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Prosperity With Purpose | Christian Leadership Coach | Create More Peace, Make More Money, Multiply Your Time, Steward Your Business God's Way #LeadingLadiesMovement - 38 | Do You Love Yourself?

38 | Do You Love Yourself?

07/16/20 • 11 min

Prosperity With Purpose | Christian Leadership Coach | Create More Peace, Make More Money, Multiply Your Time, Steward Your Business God's Way #LeadingLadiesMovement

Join #ProsperityWithPurpose Mentorship ASAP at www.jessicahefley.com

12 weeks of interactive coaching designed to help you steward your life, multiply your business God’s way, and CREATE MORE PEACE to MAKE MORE MONEY!!

Do you love yourself? I want you to REALLY think about this! Like REALLY, REALLY think about it. Pause, give yourself time to turn this question over in your head, and see what feelings come up.

Sometimes we refuse to put any effort into creating a good life for ourselves because we don’t feel like we deserve it. We’re going there, friends! Do you feel like you deserve good things? Remember that you live into the story that you tell yourself, and if you tell yourself you don’t deserve all the goodness, you’re not going to get it!

I’ve heard over and over again from the people I coach that they haven’t given themselves permission to succeed. But I want to give you permission to succeed because you are amazing and you are worth it! Next time you pass a mirror, I want you to stop and look and say “I love you and I’m proud of you!”. And I want you to do that every single time you pass a mirror. The person you need to forgive the most in your life is yourself! We’re so hard on ourselves for past mistakes, things we’ve said or done, or things that can’t be changed. What if it was your child saying they’re stupid, or that they don’t belong? Would you agree with those thoughts? Are you going to sit there and affirm their negative ideas? Heck no! You’re going to call their BS and speak love and success into them. That’s what you want and see for your children!

But is that what you want to see for yourself? Forgiving yourself and loving yourself is one of the most powerful things you can do! We talk about the bible verse “love your neighbor as yourself” and we skip over that “love yourself” part. You can’t pour from an empty cup and you can’t serve and love others if you don’t give yourself the same love. Three things you really need to do to love yourself and give yourself permission to succeed include-

Forgive yourself for your past mistakes.

Appreciate your present.

Step into your best future.

The best is yet to come! Because you love yourself and you’re proud of yourself you can speak life into others and make an impact!

If you haven't checked out audible! Leaders are readers and audible is an amazing way for you to learn on the go! Use the link http://www.audibletrial.com/youreworthit to receive a 30-day FREE trial and one audiobook credit. You can start your learning today! Already have audible? Feel free to share this link with your friends or family!

Don’t forget to rate, review and subscribe to You’re Worth It!, so you don’t miss a single episode!

Snag Jessica’s “How To Get Off The Hot Mess Express” mini course at www.jessicahefley.com/grow

Connect with me: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jessicahefley_/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jessicahef YouTube: https://youtube.com/@JessicaHefley Website: https://www.jessicahefley.com/

If you would like to get in touch, head over to jessicahefley.com to see the free resources, collaborate or just send us a message!

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Join #ProsperityWithPurpose Mentorship ASAP at www.jessicahefley.com

12 weeks of interactive coaching designed to help you steward your life, multiply your business God’s way, and CREATE MORE PEACE to MAKE MORE MONEY!!

Do you love yourself? I want you to REALLY think about this! Like REALLY, REALLY think about it. Pause, give yourself time to turn this question over in your head, and see what feelings come up.

Sometimes we refuse to put any effort into creating a good life for ourselves because we don’t feel like we deserve it. We’re going there, friends! Do you feel like you deserve good things? Remember that you live into the story that you tell yourself, and if you tell yourself you don’t deserve all the goodness, you’re not going to get it!

I’ve heard over and over again from the people I coach that they haven’t given themselves permission to succeed. But I want to give you permission to succeed because you are amazing and you are worth it! Next time you pass a mirror, I want you to stop and look and say “I love you and I’m proud of you!”. And I want you to do that every single time you pass a mirror. The person you need to forgive the most in your life is yourself! We’re so hard on ourselves for past mistakes, things we’ve said or done, or things that can’t be changed. What if it was your child saying they’re stupid, or that they don’t belong? Would you agree with those thoughts? Are you going to sit there and affirm their negative ideas? Heck no! You’re going to call their BS and speak love and success into them. That’s what you want and see for your children!

But is that what you want to see for yourself? Forgiving yourself and loving yourself is one of the most powerful things you can do! We talk about the bible verse “love your neighbor as yourself” and we skip over that “love yourself” part. You can’t pour from an empty cup and you can’t serve and love others if you don’t give yourself the same love. Three things you really need to do to love yourself and give yourself permission to succeed include-

Forgive yourself for your past mistakes.

Appreciate your present.

Step into your best future.

The best is yet to come! Because you love yourself and you’re proud of yourself you can speak life into others and make an impact!

If you haven't checked out audible! Leaders are readers and audible is an amazing way for you to learn on the go! Use the link http://www.audibletrial.com/youreworthit to receive a 30-day FREE trial and one audiobook credit. You can start your learning today! Already have audible? Feel free to share this link with your friends or family!

Don’t forget to rate, review and subscribe to You’re Worth It!, so you don’t miss a single episode!

Snag Jessica’s “How To Get Off The Hot Mess Express” mini course at www.jessicahefley.com/grow

Connect with me: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jessicahefley_/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jessicahef YouTube: https://youtube.com/@JessicaHefley Website: https://www.jessicahefley.com/

If you would like to get in touch, head over to jessicahefley.com to see the free resources, collaborate or just send us a message!

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37 | This isn't Familiar? Good!

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12 weeks of interactive coaching designed to help you steward your life, multiply your business God’s way, and CREATE MORE PEACE to MAKE MORE MONEY!! Today I want to tell you guys about one of my favorite memories with my teammates.

I’m always looking for ways to push my leaders to the next level. So a couple of years ago, I took some of my top-level leaders to the Catalyst conference in California. It was actually a leadership conference for church leaders, but I believe what we do can mimic pastoral work!

We also went and took trapeze lessons! I was so excited! What a fun way to push ourselves and try something scary!

This was a LEGIT trapeze on Santa Monica Pier right on the ocean! You have to go through a safety course and everything! The first few times you climb up there and a trapeze artist throws you the swing and you have to catch the bar swing and go! Then they teach you how to drop properly. Then you get to do it again and you can wrap your legs around the bar and hang down and swing! The third time through you swing on your bar and the other trapeze artist grabs your legs and YOU LET GO!!! Whoa! I loved it! I love doing new and exciting things, but I also LOVE watching my friends and leaders do new and scary things! They had new confidence after that carried into their business and lives!

Anytime you push yourself to do something hard, you GROW! We hear the phrase “comfort zone” all the time. And it’s lost its meaning after hearing it SO much! But really the growth does come when you’re out of your normal! I’m rereading the Secret Code of Sucess by Noah St. John which is an amazing book for growth! There are so many things he discusses that really hit home and make you think about where you’re holding back in your business. He brings up that instead of a “comfort zone,” it’s really a “familiar zone”. It’s what you’re used to! People have said to me “I can’t imagine ever doing public speaking” or “I could NEVER talk about something like that online”. But... THEY CAN! I did! Those were two things that were very unfamiliar to me. But man, did I GROW from them! If they push themselves out of that familiar they could do ANYTHING they wanted to! If you want to be successful you’ve got to do some things that aren’t familiar to you! Let’s get out of your familiar zone!!!

If you haven't checked out audible! Leaders are readers and audible is an amazing way for you to learn on the go! Use the link http://www.audibletrial.com/youreworthit to receive a 30-day FREE trial and one audiobook credit. You can start your learning today! Already have audible? Feel free to share this link with your friends or family!

Don’t forget to rate, review and subscribe to You’re Worth It!, so you don’t miss a single episode!

Snag Jessica’s “How To Get Off The Hot Mess Express” mini course at www.jessicahefley.com/grow

Connect with me: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jessicahefley_/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jessicahef YouTube: https://youtube.com/@JessicaHefley Website: https://www.jessicahefley.com/

If you would like to get in touch, head over to jessicahefley.com to see the free resources, collaborate or just send us a message!

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undefined - 39 | Scarcity of Time

39 | Scarcity of Time

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12 weeks of interactive coaching designed to help you steward your life, multiply your business God’s way, and CREATE MORE PEACE to MAKE MORE MONEY!! Have you ever caught yourself saying or thinking “I just don’t have time for that?!” I’ve caught myself feeling those feelings of being busy, time deficient, and stressed lately. But I had to stop and remind myself I’m creating that idea! You live into the story you tell yourself! If you are saying that “I don’t have enough time to do that!” then you’re going to get to keep that thought. And you have a choice in how you feel! I feel like God gives us those stressed and busy feelings it’s an invitation to spend my time with Him! I feel like rest equals trust and you have to give up control to rest. Rest shouldn’t be our last resort. A lot of the time when we finally rest it’s because we’ve hit a wall and we feel like we can’t do one more thing, answer one more message or complete one more task. Rest can be your power source for how you live your life. Rest started at sundown in Jesus’ day. I found that so interesting that in that culture, rest was such an important part of their lives. What I did to flip my script, is to pause and remind myself “Everything you do is intentional”. I take a few moments to write down the MOST important things that I need to get done. We spend a lot of time busying ourselves with things that don’t even matter to us... That doesn’t make a lot of sense! If you’re struggling to narrow down the **REALLY** important things in your life go back to episodes 10 and 11 to help you zero in on your priorities. If you’re like me and have something big to tackle (like moving into a new house!) and it feels incredibly overwhelming, take it one thing at a time. Breaking it down into small to-dos will help your productivity and feelings of stress and overwhelm. Don’t forget to prioritize your business. You can have peace in your home, and heart, with your family, and your business! You have to invest your time where you want to see growth! I’m still figuring it all out too. After my episode on loving yourself, I got to really thinking about how I was investing in myself and realized I haven’t been in the gym and I’m definitely not making it any closer to my goals. I felt BETTER than before after spending time on myself even though I felt busy and overwhelmed. Because I want to be healthy for me, and I need to make that a priority. I also felt good about accomplishing something I set out to do and was able to check it off my list. Look at those stress indicators as an invitation to slow down and rest, spend time with God, reprioritize, and take action. What you do with your life is YOUR choice! Let’s look at rest as being on the offense. It might be time to say no to some things too. It may be time to get off that committee or hire help where needed. You can have peace in your heart and money in your bank if you live with intention. And I’m THRILLED for you because it’s such an enjoyable way to live life.

If you haven't checked out audible! Leaders are readers and audible is an amazing way for you to learn on the go! Use the link http://www.audibletrial.com/youreworthit to receive a 30-day FREE trial and one audiobook credit. You can start your learning today! Already have audible? Feel free to share this link with your friends or family!

Don’t forget to rate, review and subscribe to You’re Worth It!, so you don’t miss a single episode!

Snag Jessica’s “How To Get Off The Hot Mess Express” mini course at www.jessicahefley.com/grow

Connect with me: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jessicahefley_/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jessicahef YouTube: https://youtube.com/@JessicaHefley Website: https://www.jessicahefley.com/

If you would like to get in touch, head over to jessicahefley.com to see the free resources, collaborate or just send us a message!

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