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Sex With Dr. Jess

Dr. Jess O'Reilly

In Sex With Dr. Jess, Dr. Jessica O’Reilly, Toronto-based sexologist, author, and media personality, shares tips on how to enhance your sexual life to improve the quality of your relationships. She interviews guests with questions ranging from how to deal with jealousy to getting down in the bedroom, as well as hosting thought-provoking episodes centered around compatibility and strengthening relationships.

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What do you do when one partner wants to open up the relationship; and the other wants to stay monogamous? How do you broach the topic? What issues tend to arise among discordant couples? Dr. Liz Powell is an author, sex educator, keynote speaker, and licensed psychologist specializing in non-traditional relationships. They join us to weigh in on this topic and share their perspective as a therapist who also identifies as polyamorous. Over the last 4 years, Liz's book, Building Open Relationships, has helped non-monogamous people around the world grow and strengthen their relationship(s). One person even said it was the “most helpful, up-to-date book on ethical non-monogamy.” Building Open Relationships is a practical, applied resource to help you navigate the world of ethical non-monogamy. As a sex educator and psychologist, Liz believes that Great Sex Can Change The World; and is on a mission to help as many people as they can - to understand and embrace the sexual revolution that’s happening in the world right now. While they are so glad the book has been able to reach so many folks and provide them with some resources, they know that there are folks who haven't been able to access it yet because, until now, it's only been available in print and e-book. Because their mission is to help as many people as they can, they believe that they have a responsibility to make their work accessible to all, so they're doing an Indiegogo campaign so that they can finally record an audiobook! Click here to find out more. Don't forget to give Dr. Liz a follow on Instagram and Twitter! Thank you to AdamAndEve.com for their ongoing support of our program. Please use code DRJESS when shopping to save 50% off almost any single item + get FREE gifts and free shipping. Don't forget to check out www.HappierCouples.com and Dr. Jess' Mindful Sex, Mindblowing Oral (Penis and Clit Editions), Last Longer in Bed and other courses to liven up your sex life. Get 25% OFF when you use code PODCAST. Have fun and explore your body (and your partner's) in the bedroom with We-Vibe and Womanizer! Use code DRJESS to save at WeVibe.com and be sure to check out their sale section this week. If you have questions for the podcast, submit them here. And please be sure to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! You can find the podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! Rough Transcript: This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so please excuse any typos. This podcast is an informational conversation and is not a substitute for medical, health, or other professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the services of an appropriate professional should you have individual questions or concerns. Discordant Couples: When One Partner Wants An Open Relationship Participant #1: You're listening to the Sex with Dr. Jess podcast, sex and Relationship Advice you can use tonight. Welcome to the Sex with Dr. Jess podcast. I'm your coach co host, Brandon. We're here with my lovely other half, Dr. Jess. Hey, we are going to get right into it because our guest is ready to go. The lovely Dr. Liz Powell is a psychologist, a sex educator, a speaker, an incredible author of Building Open Relationships, which is a guide that I've recommended in the past. It's a really practical resource to help you navigate the world of ethical non monogamy. It's not just the theory. It's also like, well, here are some things I should think about. Here are some things that I might want to reflect upon. Here are some ways to start that conversation. This book has been super helpful to me, super helpful to many clients. So I'm super excited to have Dr. Liz with us right now. Thanks for being here. Thank you so much for having me again and for all those compliments on my book. That's so lovely to hear. Thank you. Now, your book has been in print and it's been an ebook,

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Better Blow Jobs Pt I

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10/14/22 • 34 min

Boost your confidence and skills when it comes to giving (and receiving) oral sex. There are no sure-fire tips or techniques for better blow jobs, but Jess & Brandon have some insights to help you discover new pathways to pleasure. From the "Liquid Trace" to the "Air Head" to the "F-Spot", tune in to discover novel approaches to blow your lover's mind. And if you want to take your blow jobs to the next level, check out our Mind Blowing Oral video course and use code PODCAST to save 25%. Thank you to Womanizer for their ongoing support of our podcast. Use code DRJESS to save at Womanizer.com and be sure to check out their SALE section this week. If you have questions for the podcast, submit them here. And please be sure to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode. Find the podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! Rough Transcript: This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so please excuse any typos. This podcast is an informational conversation and is not a substitute for medical, health, or other professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the services of an appropriate professional should you have individual questions or concerns. Better Blow Jobs Pt I Participant #1: You're listening to the Sex with Dr. Jess podcast, sex and relationship advice you can use tonight. Welcome to the sex with Dr. Jess Podcast. I'm your co host, Brandon. We're here with my lovely other other half, dr. Jess. You're smiling. Is it because we're talking about blowjobs? Tis is it? It's one of the many reasons I'm smiling. Why else are you smiling? Because our conversation has us very close together today. We are coming at you recording in a very different spot. Today we have to sit very close to making it work. Studio is very different. Today. When we say studio, we use that term quite loosely. I can feel his breath on my cheek. I can feel your heat. Something like that. But we are we're talking blow jobs? Let's do it. You like blow jobs? You know, they're all right. Okay. One to ten. Not in comparison to any physical experience. Like a kick in the balls, for example. One to 1010 being the greatest. One being the least greatest in terms of sexual acts and sexual pleasure and things you've done. Where does the blowjob register? People are going to judge me. I'm going to get some hate comments here. I'm probably like a six and a half or seven. That's actually not a reflection of you. It's a reflection of me, the blowjack. I know, and I know that that's where it's going to go. It's just that there are other things that rank higher for me. Okay, what's higher? The sex. Oh, like intercourse? Yes. Okay, what else? The sex. Anything else? It depends how I feel. I mean, I love a good handy. More than a blow job? It depends on the day. For real. Okay. And the sensitivity. Okay. Yes. All right. So we're going to talk about blow jobs and some techniques. I got a whole bunch of questions on blow jobs. Let me find them here. Okay. I got a message from someone who wants to know how important are blow jobs? How long should they last? What position should I be in? What techniques are best? How do I use my hands? Should I avoid the balls or go right for them? That's a lot of questions about it. I like the last part of that. Just should just get right at them. Should I stab them, or should I do give them a good tug, just give them a flick. Well, it's interesting because obviously all these answers are highly subjective. What did you put? Blow jobs that on a scale of one to ten, make a six and a half to seven. Okay. All right. And so other folks can send us their numbers. Nice, simple, short emails and messages. Where does the blow job register on my end in terms of blow jobs? Obviously, I don't receive blow jobs because I don't have a dick, but I like them. I like them. I'm glad that you put them higher than you. Really? Okay. But I mean, if you're not valuing them,

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06/18/21 • 38 min

Are you comfortable talking dirty? Do you feel silly trying new lines, approaches and scenarios? You’re not alone. Jess and Brandon share their struggles (while sharing a few laughs) and offer guidance & strategies for all types of dirty talk from sweet and romantic to naughty and kinky. They try out dozens of lines that you can practice on your own and share with a partner (or two!). Want to learn more about dirty talk? Check out The Ultimate Guide to Seduction and Foreplay co-authored by Marla Renee Stewart. And check out IOBAToys.com for the OhMyC, a silent clitoral massager that fits in the palm of your hand. Use code DRJESS to save 30% off! If you’ve got questions or topic suggestions for the podcast, submit them here. As well, you can now record your messages for us! Please record your message/question in a quiet room and use your phone’s headphones with a built-in mic if possible. And be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! Rough Transcript This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so please excuse any typos. This podcast is an informational conversation and is not a substitute for medical, health or other professional advice, diagnosis or treatment. Always seek the services of an appropriate professional should you have individual questions or concerns. Episode 218: Master Dirty Talk: 60+ Tips & Examples (00:05): You're listening to the Sex with Dr. Jess podcast. Sex and relationship advice you can use tonight. Brandon (00:16): Welcome to the Sex with Dr. Jess podcast. I'm your co host Brandon Ware here with my lovely other half Dr. Jess. Dr. Jess (00:23): Hey, hey. Brandon (00:24): How are you? Dr. Jess (00:25): I'm fine. I want you to talk dirty to me. Brandon (00:28): I want you. I want you right now. You smiling and laughing at me doesn't help with the confidence here. Dr. Jess (00:36): I’m not laughing, I was just smiling at you. What do you think I want to hear in bed when I say talk dirty? Brandon (00:43): I think you want to hear that I want you that, I can't stop thinking about you. Dr. Jess (00:49): You never say that. If you know I want to hear that Brandon (00:51): I know it, it doesn't mean it’s what I say. Dr. Jess (00:54): So why don't you say that? Brandon (00:55): Because I feel stupid. Talking dirty, I feel dumb. Dr. Jess (01:01): Perfect setup for this episode. Brandon (01:03): Is it really? Dr. Jess (01:04): I think so, because we're going to be talking about dirty talk. And I think so many of us feel that way. But can I ask you something? In the heat of the moment, when you're like all riled up and you’re turned on and you know that I'm liking it and you're liking it, do you feel less silly? Brandon (01:17): No I still feel silly. Because I think, because I don't know what to say. Dr. Jess (01:21): But you do know what to say, because you just said it, in jest. Brandon (01:25): Yes but in the moment, it's like I'm drawing so many blanks. Dr. Jess (01:32): Well yeah anyhow. I was thinking that what I find is, that the more turned on I am, the less self conscious I am. If I'm in the heat of the moment, 'cause I don't worry about what's going on around me, I don't think about anybody else's needs. Brandon (01:47): But that's my problem. My problem is I'm constantly paying attention to everything that's happening around me. And I'm not immersed in the moment, even when I'm really into things. I'm still cognizant of how much noise is being made or you know just the environment and that really detracts from what's happening. Dr. Jess (02:07): So what do we do about that? I mean I know what we can do about that. What do you wanna do about that? Brandon (02:12): I look at it as my problem. I think I have to really get into the head space and also not care as much.

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02/18/22 • 23 min

Want to boost connection & appreciation in a matter of minutes? In this episode, we work our way through this short activity, One Thing I Love About You. You can try it with a partner or anyone else you love. It’s simple and you can power through it in a few minutes if you keep things short and sweet. Use these prompts to get started: One thing I love about your body... One thing I love about your voice... One thing I love about your energy/aura... One thing I love about your touch... One thing I love about your personality... One thing I love about your character... One thing I love about how you interact with others... One thing I love about how you treat me... One thing I love about your... This exercise is excerpted from The Ultimate Guide to Seduction and Foreplay: Techniques & Strategies for Mind-Blowing Pleasure by Jessica O’Reilly & Marla Renee Stewart. This book is full of advice and activities designed to help you better understand and communicate sexual needs, desires, and values. Order your copy here. Adam and Eve are extending their offer of 50% off almost any item + FREE Shipping + some FREE goodies with code DRJESS. If you're looking to add a new toy to your collection or for something that will buzz and vibrate bringing new and intense pleasure, check out our friends at We-Vibe andWomanizer. Use code DRJESS at checkout to save! We've extended the Mind Blowing Oral: Penis or Clit edition sale at HappierCouples.com for one more week. Use code PODCAST to save 25% on this comprehensive video & audio course designed to help you drown out distractions and tune into pleasure. If you have questions for the podcast, submit them here. And please be sure to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! You can find the podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! Rough Transcript: This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so please excuse any typos. This podcast is an informational conversation and is not a substitute for medical, health or other professional advice, diagnosis or treatment. Always seek the services of an appropriate professional should you have individual questions or concerns. Quick Connection Exercise for Couples Participant #1: You're listening to the Sex with Dr. Jess podcast. Sex and relationship advice you can use tonight. Welcome to the Sex with Dr. Jess podcast. I'm your cohost, Brandon Ware, here with my always lovely other half, Dr. Jess. I'm just here celebrating, man. I'm celebrating you. It's your birthday. What was yesterday? Kind of a big deal. Yeah, such a big deal that I was out of town for work and just flew in this morning. That's all good. You come pick me up? Not made you, but you came 06:00 a.m.. I've been up since, I guess, the equivalent of 02:00 A.m. Here, and we're feeling good. I'm actually feeling fine. I've got the adrenaline rush because I just have started another speaking tour. I'm finally feeling like I'm getting back to work. Pretty excited. We are going to do a quickie podcast on that note, because I have another flight to catch. Yeah. Which is greater flight off to an exciting place for other work prospects. So. And Brandon's joining me. Looking forward to it in Barcelona. Barcelona? You have a friend in Spain. Brandon has the equivalent of I guess it's the modern day pen pal. Yes, I have a penpal. I do. But explain what you do, because I think it's really cool. I went on to a website where you can communicate with other people who are trying to learn your language. So I've been trying to learn Spanish for years. And I'm off and on and off and on. And I think speaking the language is a great way to learn it. So I went on and posted a message and Jose, who lives in Spain, replied, and we're now great friends. And the communication is slow and steady. So you meet with him 30 minutes. Is that what it is? 30, 45 minutes?

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09/30/22 • 22 min

Boost your sexual confidence and pleasure with some very specific tips and techniques for hotter oral (clitoral edition). From the "cross-my-fingers" to the "pussy pocket," Jess shares 15+ approaches to hotter sex in this quickie episode. If you're feeling 'inspired' after listening to this podcast and want to add some excitement to the bedroom, check out WeVibe and their extensive list of products to tickle your pickle, vibe your vulva or pleasure the prostate (and more). Use code DRJESS to save when checking out! Save 25% with code PODCAST for the Mind Blowing Oral on the Happier Couples website. If you have questions for the podcast, submit them here. And please be sure to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! You can find the podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! Rough Transcript: This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so please excuse any typos. This podcast is an informational conversation and is not a substitute for medical, health, or other professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the services of an appropriate professional should you have individual questions or concerns. Better in Bed: 15 Oral Sex Tips Participant #1: You're listening to the Sex with Dr. Jess podcast sex and relationship advice you can use tonight. Hey. Hey. I hope you are in a good mood already to be put in a good mood because I'm in a good mood right now, mostly because of the topic I'm going to be tackling today. This is better in bed. 15 oral tips and techniques for hotter pleasure, greater excitement, intense orgasms. All for the vulva and the clitoris. And we are just going to dive right in. I've got 15 tips for you today. I think some of them are practical, but many of us need the reminder and some of them are a little bit more technical. Some specific moves and techniques you can try if you want to pleasure yourself or pleasure a partner. I mean, you can't do all of them on yourself unless you're super flexible with your ribs and your ABS and your tongue, but I'm sure you can make do. So let's get started. I'm going to run through these 15 tips. I think it's a bit of a quickie episode today because I am heading out on the Desire Cruise to the Greek Islands and Turkey as well. And I will not have the WiFi on the ship that's strong enough to actually upload a podcast. I'm doing it before I go on my own because Brandon apparently has his own job and I can't afford them. So here we go with 15 oral tips and techniques for the clit and the vulva. So, number one, if you are going down on a partner, regardless of gender, this applies across the board. It doesn't matter what your gender rules are, what your gender identity is, get yourself turned on, okay? So focus on your own pleasure while you go down on them. I think good lovers, generous lovers, sometimes hold themselves back by being too hung up on their partner's reaction, by being too hung up on the technique, by being too into being good in bed. So kind of counterintuitive. But focus on yourself. So get yourself turned on. The more you enjoy yourself, the more your partner will enjoy the experience, the more you'll follow the natural rhythm of their body, of their hips, rather than getting hung up on their specific response or a specific outcome or whether you can do a specific technique. So how do you do that? How do you get turned on? Maybe you fantasize, maybe you touch yourself. Maybe you rub yourself. Maybe you insert or wrap a toy, whatever, around your body. Make sure that you are aroused while you go down on them. And this is also going to help them, especially folks who have evolva have probably received negative messages about our genitals, right, growing up and into adulthood. It doesn't taste good, it doesn't smell good, it doesn't look good. It doesn't look like a Barbie, it doesn't look like a porn star. And of course,

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10/07/22 • 10 min

What is hot husbanding, and how can you pursue a threesome safely? Jess weighs in on a question from a hot-husband wife in this quickie episode. Save 50% off almost any item + FREE shipping + FREE gifts at AdamAndEve.com with code DRJESS! If you have questions for the podcast, submit them here. And please be sure to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! You can find the podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! Rough Transcript: This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so please excuse any typos. This podcast is an informational conversation and is not a substitute for medical, health, or other professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the services of an appropriate professional should you have individual questions or concerns. Hot-Husbanding Threesome Q Participant #1: You're listening to the Sex with Dr. Jess podcast, sex and Relationship advice you can use tonight. Hey. Hey. I am flying solo today, excited actually, for a listener question on Hot Husbanding. So we've talked before about hotwifing and we had a hot wife and her partner on the show not so long ago, but we have never talked about Hot Husband and not easy to say husbanding. So I have a lovely note here and I'm going to read through it because it's a little bit long and I want to keep in all the pieces. She says I'm a straight woman who is very happily married to my husband of more than 30 years. He is an incredibly devoted husband and father. We are very interested in participating in FFM. Threesome. So two women, one guy. He proposed it early on in our relationship before we were married or had kids, but I wasn't ready at the time and we are both totally on board now. I've done a ton of research, I've extensively read online articles and forums, I listened to every podcast on the subject, I watched your Ted Talk about monogamish marriages, among other things. And we're very open in our relationship in that we discuss crushes, discuss what we would like to do in bed, what our fantasies are, et cetera. I would like to participate in what is called Hot Husbanding. I have no interest desire to have sex with other men, but I find the idea of watching him be intimate with another woman super hot. I've always gotten very turned on talking about his previous partners early in our relationship and when we've gone to strip clubs on two occasions. I found it incredibly erotic when he received a lap dance and I had no issues with jealousy. I don't want anything hardcore as we want to ease into something like this, but thought we could bathe hot tub together, all three of us rubbing, touching each other and move on to massaging each other. Maybe end with an orgasm for her and a hand job or blow job for my husband to see how we would react to the situation in real life. We don't want to swing or have a poly relationship, but we'd like to experiment with this to see if it would be something we could see ourselves enjoying on occasion. We have talked a lot and we both feel we are ready to make the leap. But I have some concerns. Number one, we are on the older end of the spectrum. I'm 52, my husband is 53. We look like we're in our mid forty s and she asks sorry, I'm just skipping some of the identifying information here. Is our age going to make it impossible to find a match? Number two, we're concerned about contracting an STI even if we practice safe sex. Number three, we're really concerned about uploading pictures with our faces to an online app. We have two adult kids and wouldn't want them to find out. And number four, lastly, from what I understand, lots of bisexual females are interested in couples as they like the idea of playing with a male and a female partner. And in our situation I feel that would really limit our possibilities because we just want to participate with me above the waist only. Any advice would be much appreciated. So firstly,

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06/28/17 • 35 min

I’m excited about this one! Last week I caught up with my friend, former co-worker, super mom, loving wife and Real Housewives of Toronto cast member, Grego Minot. We discuss the secret to a happy relationship and she dishes on love, passion and her new reality as a “real housewife”. Her hubby (and my former boss) Pierre Jutras also drops in for a surprise chat. Follow Grego on... Instagram Twitter Facebook Rough Transcript: This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so please excuse any typos. This podcast is an informational conversation and is not a substitute for medical, health or other professional advice, diagnosis or treatment. Always seek the services of an appropriate professional should you have individual questions or concerns. The Secret to a Happy Relationship Participant #1: Hello. Hello, folks. This is Jessica O'Reilly, your friendly neighborhood sexologist. And we are here to look at the science, the data, the anecdotes that you can use to have a happier relationship, a hotter sex live. And I'm really excited today because I am joined by Grego Mino. I pronounced it right. Yes, correct. The full pronunciation is Gregorian, Gregorian. Wait. And I thought I'd Butcher it. And Grego and I go way back about 17 years, 17 years, 17 or 18 years. But you probably know Grego, and if you don't, you're going to Google her for sure from the Real Housewives of Toronto. And so Grego and I bartended together 17 years ago when we were much younger, much stronger. And the reason I have Grego here is once you Google her and see her story, you'll see that she is madly in love with her husband of 20 years, who I, in fact, worked with. And Pierre and Grego are ultimately responsible for getting Brandon and I my husband together. So welcome. Thank you for having me, Jess. And I'm really happy to see you. I know you haven't changed. You spectacular. Like always. The truth is, Grego looks exactly the same as Son, and it's our Asian gene. It is. But somehow we're keeping our white husband young, too. Yes, we have to talk about that. So let's rewind a little bit. You've been with Pierre for 20 years for 20 years, and Grego is going to be sharing the secrets to this happy marriage in the public eye with two kids, busy, busy lifestyle. And their story is really beautiful. And I know them personally. Although we've been out of touch. I know how happy they are together, and that's why I wanted to talk to her. So tell me first, how did you and Pierre meet? So Pierre and I, we met both from Montreal. So we met in Montreal. And I used to work for Pierre when Pierre used to have a club in Montreal called the Salvios. It was a time in my life as a child actor. I always worked all my youth. And that phase when I met Pierre was just okay. I want to have fun. I just want to experience life. I worked with Pierre for eight months. I caught the Sagio that was a bartender, and I was so bad as much. Remember, you were actually working. I was just there having to shoot her. Well, Craig was pretty charming, so she probably didn't have to pour as many drinks. Me. I was barking at night, 20 shoes Participant #1: at a time. I met Pierre at Club de Savios. I was working for him as a partner, but I was in a previous relationship at that time here, too. But the day it was this instant connection. But we were friends before being a couple very good friends. We actually travel together as a group of friends. And it was only two years after that, we started to be a couple. Okay. So you transitioned from friends? Yeah. And I think this is why today I think we always have this chemistry as friends. Like, really? Of course, the chemistry was yeah. But just we love to have fun together. He's like, my best friend. We're like a team. I guess we're a team. And I heard him talk about you on one of the outtakes from the rail house fires in Toronto. And he refers to Grego as a flower that's constantly blossoming.

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STOP! Don’t Do Kegels!

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06/21/17 • 31 min

This week, Jess is joined by Rachel Gelman, a pelvic floor physical therapist from San Francisco. Rachel shares her unique insight on pelvic floor health, sexual pain and the fact that Kegels are overprescribed. Tune in to find out if you should be doing Kegels. Follow Rachel on Instagram here or on her website. This podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts. Rough Transcript: This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so please excuse any typos. This podcast is an informational conversation and is not a substitute for medical, health or other professional advice, diagnosis or treatment. Always seek the services of an appropriate professional should you have individual questions or concerns. STOP! Don’t Do Kegels! Participant #1: Hello, my friends. This is Sexologist Jess O'Reilly. Of course, your friendly neighborhood sexpert. And every neighborhood should have a sex birth. That's what I think. And today, as usual, in the next 20 minutes or so, we're going to be covering some sex science and advice you can use tonight. Now, today I am joined by Rachel Gellman, the director of San Francisco's Pelvic Health and Rehabilitation Center. She has a doctorate in physical therapy, and her work specializes in pelvic floor health. Now, if you don't know what a pelvic floor physiotherapist does, you're going to learn today. I have learned in person already, and it was quite an experience. So for a long time, I've been wanting to ask more and more questions of somebody in this field, and I came across Rachel, actually via Instagram. So you'll make sure you follow her. She'll give you all the info. Happy to have Rachel here. Hi there. How are you? Hello. Thank you so much for having me. My pleasure. So most people have not heard of pelvic floor physiotherapy. Is that correct? That is very correct. Most people who I meet out in the world and patients obviously are a little confused by what I do and have a lot of questions and always makes for fun dinner conversations. Most people don't know what I do, but I'm always happy to tell everyone what I do. Okay, so let's start here if you go see if we come to your office and I'm a person with a vagina because it's going to be different, I suppose, whether I have a vagina or a penis. Yes. I mean, obviously, yeah, there is going to be some difference. But I'd say for the examination and everything we do, 75% of it is the same for if you're a man or a woman. So usually the first visit is a lot of talking. I want to get to know you. I want to hear your story, depending on what you're coming in for. I'm going to ask a lot of questions about your symptoms. And then I'm always going to ask questions about bowel bladder and sexual function, regardless of why you're coming in. I'm always going to ask questions about that. And then I'm always going to be looking externally first because I am a physical therapist. So I'm going to look at your posture, how things are moving. And then I'm going to be looking at all the muscles and connective tissue, all the soft tissue externally, basically from the ribcage to the knees, is usually how I describe it. So I'm going to look at your abdomen and look at your legs and look at your back, your glutes, your hips. And then I will do an internal examination. And that's where it is a little bit different for men and women, because obviously, men, there's only one way for me to access the pelvic floor and that's through the rectum. And then for women, I typically do the examination vaginally. But for some women, I may do it rectally depending on what their symptoms are. Really, it sometimes can be the same for both men and women. The only difference is, obviously that men have a penis, women have a Volvo and a vagina. So there's not too much of a difference in reality other than how I'm going to actually access the pelvic floor. Okay. Because on my first visit and it was a little while ago, it was a few years ago.

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02/12/22 • 29 min

Phone sex can be smokin’ hot — for auditory lovers, long-distance play partners, and anyone who wants to spice things up with dirty talk and fantasy exploration. Jess and Brandon share their thoughts and tips for the hottest phone sex, along with a few lines you can use to get started if you’re feeling shy or awkward. Are you looking for body butter, hand cream, massage candles, and/or oils (Body/ Massage/ Bath) - check out our wonderful podcast sponsor this week, High On Love. And for those who'd like to take a listen to our previous episode on Dirty Talk, you can check out "Master Dirty Talk: 60+ Tips & Examples" here. If you're looking to add a new toy to your collection or for something that will buzz and vibrate bringing new and intense pleasure, check out our friends at We-Vibe and Womanizer. Use code DRJESS at checkout to save! Big thanks to our sponsors AdamandEve.com — use code DRJESS to save 50% off almost any single item + get FREE gifts and free shipping. From dildos to butt plugs to lube and lingerie, they’ve got you covered. We've extended the Mind Blowing Oral: Penis or Clit Edition sale at HappierCouples.com for one more week. Use code PODCAST to save 25% on this comprehensive video course designed to help you perfect your skills and learn a lot more, all while laughing along to the hilarious jokes of Dr. Jess. If you have questions for the podcast, submit them here. And please be sure to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! You can find the podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! Rough Transcript: This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so please excuse any typos. This podcast is an informational conversation and is not a substitute for medical, health or other professional advice, diagnosis or treatment. Always seek the services of an appropriate professional should you have individual questions or concerns. The Hottest Phone Sex Tips Participant #1: You're listening to the Sex with Dr. Jess podcast. Sex and relationship advice you can use tonight. Welcome to the Sex with Dr. Jess podcast. I'm your co host, Brandon. We're here with my loved the other half, Doctor Jess. Am I so lovely? Because we were just not talking about lovely stuff. No, we weren't talking about lovely stuff. But you're lovely. Brandon made us espresso with a little drop of Baylies. We're actually working in the evening, which we don't usually do. We usually record super early in the morning, but it's evening, so it's a decaf espresso with a drop of Bayleys. Maybe you should say that. It's a shot of Baileys with a drop of decaf espresso. Oh, is that what it is? I don't know. Anyhow. You drink yours before you even sat down? I did. And I said, do you even save her it? I do not. Do you just swallow it like hotcom? I do not savor it. Yes, I swallow it like hot cup. And then I asked you if you've tasted your own cup. Yes, I have. And did not warn you that we were going to be discussing. No, I didn't know. We weren't talking about that. So, yes, let's go down that rabbit hole. But did you taste it when it was hot or did you want to get cold first? Well, I read the warning on the side. It said, Get caution hot. No, it came in a cup. I think it's important to taste yourself. Yeah, I did it by accident. But how? I shot it up in the air. You shot it up in the air and your mouth was open. Yes, that's it. That sounds like I landed on his Dick by accident. Well, anyhow, I'm glad we were talking about that off air. I thought we should also talk about how we should start a podcast today. Yeah, because it's good to taste yourself. I don't know. I wonder if for women, there's less shame around it. I have no problem saying that I've tasted it. I remember I mentioned this before on the podcast. There was a guy when I was a teenager playing hockey, and that was what he did on the bus when we were going to a hockey game.

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Best Blow Job Tips Pt II

Sex With Dr. Jess

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10/21/22 • 34 min

From "The Tunnel" and the "Claudia" to "The Twist N Shout" and "The Cheater", tune in for advanced oral sex techniques designed to take pleasure to new heights. You'll learn to stimulate the inner penis, intensify orgasms and explore new hot spots to keep your lover coming back for more. And if you really want to take your blow jobs to the next level, check out our Mind Blowing Oral video course and use code PODCAST to save 25%. Have fun and explore your body (and your partner's) in the bedroom with We-Vibe and Womanizer! Use code DRJESS to save at WeVibe.com and be sure to check out their sale section this week. If you have questions for the podcast, submit them here. And please be sure to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode! You can find the podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! Rough Transcript: This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so please excuse any typos. This podcast is an informational conversation and is not a substitute for medical, health, or other professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the services of an appropriate professional should you have individual questions or concerns. Best Blow Job Tips Pt II Participant #1: You're listening to the Sex with Dr. Jess podcast, sex and relationship advice you can use tonight. Welcome to the sex with Dr. Jess Podcast. I'm your cohost, Brandon Ware, here with my lovely other half, Dr. Jess, four times a charm. Hi. Tongue tied today, and I don't know why. I know many words. We've been talking all weekend. We have. It was a great weekend. Yeah. We spent the weekend in Toronto at the Taboo Nativa Night Show, and a bunch of you all came out to say hi, and it felt really good. Yeah, there was such great news and feedback from the peeps. I really appreciated it and and energy. We have to give a shout out to a gentleman, a very well dressed gentleman. Yes. Best dressed at the show. But also he got us a couple of massages and just kind of dropped off the gift certificate and left, so you know who you are. Thank you so much. It was super sweet. It was so cool to just be around people and getting feedback. It's so interesting because I'm used to being in kind of workshops and seminar spaces where you know what's going on, you know how people are responding, if they're laughing, if they're squirming, if they're coming with extra questions. But when you're doing, like, television or podcast, there's none of that interaction. So it's really cool. There are so many people who are swing fans. Back from my Playboy TV days. I don't know if everybody if you know that. We used to host a show on Playboy TV about swingers, and it was a reality show with a bunch of swingers living in a house. And every weekend I'd bring in a new couple who thought they wanted to try swinging, and I'd kind of walk them through this TV contract. I mean, it was a contract for the relationship, but it was for TV production and take a pulse of where they were in the relationship and make sure they were feeling comfortable and help perhaps bring up any concerns. And then they'd spend the night with, I can't remember, maybe eight other swinger couples, and they'd have the opportunity to swing if the compatibility and the attraction existed. And then the next day, I'd go back and do a little debrief with them. And I still so many years later. I don't think I've worked on the show in at least how long do you think it's been? Six years? Five years? Seven years? I was going to say. Yeah, it's been a while. But I still get emails from folks asking to come to the Swinghouse, and I get emails from folks who want to come to the swing house but don't want to be filmed. Seriously, I still get these emails every single week. Isn't it just a sex club? Well, what it is, though, is an environment that made people feel safe, right? Not only did you feel safe, but I guess all the attention was also on you because I...

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How many episodes does Sex With Dr. Jess have?

Sex With Dr. Jess currently has 320 episodes available.

What topics does Sex With Dr. Jess cover?

The podcast is about Health & Fitness, Podcasts and Sexuality.

What is the most popular episode on Sex With Dr. Jess?

The episode title 'Discordant Couples: When One Partner Wants An Open Relationship' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on Sex With Dr. Jess?

The average episode length on Sex With Dr. Jess is 35 minutes.

How often are episodes of Sex With Dr. Jess released?

Episodes of Sex With Dr. Jess are typically released every 7 days.

When was the first episode of Sex With Dr. Jess?

The first episode of Sex With Dr. Jess was released on Feb 11, 2016.

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