
Get Anything You Want | Mindfulness Training (ft. Aaron Hendon)
03/09/24 • 39 min
You hear all this talk about how the market is slowing down, and that's true, but only for those who don't know how to shift to the new market. Today we are talking about your mindset, it needs to shift, like the market.
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Transcript:
What's up? Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to our episode of the Real Estate Marketing Dude Podcast, folks, is a lot of people struggling right now, and I want to get right to it. You're struggling for a multitude of reasons. However, what it comes down to is getting what you really want, right? And why do you know? As much as the market has taken a a shift?
00:02:36:17 - 00:02:58:10
Unknown
I'll give you an example. My one of the age used to work for me is way more successful than I ever was. She literally just sold a $7.5 million house in Naperville and set the world record for the most expensive piece of real estate ever sold in neighbor of Illinois. And I'm watching her, like on her business, and she's just crushing it.
00:02:58:10 - 00:03:14:15
Unknown
I'm like, where's the slowdown? Where's the slowdown? Where's the slowdown? But it's not just, Lauren, that I see that with I see that with other agents out there. And I'm always like, okay, guys, I get it. The market has shifted. The markets change, not as many transactions, but the people that are literally running a business and they're actually like literally running a business.
00:03:14:15 - 00:03:32:22
Unknown
I'm not talking to all you salespeople chasing the next paycheck breathing commission, breath setting the world on fire. What I'm talking about are people who are actually looking at their business, running it like a business and don't view themselves as a real estate agent, but more of an entrepreneur. And they're all doing fine. Literally, all of them are doing just fine.
00:03:32:24 - 00:03:56:01
Unknown
And what is the difference between them and you right now if in fact you are struggling? And I think what you're going to get out of this episode is a lot of experience because we brought on Mr. Aaron Hendon and he's been doing this for quite a while. This is he knows he gets it. And the topic of today's show is very simple How can you get what you want despite what the hell is going on today?
00:03:56:03 - 00:04:13:19
Unknown
Why is it that some people are getting there and some aren't? What's changed? Because nothing's changed for them. I believe it's a lot of mindset, but that's what we're going to discover today. So without further ado is going to introduce our guest, Mr. Aaron Hinden. How you doing, buddy? Mike I'm doing great. I so appreciate the opportunity to be here and very excited.
00:04:13:19 - 00:04:32:04
Unknown
It's great. It's great to be here with all your welcome to the show. Aaron actually told me. Yeah, he remembered me from like eight years ago, like this podcast is now in ten years. But I've been pretty, I've been slacking the last 12 months on it. I haven't been as consistent. I haven't been much into it, to be honest with you.
00:04:32:06 - 00:04:55:23
Unknown
I don't have anything. I'm in the middle of launching a new software and all that stuff, and I'm breaking my own rules that I've set and I've set the show with. Right. And I'm very embarrassed about that. So I'll be the first to admit that I'm not doing what I should be doing and I think that comes down to what stops people from getting what they want, because we I think we all know what we want.
00:04:55:23 - 00:05:11:12
Unknown
We know how to get there. But a smaller percentage of people actually get there. What's what gives there and what am I fucking up on right now? What am I doing wrong? Why can I do this? I love it. I love the way you even framed it. Couldn't be a better frame for what? For what happens for us.
00:05:11:12 - 00:05:39:16
Unknown
Because I'm not immune to this, okay? I come to this as I'm a old Jewish man from New York, so I'm guilt and shame and, you know, things are never so bad. They can't get worse was my family motto. So I'm all up in that as a default. And just the way you said what you said is perfect, because, look, there's no arguing that if you don't do the work, you're not going to get the results.
00:05:39:17 - 00:06:07:13
Unknown
So, you know, you're breaking your own rules. Right. And like you said, if you don...
You hear all this talk about how the market is slowing down, and that's true, but only for those who don't know how to shift to the new market. Today we are talking about your mindset, it needs to shift, like the market.
Resource
The Listing Advocate (Earn more listings!)
Transcript:
What's up? Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to our episode of the Real Estate Marketing Dude Podcast, folks, is a lot of people struggling right now, and I want to get right to it. You're struggling for a multitude of reasons. However, what it comes down to is getting what you really want, right? And why do you know? As much as the market has taken a a shift?
00:02:36:17 - 00:02:58:10
Unknown
I'll give you an example. My one of the age used to work for me is way more successful than I ever was. She literally just sold a $7.5 million house in Naperville and set the world record for the most expensive piece of real estate ever sold in neighbor of Illinois. And I'm watching her, like on her business, and she's just crushing it.
00:02:58:10 - 00:03:14:15
Unknown
I'm like, where's the slowdown? Where's the slowdown? Where's the slowdown? But it's not just, Lauren, that I see that with I see that with other agents out there. And I'm always like, okay, guys, I get it. The market has shifted. The markets change, not as many transactions, but the people that are literally running a business and they're actually like literally running a business.
00:03:14:15 - 00:03:32:22
Unknown
I'm not talking to all you salespeople chasing the next paycheck breathing commission, breath setting the world on fire. What I'm talking about are people who are actually looking at their business, running it like a business and don't view themselves as a real estate agent, but more of an entrepreneur. And they're all doing fine. Literally, all of them are doing just fine.
00:03:32:24 - 00:03:56:01
Unknown
And what is the difference between them and you right now if in fact you are struggling? And I think what you're going to get out of this episode is a lot of experience because we brought on Mr. Aaron Hendon and he's been doing this for quite a while. This is he knows he gets it. And the topic of today's show is very simple How can you get what you want despite what the hell is going on today?
00:03:56:03 - 00:04:13:19
Unknown
Why is it that some people are getting there and some aren't? What's changed? Because nothing's changed for them. I believe it's a lot of mindset, but that's what we're going to discover today. So without further ado is going to introduce our guest, Mr. Aaron Hinden. How you doing, buddy? Mike I'm doing great. I so appreciate the opportunity to be here and very excited.
00:04:13:19 - 00:04:32:04
Unknown
It's great. It's great to be here with all your welcome to the show. Aaron actually told me. Yeah, he remembered me from like eight years ago, like this podcast is now in ten years. But I've been pretty, I've been slacking the last 12 months on it. I haven't been as consistent. I haven't been much into it, to be honest with you.
00:04:32:06 - 00:04:55:23
Unknown
I don't have anything. I'm in the middle of launching a new software and all that stuff, and I'm breaking my own rules that I've set and I've set the show with. Right. And I'm very embarrassed about that. So I'll be the first to admit that I'm not doing what I should be doing and I think that comes down to what stops people from getting what they want, because we I think we all know what we want.
00:04:55:23 - 00:05:11:12
Unknown
We know how to get there. But a smaller percentage of people actually get there. What's what gives there and what am I fucking up on right now? What am I doing wrong? Why can I do this? I love it. I love the way you even framed it. Couldn't be a better frame for what? For what happens for us.
00:05:11:12 - 00:05:39:16
Unknown
Because I'm not immune to this, okay? I come to this as I'm a old Jewish man from New York, so I'm guilt and shame and, you know, things are never so bad. They can't get worse was my family motto. So I'm all up in that as a default. And just the way you said what you said is perfect, because, look, there's no arguing that if you don't do the work, you're not going to get the results.
00:05:39:17 - 00:06:07:13
Unknown
So, you know, you're breaking your own rules. Right. And like you said, if you don...
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