Figuring Out Future Fakers And Fast Forwarders With Natalie Lue, Author Of "Mr. Unavailable And The Fallback Girl"

10/19/23 • 69 min

In this special episode, I’m honored to welcome Natalie Lue, someone who has profoundly influenced the lives of countless individuals, including myself. Natalie Lue, a beacon of inspiration, joins us today. As a podcaster, speaker, artist, and renowned author, her remarkable works, particularly "Mr. Unavailable and the Fallback Girl," have left an indelible mark. Natalie's narrative is a testament to the transformative power of self-discovery.

Natalie's story is a tale of metamorphosis. In 2005, a debilitating illness and a tumultuous breakup with an emotionally distant partner ignited a spark of self-realization. Her experiences became the cornerstone for her incredible journey, which encompasses five best-selling books, the creation of Baggage Reclaim, an archive of over 16,000 enlightening blog entries, and a podcast that has touched the lives of millions of women across 140 countries. Her unwavering mission is to help others overcome abandonment, rejection, trauma, and the damaging effects of people-pleasing, emotional unavailability, and feelings of inadequacy.

Natalie Lue's impact extends far and wide. Her candid, compassionate, and humor-infused approach to relationships has gained her a global following. She's been recognized by esteemed outlets like The New York Times, NPR, and the BBC. Her books, including "Mr. Unavailable and the Fallback Girl," "The No Contact Rule," "The Dreamer and Fantasy Relationship," and "Love, Care, Trust & Respect," with over 140,000 copies sold, have been pivotal in reshaping perspectives. Her podcast, "The Baggage Reclaim Sessions," has surpassed 2 million downloads. Furthermore, Harper Horizon published her latest book, "The Joy of Saying No," in October 2022.

Natalie's expertise is not confined to the world of self-help and relationships. She's also the founder of the kids' lifestyle blog, Bambino Goodies. For the past 13.5 years, she has dedicated herself to full-time blogging, leaving behind a career in advertising. Natalie has shared her insights on relationships at numerous conferences worldwide, and her current focus encompasses subjects like people-pleasing, boundaries, mindfulness, and creativity.

Kerry Brett and Natalie Lue dive into a rich and enlightening conversation. Natalie's remarkable ability to unravel complex relationship dynamics and her skillful articulation in "Mr. Unavailable and the Fallback Girl" are highlighted. If you've ever grappled with feelings of unworthiness or questioned your value in the world of dating, this episode is a game-changer.

Natalie's unparalleled ability to identify and address relationship issues with unfiltered candor.
Unpacking the enigma of "Mr. Unavailable" and the emotional turmoil it entails.
The enduring impact of the book "Mr. Unavailable and the Fallback Girl."
How Natalie's work resonates with women worldwide, illuminating shared pains.
The societal conditioning that often leaves women with the short end of the stick in toxic relationships.
The imperative of never settling in matters of the heart.
A sobering glimpse into relationships with "Mr. Unavailable."
The importance of recognizing and navigating "Future Faking."
The phenomenon of "Fast Forwarding" and its fleeting intensity.

Connect with Natalie:
Stay connected with Natalie Lue on Instagram @natlue or visit her website at natalielue.com. You can find all her empowering books on Amazon and access her podcast, "The Baggage Reclaim Sessions," on all major podcast platforms.

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Love, Peace And Surrender: Why Patience Pays Off With Art Of Peaceful Living's Sid McNairy

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This episode is an enlightening one! Today, we have a truly exceptional guest with us. He's not just a spiritualist and teacher; he's the Architect of The Art of Peaceful Living. Meet Sid McNairy, a remarkable individual who has dedicated his life to helping others connect with their highest and best selves through the power of meditation, yoga, and self-discovery. Sid found his path to healing, during the process of finding love and peace, which resulted in transforming his life. Now his passion is empowering others to fine discipline and peace in their lives. Sid willtake us through the process of surrendering, while sharing the power of finding balance, being ok with where you are right now. And show us how to find grounding within yourself, and why you need to discover who you are first before you seek love from another.

With a background in coaching college football and coaching NFL players, Sid’s journey has involved battles both physically and mentally. After struggling with feelings of not being accepted and making decisions against his heart, Sid found solace in yoga and meditation, which helped him heal his past and find inner peace. Now a renowned figure in the wellness industry, Sid has written several books, and he’s also a sought-after speaker who inspires audiences around the world with his trainings and presentations on wellness, and self-discovery.

Kerry Brett and Sid McNairy have a conversation around why it’s important to find peace within yourself before finding love with another person. Topics include;

Pivotal Moments: Sid shares the moment when he decided to shift from coaching football to becoming a spiritual teacher.
Dealing with Suffering: Advice for those suffering and feeling hopeless, drawing strength from personal experiences.
Yoga and Meditation: Sid describes how yoga and meditation played a significant role in his personal transformation. Sid also shares why doing things you love is one of the quickest ways out of pain.
Finding Inner Peace and Love: Sid explains the importance of finding inner peace on the journey to finding love.
Finding Love: Sid's shares his struggles with finding love and key takeaways for those facing similar challenges.
Overcoming Challenges: Advice for individuals struggling with feelings of not being accepted or making tough decisions.
Impactful Moments: Sid shares memorable moments where he’s made a significant impact on other’s lives through his teachings.
Surrendering and Inner Grounding: Sid shares practical advice on surrendering to where you are in life and finding inner grounding before seeking love from others.
Maintaining Discipline: Strategies and daily practices to help others achieve balance and peace in their lives.
Trusting the Process: Sid’s advice for those who struggle with impatience and trusting the process.
Community and Healing: How Sid works to improve the lives of others, with a specific example of a thriving community or individual.
Unexpected Challenges: Sid shares unexpected challenges or surprises that shaped his understanding of self-discovery and inner peace.
Strength in Self: Sid shares how to draw strength from within and constructive advice around dealing with others' opinions.
Emotion in Motion: Using emotional energy positively through activities like yoga or art. Sid shares why you should just get moving forward.

To find out more about Sid McNairy go to www.sidmcnairy.com.

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Capturing Hearts: From Art Direction To Online Connection With Joe Heroun

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In this week's episode, meet Joe Heroun, a man who’s mastered the art of capturing attention. He’s a multifaceted talent in the world of photography, fashion, art direction and design. Joe’s been the creative force behind iconic magazine covers for decades and was a driving force at the Improper Bostonian Magazine. Today, his mission is to help men elevate their style and up their dating game. He’ll share secrets to online appeal and what’s behind the perfect image for the digital age? How to enhance your image through clothing, from the timeless white tee, layering up, or choosing the right accessories. What makes a lasting impression visually, and how to be yourself in front of the camera. And what it takes to look put together in a photograph. Because in the world of dating, appearances matter.
Kerry Brett welcomes the incredibly talented Joe Heroun. It's an engaging conversation between Kerry and Joe as they dive into photography, art direction, and dating. Whether you are looking to upgrade your dating profile or want to enhance your style, this episode is packed with practical advice and creative insights.
Joe's expertise extends beyond the world of magazines and media. Today, he's on a mission to help men elevate their style and enhance their dating game. This episode is filled with valuable insights, dating tips, and secrets to online appeal, all brought to you by an industry veteran.

Key Talking Points:

Joe's unconventional path to becoming an art director.
The chaos and creative problem-solving behind iconic magazine covers.
The significance of preparation and clear authority on set.
The art of styling and how to enhance your personal image for dating success.
The importance of the leading photograph in online dating.
Joe's collaboration with dating expert Blaine Anderson and the importance of variety in dating profile photos.
The psychology of getting your subject to open up during a photoshoot.
The impact of first impressions in online dating.
The nuances of looking well-groomed, confident, and approachable in photographs.
Embracing personal style and projecting confidence in your online dating profile.

Joe's message is clear: it's not just about what you wear but how you wear it, and confidence and authenticity play a vital role in making a lasting impression in dating.

Tune in to discover how to make a memorable impact in your dating journey. To learn more about Joe Heroun's work, go to jherounportrait.com or follow him on Instagram @jheroun.