Dads Unleashed:Their Perspective on the Stress of Parenting
11/01/24 • 34 min
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Ken Wiesenfeld is a husband of 30 years, with 2 amazing young adult sons, who he could not be more proud of. He wishes that he had the wisdom of those lessons most recently learned about parenting while he was "winging it" during the pre-teen years. In addition to spending time with his family, Ken is the proprietor of a financial consulting practice, providing accounting, finance, and acquisition support to clients.
Lonny Anger has been married for 23 years, and has 3 children, and 2 dogs. He views being a parent as a great gift that comes with no instructions. He is proud to pass on his love of Billy Joel, skiing, and good food onto his children. When he is not with his family, Lonny owns a general contracting company that specializes in commercial interior renovation, and a separate company that builds pickleball courts (as well as tennis and basketball.)
Jessica and Carrie are joined by their husbands. They discuss the overwhelming stress parents face today. They explore the impact of social media on parenting, the importance of work-life balance, and the evolving roles of dads. The conversation also touches on conflict resolution, mindful parenting practices, and the legacy parents wish to leave for their children. Throughout the discussion, the importance of communication and support in parenting is emphasized, along with practical advice for new dads.
Takeaways
- Communication is crucial.
- Get comfortable with being uncomfortable.
- Your own experiences will shape your role as a parent.
Timestamps
00:00 Introduction to the episode and guests
03:15 Discussion on the article about parental stress
07:45 Ken and Lonnie share why they sent the article
12:30 Lonnie on societal pressures and social comparisons
15:50 Ken emphasizes work-life balance and shared responsibilities
19:00 Generational shifts in parenting roles
22:45 Importance of communication in managing parenting roles
26:10 Personal experiences influencing parenting methods
30:00 Impact of conflict resolution visibility on children
33:20 Advice on mindful parenting and being present
37:00 Personal values and hopes for their children's future
40:15 Closing thoughts and appreciation for the podcast work
42:00 Invitation for listener feedback and final remarks
🔗 Connect with Jessica Anger and Carrie Wiesenfeld:
Instagram | [email protected]Soaring Hawk Life Coaching | Ocean Waves Parenting
Send us an email @ [email protected]
Ken Wiesenfeld is a husband of 30 years, with 2 amazing young adult sons, who he could not be more proud of. He wishes that he had the wisdom of those lessons most recently learned about parenting while he was "winging it" during the pre-teen years. In addition to spending time with his family, Ken is the proprietor of a financial consulting practice, providing accounting, finance, and acquisition support to clients.
Lonny Anger has been married for 23 years, and has 3 children, and 2 dogs. He views being a parent as a great gift that comes with no instructions. He is proud to pass on his love of Billy Joel, skiing, and good food onto his children. When he is not with his family, Lonny owns a general contracting company that specializes in commercial interior renovation, and a separate company that builds pickleball courts (as well as tennis and basketball.)
Jessica and Carrie are joined by their husbands. They discuss the overwhelming stress parents face today. They explore the impact of social media on parenting, the importance of work-life balance, and the evolving roles of dads. The conversation also touches on conflict resolution, mindful parenting practices, and the legacy parents wish to leave for their children. Throughout the discussion, the importance of communication and support in parenting is emphasized, along with practical advice for new dads.
Takeaways
- Communication is crucial.
- Get comfortable with being uncomfortable.
- Your own experiences will shape your role as a parent.
Timestamps
00:00 Introduction to the episode and guests
03:15 Discussion on the article about parental stress
07:45 Ken and Lonnie share why they sent the article
12:30 Lonnie on societal pressures and social comparisons
15:50 Ken emphasizes work-life balance and shared responsibilities
19:00 Generational shifts in parenting roles
22:45 Importance of communication in managing parenting roles
26:10 Personal experiences influencing parenting methods
30:00 Impact of conflict resolution visibility on children
33:20 Advice on mindful parenting and being present
37:00 Personal values and hopes for their children's future
40:15 Closing thoughts and appreciation for the podcast work
42:00 Invitation for listener feedback and final remarks
🔗 Connect with Jessica Anger and Carrie Wiesenfeld:
Instagram | [email protected]Soaring Hawk Life Coaching | Ocean Waves Parenting
Previous Episode
Supporting Teens through School Challenges ft. Dr. Debra Green and Dr. Jill Kristal
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Dr. Debra Green earned her PhD in School Psychology from NYU and is a certified school and licensed clinical psychologist in New York. She served as Chief Psychologist for the Pleasantville Union Free School District for over 20 years, retiring in 2018. With over 30 years in private practice, she has also been on the Board of the Westchester County Psychological Association and continues to supervise interns and early-career psychologists.
Dr. Jill Kristal is a clinical psychologist with over 30 years of experience in New York and London. She treats clients of all ages and has expertise in international relocation, creating game-based tools for families. Jill has worked with special needs children, co-authored a guide for Kimochis, and is trained in EMDR for PTSD. She leads the Westchester County Trauma Recovery Network, providing referrals for community members and first responders.
They explore the shortage of therapists in certain areas, the benefits of teletherapy, and the residual emotional impacts of missed milestones. The discussion also covers educational gaps, particularly for children with special needs, the importance of community support, and the evolving roles of parents, educators, and mental health professionals.
Takeaways
- Recognize and Address "COVID Gaps"
- Support childhood transition
- Utilize online therapy options
Timestamps
00:00 Dr. Debra Green & Dr. Jill Kristal: Clinical Psychologist, International Experience.
05:40 Jill connects schools with psychologists and support.
06:32 Recent grads struggle with unmet job expectations.
11:06 Discussing major life and school transitions.
15:54 Listen to and support children's diverse interests.
18:53 Challenges with school refusal and attendance issues.
21:49 Parental involvement impacts a child's school attendance struggles.
24:55 Parents must recognize deeper reasons for noncompliance.
29:40 Online work enables effective global therapeutic treatments.
32:49 Kids express grief over missed opportunities, COVID.
36:12 Address COVID-related gaps; collaborate with educators.
39:02 Routine pediatric visits should include mental health checkups.
41:31 Emotional education in schools; WellCheck app helps.
44:34 Conversation's end: enlightening insights and contact information.
🔗 Connect with Dr. Debra Green & Dr. Jill Kristal
Email: [email protected] | [email protected]
Website: https://www.jillkristalphd.com/
🔗 Connect with Jessica Anger and Carrie Wiesenfeld:
Instagram | [email protected]Soaring Hawk Life Coaching | Ocean Waves Parenting
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Is Failure to Launch Really Failing?
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In this episode, Carrie and Jessica take a deep dive into the term "failure to launch" and what it really means for young adults and their families. We explore why some young people struggle to achieve independence and how family dynamics, societal expectations, and personal challenges can contribute to delayed adulthood. From the early steps parents can take to build independence in kids to strategies for empowering young adults to reach their full potential, we cover it all. Join us as we unpack practical insights for parents and caregivers who want to give their kids the confidence and skills to soar.
🔗 Connect with Jessica Anger and Carrie Wiesenfeld:
Instagram | [email protected]Soaring Hawk Life Coaching | Ocean Waves Parenting
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