
Butt First, Try Solo Anal
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07/18/23 • 29 min
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Let’s talk solo anal. You may be looking around right now, wondering why anal play is so trendy, and thinking to yourself: “is this actually for me?” But before you jump into the anal deep end with a partner, I’ve got a pro tip: try anal with yourself! On today’s episode, I’m talking through all the positive reasons to explore anal with yourself, no matter what genitals you’ve got. I’m also busting common anal myths and giving you step-by-step tips for exploration based on your anatomy. I’m talking all things toys and insertion for beginners to advanced anal players. Tune in for your solo anal play primer, and keep listening to hear me answer all your booty Q’s.
Show Notes:
- Flow With It: How to Have Period Sex
- SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
- b-Vibe Vibrating Jewel Plug
- b-vibe Anal Training Kit
- Aneros Mgx Syn Trident Prostate Massager
- LELO Loki Wave Prostate Massager Vibrator
- Lumen LED Pleasure Plug
- Pjur Original Silicone Lubricant
- Pjur Backdoor Relaxing Anal Glide Lubricant
- Article: Double The O, Double The Pleasure: How to Have Blended & Multiple Orgasms
- Yes, No, Maybe List & Other Guides
- Playdrop Sex Mat (code EMILY10 for 10% off + bonus play rag)
- ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
- Sex With Emily: Home
- More Sex With Emily: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok
- Match App: Apple App Store | Google Play
- Morgasm CBD Arousal Lubricant (code EMILY for 15% OFF sitewide)
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Let’s talk solo anal. You may be looking around right now, wondering why anal play is so trendy, and thinking to yourself: “is this actually for me?” But before you jump into the anal deep end with a partner, I’ve got a pro tip: try anal with yourself! On today’s episode, I’m talking through all the positive reasons to explore anal with yourself, no matter what genitals you’ve got. I’m also busting common anal myths and giving you step-by-step tips for exploration based on your anatomy. I’m talking all things toys and insertion for beginners to advanced anal players. Tune in for your solo anal play primer, and keep listening to hear me answer all your booty Q’s.
Show Notes:
- Flow With It: How to Have Period Sex
- SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
- b-Vibe Vibrating Jewel Plug
- b-vibe Anal Training Kit
- Aneros Mgx Syn Trident Prostate Massager
- LELO Loki Wave Prostate Massager Vibrator
- Lumen LED Pleasure Plug
- Pjur Original Silicone Lubricant
- Pjur Backdoor Relaxing Anal Glide Lubricant
- Article: Double The O, Double The Pleasure: How to Have Blended & Multiple Orgasms
- Yes, No, Maybe List & Other Guides
- Playdrop Sex Mat (code EMILY10 for 10% off + bonus play rag)
- ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
- Sex With Emily: Home
- More Sex With Emily: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok
- Match App: Apple App Store | Google Play
- Morgasm CBD Arousal Lubricant (code EMILY for 15% OFF sitewide)
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Show Notes:
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- VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free CBD Sleep Gummies Sample)
- ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
- Sex With Emily: Home
- More Sex With Emily: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok
- Promescent.com/Emily (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout)
- Morgasm CBD Arousal Lubricant (code EMILY for 15% OFF sitewide)
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Show Notes:
- Flow With It: How to Have Period Sex
- 6 Ways to Infuse Intimacy into Your Weeknights
- SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $69)
- Hello Again Suppositories (code EMILY25 for 25% off orders over $50)
- ORDER MY NEW BOOK! Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure
- Sex With Emily: Home
- More Sex With Emily: Instagram | Twitter | Facebook | TikTok
- Match App: Apple App Store | Google Play
- Chronoquiz.com
- More Dr. Michael Breus: Website | Instagram | Twitter
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