#854: “Eye” Am a Boy

03/14/25 • 0 min

Ever wonder why your son can spot the elusive bad guy on his video game, but doesn’t seem to notice the dust collecting on his dresser?
Well, there’s actually a biological reason for that. When compared to girls, boys have more rods than cones in their eyes. This makes boys more sensitive to movement, and more likely to focus on things farther away.
The difference makes sense historically. Men have traditionally been hunters and protectors, needing to see danger from far away.
So while it’s good to make sure your son knows how to clean, don’t forget that he needs freedom to be a boy. Encourage him to play outside, bird watch, or try archery. His God-given instincts will thank you.
For more ideas on raising boys to be godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

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#853:Competition is Key

You’re at the park with your son and his best friend. A hundred feet away is a water fountain. Your son asks if he can go get a drink.
When you say yes, the two boys race to the water fountain. Your son’s friend yells triumphantly when he gets there first.
Isn’t it funny how little boys often try to make everything a competition? As a parent, use that fact to keep your son engaged!
Whenever you can, add healthy risk to everyday life. Encourage your son to try a new activity, like the bigger slide at the playground, or volunteering at the animal shelter. You can even make completing chores or homework a friendly competition between siblings.
For more information about a Proven Process to raise boys into godly men, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.

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#855: Parenting Patience

Don’t you wish parenting boys was easy? Wouldn’t it be great if your son always listened carefully, obeyed immediately, and behaved perfectly?
The truth is—that’s rarely the case. When your son tests your patience for the hundredth time in a day, take a deep breath and remember our Savior’s example. When the Pharisees tried to trick him, He responded calmly. When the Jews demanded that He be crucified, he asked God to forgive them.
Training boys takes time. It won’t happen overnight, but through patient and consistent parenting, you’ll see your son grow into a godly young man. And the more he changes spiritually within his heart, the more you’ll see positive change in his outward behavior.
For more encouragement and parenting advice, visit Trail Life USA or RaisingGodlyBoys.com.