
Ashley Young: “Where is She?”丨MURDERISH Ep. 106
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03/28/22 • 58 min
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Optimists have a tendency to see the best in people, sometimes to their own detriment. According to
Healthline, an individual’s calling to fix other peoples’ problems is referred to by psychologists as a savior
complex or white knight syndrome. A savior complex would explain the unlikely friendship between
Ashley Young and her friend who had a troubling past. Ashley often saw the best in people and believed
her positive influence could potentially set someone on the right path. Unfortunately, Ashley’s unwavering
loyalty put her in grave danger. After detectives made a gruesome discovery and conducted forensic
tests, a parent’s worst nightmare came true. Ashley Young had been murdered and the killer may have
had help from an unlikely source. To this day, Ashley’s family still do not have all the answers they crave
and deserve.
Check us out: Visit Murderish.com for more info about the show and Creator/Host, Jami. The website also
has links to buy MURDERISH merchandise and become a Patreon supporter. Patreon subscribers can
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Sound design: Justin Hellstrom.
Music: Some of the music in this podcast was composed by Nico Vettese of We Talk of Dreams
Research & Writing: Catherine Devine.
Jami’s other podcast: Follow Judgey & Juryish wherever you listen to podcasts & on Instagram
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Optimists have a tendency to see the best in people, sometimes to their own detriment. According to
Healthline, an individual’s calling to fix other peoples’ problems is referred to by psychologists as a savior
complex or white knight syndrome. A savior complex would explain the unlikely friendship between
Ashley Young and her friend who had a troubling past. Ashley often saw the best in people and believed
her positive influence could potentially set someone on the right path. Unfortunately, Ashley’s unwavering
loyalty put her in grave danger. After detectives made a gruesome discovery and conducted forensic
tests, a parent’s worst nightmare came true. Ashley Young had been murdered and the killer may have
had help from an unlikely source. To this day, Ashley’s family still do not have all the answers they crave
and deserve.
Check us out: Visit Murderish.com for more info about the show and Creator/Host, Jami. The website also
has links to buy MURDERISH merchandise and become a Patreon supporter. Patreon subscribers can
get access to exclusive Patreon-only episodes. To sign up for Patreon perks, click “Go Behind the
Scenes” on the website OR click here for a direct link to our Patreon page
https://www.patreon.com/Murderish.
Let’s get social: @MurderishPodcast (Instagram), @MurderishPod (Twitter), search “Murderish podcast”
(Facebook).
CrimeCon: Visit CrimeCon.com to buy your badge to attend the event. Use code MURDERISH for 10% a
Standard Badge. Hope to see you there!
Sponsors:
Stamps.com: Visit Stamps.com and sign up with promo code MURDERISH for a special offer that
includes a 4-week trial, free postage, & a digital scale.
Truebill: Visit Truebill.com/Murderish for help canceling unwanted subscriptions and potential
money savings.
AcornTV: Visit Acorn.TV and use code murderish (all lowercase letters) to get your first 30 days
of streaming for free.
Want to advertise on this show? We’ve partnered with Cloud10 | iHeartRadio to handle our advertising
requests. If you’re interested in advertising on MURDERISH, send an email to Sahiba Krieger
mailto:[email protected] with a copy to mailto:[email protected].
Sound design: Justin Hellstrom.
Music: Some of the music in this podcast was composed by Nico Vettese of We Talk of Dreams
Research & Writing: Catherine Devine.
Jami’s other podcast: Follow Judgey & Juryish wherever you listen to podcasts & on Instagram
@JudgeyJuryish.
Remember, listening to this podcast doesn’t make you a murderer - it just means you’re murder...ish
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but soon she’d find out that it wasn’t. Her marriage was in serious trouble and the ideal life she’d built with
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Check us out: Visit Murderish.com for more info about the show and Creator/Host, Jami. The website also
has links to buy MURDERISH merchandise and become a Patreon supporter. Patreon subscribers can
get access to exclusive Patreon-only episodes. To sign up for Patreon perks, click “Go Behind the
Scenes” on the website OR click here for a direct link to our Patreon page
https://www.patreon.com/Murderish.
Let’s get social: @MurderishPodcast (Instagram), @MurderishPod (Twitter), search “Murderish podcast”
(Facebook).
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Standard Badge. Hope to see you there!
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Sound design: Justin Hellstrom.
Music: Some of the music in this podcast was composed by Nico Vettese of We Talk of Dreams
Research & Writing: Catherine Devine.
Jami’s other podcast: Follow Judgey & Juryish wherever you listen to podcasts & on Instagram
@JudgeyJuryish.
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When feelings for another person run deep, people are often inclined to see the best in that person. It’s
not uncommon for unsettling behavior to be excused rather than seeing it as a warning sign and acting on
it. But this idealism can put someone in harm’s way without them realizing it until it’s much too late. When
Nicole Montalvo went missing in October 2019, investigators quickly learned that a lot was going on in her
personal life and sadly, her circumstances were not all that unusual. Nicole’s disturbing murder led to
three arrests and one trial.
Montalvo family GoFundMe: https://www.gofundme.com/f/montalvo-family-fund
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Check us out: Visit Murderish.com for more info about the show and Creator/Host, Jami. The website also
has links to buy MURDERISH merchandise and become a Patreon supporter. Patreon subscribers can
get access to exclusive Patreon-only episodes. To sign up for Patreon perks, click “Go Behind the
Scenes” on the website OR click here for a direct link to our Patreon page
https://www.patreon.com/Murderish.
Let’s get social: @MurderishPodcast (Instagram & TikTok), @MurderishPod (Twitter), search “Murderish
podcast” (Facebook).
CrimeCon: Visit CrimeCon.com to buy your badge to attend the event. Use code MURDERISH for 10% a
Standard Badge. Hope to see you there!
Sponsors:
Rothy’s: Visit rothys.com/MURDERISH for $20 off your first purchase.
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requests. If you’re interested in advertising on MURDERISH, send an email to Sahiba Krieger
mailto:[email protected] with a copy to mailto:[email protected].
Sound design: Justin Hellstrom.
Music: Some of the music in this podcast was composed by Nico Vettese of We Talk of Dreams
Research & Writing: Catherine Devine.
Jami’s other podcast: Follow Judgey & Juryish wherever you listen to podcasts & on Instagram
@JudgeyJuryish.
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