalie's narrative is a testament to the transformative power of self-discovery.
Natalie's story is a tale of metamorphosis. In 2005, a debilitating illness and a tumultuous breakup with an emotionally distant partner ignited a spark of self-realization. Her experiences became the cornerstone for her incredible journey, which encompasses five best-selling books, the creation of Baggage Reclaim, an archive of over 16,000 enlightening blog entries, and a podcast that has touched the lives of millions of women across 140 countries. Her unwavering mission is to help others overcome abandonment, rejection, trauma, and the damaging effects of people-pleasing, emotional unavailability, and feelings of inadequacy.
Natalie Lue's impact extends far and wide. Her candid, compassionate, and humor-infused approach to relationships has gained her a global following. She's been recognized by esteemed outlets like The New York Times, NPR, and the BBC. Her books, including "Mr. Unavailable and the Fallback Girl," "The No Contact Rule," "The Dreamer and Fantasy Relationship," and "Love, Care, Trust & Respect," with over 140,000 copies sold, have been pivotal in reshaping perspectives. Her podcast, "The Baggage Reclaim Sessions," has surpassed 2 million downloads. Furthermore, Harper Horizon published her latest book, "The Joy of Saying No," in October 2022.
Natalie's expertise is not confined to the world of self-help and relationships. She's also the founder of the kids' lifestyle blog, Bambino Goodies. For the past 13.5 years, she has dedicated herself to full-time blogging, leaving behind a career in advertising. Natalie has shared her insights on relationships at numerous conferences worldwide, and her current focus encompasses subjects like people-pleasing, boundaries, mindfulness, and creativity.
Kerry Brett and Natalie Lue dive into a rich and enlightening conversation. Natalie's remarkable ability to unravel complex relationship dynamics and her skillful articulation in "Mr. Unavailable and the Fallback Girl" are highlighted. If you've ever grappled with feelings of unworthiness or questioned your value in the world of dating, this episode is a game-changer.
Natalie's unparalleled ability to identify and address relationship issues with unfiltered candor.
Unpacking the enigma of "Mr. Unavailable" and the emotional turmoil it entails.
The enduring impact of the book "Mr. Unavailable and the Fallback Girl."
How Natalie's work resonates with women worldwide, illuminating shared pains.
The societal conditioning that often leaves women with the short end of the stick in toxic relationships.
The imperative of never settling in matters of the heart.
A sobering glimpse into relationships with "Mr. Unavailable."
The importance of recognizing and navigating "Future Faking."
The phenomenon of "Fast Forwarding" and its fleeting intensity.
Connect with Natalie:
Stay connected with Natalie Lue on Instagram @natlue or visit her website at natalielue.com. You can find all her empowering books on Amazon and access her podcast, "The Baggage Reclaim Sessions," on all major podcast platforms.
10/21/21 • 54 min
Today's guest is Kait Warman, and she's the author of the book "Thank You for Rejecting Me.” Rejection is one of the hardest things we deal with when dating. In fact, 99.9 percent of us feel defined by our rejections. Kait's journey with setbacks and heartbreak wasn't wasted; it’s made her who she is today. Kait's experiences inspired her to write a book to help women navigate the painful throes of rejection. Kait believes rejection can hurt us - but doesn't need to derail us, destroy our self-esteem, or impact our feelings about ourselves. Kait is willing to go there and talk about how she's been rejected in many painful ways but encourages us and proves that rejection can build our strength. It can also clarify our life purpose so we can call in a more secure love for ourselves. Kait discusses how you can easily be freed from rejection and realize it is part of life, but it doesn’t have to run or affect our future.
Kait Warman is an author, inspirational speaker, relationship coach, online educator, and host of The Heart of Dating podcast. Kait's mission is to empower others to have the courage to own their story, walk-in victory, discover clarity and vision in their life and relationships. Kait is passionate about relationships and has hope that the dating scene can be transformed because let's face it, the struggle is real. She has an extensive dating background, has actively worked to seek hope, growth and a deeper sense of self love. She loves walking along side those on the same journey while showing others that dating can be amazing!
Kerry Brett and Kait Warman cover a lot of ground. Topics include:
How Kait realized there wasn’t a lot of information around dating in the Christian culture, so four years ago, she started her podcast The Heart of Dating.
How derailing it can be to hand your power over to someone else.
How to take back your power at your lowest moment.
You have a choice in your pain and suffering and can take control of your healing.
Rejection is protection and redirection plus an opportunity to focus on your self-worth.
Rejection is an opportunity to pivot.
Why you should grab a notebook and write down the truths about you so you don’t believe the lies that someone else tells you about yourself.
Why the right relationship will humble you and make you want to do better, the wrong relationship will have you constantly questioning yourself, feeling anxious, and walking on eggshells.
Why one of the most attractive things is when someone is sure they want to be with you!
Why you should be with someone who is interested in being with you without you trying to convince them to be.
Rejections can keep us small and scared, or they can become things we grow through, learn from, and one day claim as a victory.
To find out more about Kait Warman go to www.heartofdating.com or follow on Instagram @kaitness or @heartofdating.
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How To Use Chat GPT To Create A Winning Dating Profile With Love Factually Author, Duana Welch
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05/11/23 • 43 min
Are you tired of swiping through countless profiles and having no connection? Do you struggle to come up with funny one liner’s or grab the attention of others? Today we learn how to make the most of your profile using Chat GPT! Dr. Duana Welch, the author of Love Factually, has been using Chat GPT to assist her clients in creating profiles that help them stand out in a crowd. From catchy opening lines to interesting taglines and everything in between, Chat GPT can help generate ideas, spark creativity, and offer suggestions making you the talk of the town. With its advanced capabilities, Chat GPT helps you create a write up that reflects your personality while showcasing your best qualities so you can bring in the one, you're meant to have.
Dr. Duana Welch is the first dating-and-relationship coach and author to use science rather than opinion to help men and women all over the world find and keep the love of their lives. She’s a favorite guest on this podcast, a former psychology professor, an expert for the couples’ relationship app Paired, a writer for Psychology Today, and the author of the famous book now out in five languages: Love Factually: 10 Proven Steps from I Wish to I Do.
Already great at profiles—or hate writing? No worries: by the end of today’s podcast, you’ll know how to leverage Chat GPT to boost your creativity and—if you’d rather not create your ad yourself--do the heavy lifting for you. Hate technology? No problem: you can DIY if you don’t want to deal with AI. It’s all here, now.
Kerry Brett and Dr. Duana Welch dive into the exciting world of Chat GPT and learn how it can help you find love, and Dr. Duana Welch shares what she knows about this cutting-edge technology to find your person and create a profile based on science, not opinion, no matter who you are.
To find out more about Dr. Duana Welch's work go to www.lovesciencemedia.com.
04/26/23 • 48 min
Imagine stepping outside your door and meeting someone new and life-changing, no matter where you choose - whether it’s an art show, an exhibition, or even a car show. The possibilities are endless, and the world is your playground. Today's guest believes it is up to you to choose where you play – his name is Johnny Cassell, London's premier Elite Dating Coach, and Men's Lifestyle Strategist. Johnny believes your social network is the key to your success in any area of life, and he shares strategies for creating the right social circle to meet quality people. We dive into the power of familiarity and association and how it impacts interactions with others. And why breaking patterns of people's expectations can lead to new exciting experiences. So, get ready to shake things up and learnhow to take your social life to the next level with Johnny Cassell.
Johnny Cassell is the best-selling author of Elite Seduction – Actionable Tools for Love, Seduction and Dating. Johnny helps men from all over the world attract the type of women they truly desire. He’s personally coached over 2,000 men including CEO’S of some of the world largest companies, celebrities and royalty. He’s racked 100,000 coaching hours and lead over 200 international workshops. He’s been featured twice on the cover of Times Magazine, appeared in the Sunday Times, The Evening Standard, The Express, The Daily Mail, Cosmopolitan, The Metro, BBC Radio to name a few. Johnny recently appeared on the UK hit reality show Made in Chelsea and he’s also the host of the Johnny Cassell Podcast.
To find out more about Johnny Cassell go to www.johnnycassell.com or follow on Instagram at @londondatingcoach.
11/21/23 • 39 min
Get ready for some exciting news! Today, we’ll hear all about Lola, a brand-new dating app exclusively launching in Boston. I think it’s safe to say that intentional daters are tired of mindless messaging, time-consuming chats, and the frustration of virtual dating pitfalls. Lola is designed to get you on real dates with real people on your schedule. Lola is about to revolutionize your dating experience by creating genuine connections, scheduling dates at your convenience, and eliminating the clutter of multiple conversations. Imagine conversing solely with only those you're interested in meeting face-to-face. Get ready to say goodbye to endless swiping, catfishing, and ghosting and say hello to dating because Lola is putting dating back into dating apps.
This week, we have the privilege of hearing from the masterminds behind Lola, its founders, Paul English and Rachel Cohen. Paul English is an entrepreneur, philanthropist, the founder of six start-ups, and the co-founder of the travel industry giant Kayak.com. Rachel Cohen has a background in Human Resources for renowned fashion and luxury brands such as David Yurman and Diptyque Paris. Together, they combined their expertise to create a dating app that focuses on matching based on availability. They'll share why Lola stands apart from traditional dating apps and how it could redefine your dating journey. And they’ll also share with us their story and what’s in store for us with Lola.
Kerry Brett, Paul English, and Rachel Cohen cover a lot of ground around what’s working in online dating and how Lola plans to create a new community and change the dating culture. Topics include;
· The benefit of a dating app centered on matching based on availability.
· Their Journey to love and the inspiration behind Lola:
· Paul and Rachel shared their serendipitous meeting on Bumble four years ago, sparking a conversation that eventually led to identifying the common problems in existing dating apps and, later, falling in love, getting engaged, and launching Lola.
· Rachel discusses the experiences that fueled their passion for addressing these dating app challenges, emphasizing the need to reinvigorate hope for the discouraged.
· Rachel highlights Lola's calendar-based matchmaking system. Introduces the 4-day timeline, benefitting users and empowering women to take control of their dating schedules.
· Fast-tracking dating: Paul explains from a male perspective why immediate in-person meetings can revolutionize the dating landscape, expediting genuine connections.
· Rachel sheds light on how Lola caters to single parents or individuals with restricted availability, maximizing dating opportunities.
· Paul draws from his tech experiences to simplify and enhance Lola's user interface, ensuring it's both familiar and efficient.
· How Lola plans to filter out non-intentional daters.
· Lola's review feature, offering constructive feedback while eliminating non-genuine or uninterested users.
· Why Lola values quality over quantity: addressing the trend of excessive conversations Lola's commitment to quality interactions rather than volume.
· Enforcing rules for genuine engagement: Paul advocates for a no-nonsense approach to discourage habitual cancellations.
· Anonymous feedback system: the benefit of anonymous post-date feedback, aiding users in self-improvement and finding better matches.
· Rollout plans and recruitment events: Insights into Lola's rollout strategy, inviting potential users to join and engage.
To learn more about Lola, visit www.lola.com and follow on Instragram @lola_dates.
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How many episodes does Shot@Love have?
Shot@Love currently has 189 episodes available.
What topics does Shot@Love cover?
The podcast is about Society & Culture, Dating, Dating Advice, Podcasts, Self-Improvement, Education, Relationships and Online Dating.
What is the most popular episode on Shot@Love?
The episode title 'Don’t Wait To Be Great - How To Give Yourself Permission To Go For It! With Talk Show Maven Raven Blair Glover' is the most popular.
What is the average episode length on Shot@Love?
The average episode length on Shot@Love is 42 minutes.
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Episodes of Shot@Love are typically released every 7 days, 17 hours.
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The first episode of Shot@Love was released on Feb 3, 2020.
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