Sex With Emily

It's commonly said that the brain is the most significant sexual organ in the human body. But is it possible to manipulate our brains to enhance happiness or even improve our sexual experiences? Dr. Daniel Amen, a psychiatrist and acclaimed author, has compiled the most extensive collection of brain scans globally. Through analyzing this data, he has uncovered intriguing insights: by adopting habits grounded in neuroscience, we can significantly enhance our mental well-being, elevate our mood, and indeed – enrich our sexual lives. Tune in now to discover how to take control of your mind and enjoy the benefits.

In this episode you’ll learn:

• The way stress hormones can interfere with our sexual hormones
• Techniques to shield yourself from mental "noise"
• The reasons why individuals who are happier generally enjoy longer lives, maintain healthier relationships, achieve greater success professionally, and experience more fulfilling sex lives

Show Notes:

• Get your tickets HERE for Sex with Emily LIVE!
• Order Dr. Daniel Amen's New Book, Raising Mentally Strong Kids
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample)
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

All sexual fantasies have one thing in common: they trigger an arousal response inside our bodies, laced with erotic flavor. But how do you actualize your fantasy with a partner who’s wary of it? Even turned off by it? On today’s show, I’m taking your calls on this exact predicament. First up: when your partner wants you to drastically change your appearance for their pleasure, should you do it? Or when your partner wants to watch you with a third, how do you find that person? Next, if you’re not naturally dominant in bed, but your partner’s begging for it, how do you step into your power? I also get into urine fetishes (yep, like golden showers), how to introduce them to an otherwise vanilla sex life, and how to explore same-sex adventures in a hetero marriage.

Show Notes:

• Sex With Emily Book Tour: SMART SEX Event Dates
• PRE-ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• SMART SEX PRIZE PACK (submit your pre-order proof of purchase at the bottom of the page, be entered to win the prize pack and everyone that enters receives a copy of my new and improved Yes! No! Maybe? Guide)
• SmartMouth
• FetLife
• Kasidie
• Feeld
• Womaness.com/Emily (code EMILY for 20% off sitewide)

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Let’s talk solo anal. You may be looking around right now, wondering why anal play is so trendy, and thinking to yourself: “is this actually for me?” But before you jump into the anal deep end with a partner, I’ve got a pro tip: try anal with yourself! On today’s episode, I’m talking through all the positive reasons to explore anal with yourself, no matter what genitals you’ve got. I’m also busting common anal myths and giving you step-by-step tips for exploration based on your anatomy. I’m talking all things toys and insertion for beginners to advanced anal players. Tune in for your solo anal play primer, and keep listening to hear me answer all your booty Q’s.

Show Notes:

• Flow With It: How to Have Period Sex
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
• b-Vibe Vibrating Jewel Plug
• b-vibe Anal Training Kit
• Aneros Mgx Syn Trident Prostate Massager
• LELO Loki Wave Prostate Massager Vibrator
• Lumen LED Pleasure Plug
• Pjur Original Silicone Lubricant
• Pjur Backdoor Relaxing Anal Glide Lubricant
• Article: Double The O, Double The Pleasure: How to Have Blended & Multiple Orgasms
• Yes, No, Maybe List & Other Guides
• Playdrop Sex Mat (code EMILY10 for 10% off + bonus play rag)
• ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Sex With Emily: Home
• More Sex With Emily: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok
• Match App: Apple App Store | Google Play
• Morgasm CBD Arousal Lubricant (code EMILY for 15% OFF sitewide)

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Ever wondered how often happy couples have sex? Or the little-known key to sexual satisfaction? In today’s Sex In The News episode, I reveal new research that answers both of these questions and a surprising new finding on who says “I love you” first. First, my Producer, Erica, and I look at a study on sexual frequency and the number of times per month couples have sex. Is it this often for you? Next, we dig into research on men saying “I love you” -- do you agree with our takeaway? We then get into amazing new research on mutual masturbation and give you easy ways to try it. Finally, we explore a study on sleep health and sex. Turns out, an orgasm might be more effective than sleeping pills.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

• The Lover’s Guide to Sexual Etiquette
• 5 Ways To Do It Doggy Style
• Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)
• Mutual Masturbation & Other Guides
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

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We all experience performance anxiety in bed from time to time. We get in our heads, we worry we’re not hot / good / skilled enough, and sometimes we try to be people we’re not during sex. That’s why today’s episode is about identifying different types of performance anxiety, so that we can show up more confident and relaxed for sex. First I talk through O-blockers: common reasons your orgasm and overall pleasure hit a limit. Next I bring up popular “personas” people adopt in bed, like the cool girl/guy who’s down for whatever (even when you’re actually not) and the super dominant, in-charge lover (even when you’re actually more submissive). Finally, I give you strategies to increase your sexual confidence and take all of your sexual anxiety questions.

See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

Show Notes:

• Prostate Play: The Comprehensive Guide
• 5 Libido-Boosting Aphrodisiacs to Try In and Out of the Bedroom
• VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample)
• SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
• The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
• Want more? Sex With Emily: Home
• Let’s get social: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok
• Let’s text: Sign Up Here
• Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.

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