#39 - Playas Gon Play with Joanna Sotomura (joannasotomura)

12/05/17 • 40 min

Perfectly Imperfect with Christine and Regina

No one likes to talk about being cheated on or cheating on someone. When the foundation of any relationship is trust and that trust is broken through cheating, lies, broken promises, and crossed boundaries (again and again and again), what the EFF do we do? We want to dive into the heartbreak as well as the consequences of being cheated on, lied to, and how we can learn to build ourselves back up + set better boundaries. This week, our sista love who always keeps things real, Joanna Sotomura joins us in this super difficult and complicated topic. We share our stories of being cheated on as well as being the cheater in past relationships... and of course, our lessons through some of the hardest times of our lives. Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help YouFind - and Keep - Love http://amzn.to/2kmutMq Follow Joanna here: Joanna Sotomura - Instagram: joannasotomura; Twitter: joannasotomura Follow us on social! Christine - Instagram: @peachiechristine; Twitter: @christinechen4 Regina - Instagram: @regina.fang; Twitter: @reginafang Perfectly Imperfect - Facebook: perfectlyimperfectpodcast NEW episodes every TUESDAY! Remember to rate, review, and subscribe on iTunes and don't forget to tell a friend about the show :) See you guys next week! Send us feedback/questions at [email protected] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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#38 - Lighting the Darkness with Mimi Chao (mimochai)

We’re too often told to stay positive! Think happy thoughts! Don’t dwell in the negative! And while this can be great advice to help deal with life's woes, how do we approach it authentically so that resentment and anger don't take over? In many aspects of our lives, we suppress a lot of feelings and emotions in order to move on and "be positive". Sometimes it’s for survival, other times it becomes a way of life. But it doesn't mean those "bad" emotions are really gone! This week, our fairy soul sister Mimi Chao joins us as we explore the many ways we have dealt with the suppression of negatives memories from past experiences and how the consequences have affected our lives. We also dive into how we are currently processing all the horrific news happening daily in today's political climate from Harvey Weinstein, Trump, to the devastating Sutherland Springs shooting. How do we find happiness when there is negativity everywhere?! "Life is a creation of the mind." - Buddha A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle http://amzn.to/2wSCDRk What I Know For Sure by Oprah Winfrey http://amzn.to/2uNzfE3 Follow Mimi here: Mimi Chao - Instagram: mimochai; Twitter: mimizchao; Website: http://www.mimochai.com/ Support her Kickstarter! http://kck.st/2ADt07x Follow us on social! Christine - Instagram: @peachiechristine; Twitter: @christinechen4 Regina - Instagram: @regina.fang; Twitter: @reginafang Perfectly Imperfect - Facebook: perfectlyimperfectpodcast NEW episodes every TUESDAY! Remember to rate, review, and subscribe on iTunes and don't forget to tell a friend about the show :) See you guys next week! Send us feedback/questions at [email protected] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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#40 - Dear Mama with Chris Dinh (chrisdinh)

A child’s relationship with his/her mom can be complicated. We have this ideal image of a mother is one who should ALWAYS provide nurture, care, and unconditional love, but sometimes, this just isn't our reality. As first generation Asian Americans, our relationships with our moms face extra obstacles such as language and cultural barriers, which can make being open and honest with each other extremely difficult. This week, our good friend, Chris Dinh joins us as we dive deeper and explore what our moms' stories are: who they were growing up, what their hopes and dreams were, what they sacrificed and overcame. Knowing their story is key in getting to know yours and untangling years of misunderstandings, regret, and resentment. Follow Chris here: Chris Dinh - http://mymomsfoodblog-blog.tumblr.com Follow us on social! Christine - Instagram: @peachiechristine; Twitter: @christinechen4 Regina - Instagram: @regina.fang; Twitter: @reginafang Perfectly Imperfect - Facebook: perfectlyimperfectpodcast NEW episodes every TUESDAY! Remember to rate, review, and subscribe on iTunes and don't forget to tell a friend about the show :) See you guys next week! Send us feedback/questions at [email protected] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices