
Your Midlife Sex Life
03/02/22 • 32 min
Turn down the lights,
Turn down the bed....
Yep, we're going there this week. We're talking about your Midlife Sex Life. But don't worry, this isn't soft porn. This is real girlfriend talk about how our changing bodies and different brains affect our feelings about sex.
Shifting hormones, changing body composition, hot flashes, and so much more can affect how we feel about ourselves which often affects our sex lives. We cover what makes us less-than-excited about sex, and how we can help ourselves and our partners.
But hold your horses; before you get too hot and bothered, let us explain. There are a ton of factors that affect libido. There are stages of sex. Did you know that there are organs involved that aren't south of your navel? There are hormones that trigger emotions and physical response. Yes, we take a little bit if a scientific approach. (Did you forget that Amelia is a scientist?) So don't be sheepish about listening to this episode. You're going to love it, feel empowered by it and enjoy the levity we bring to this sensitive subject.
Other Episodes You Might Like:
Real-life Solutions for the Midlife MidsectionBelly Fat, Insulin, and MidlifeHas Your Exercise Stopped Working in Midlife?Resources For You:
5 Free Core Workouts for Midlife Women
Solid Center
https://bit.ly/SolidCenter
Get Social!
Join us on the midlife journey!
Websites: www.camoyler.com and www.thehelpfulplate.com
Instagram: www.Instagram.com/midlife.mommas
Stay Connected!
Amelia
Cam
- Website: https://www.camoyler.com/
- IG: https://www.instagram.com/heymomma_cam/
- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@heymomma_cam
Midlife Mommas IG: https://www.instagram.com/midlife.mommas/
Please share, rate, and review the podcast. We appreciate you! ❤️
Turn down the lights,
Turn down the bed....
Yep, we're going there this week. We're talking about your Midlife Sex Life. But don't worry, this isn't soft porn. This is real girlfriend talk about how our changing bodies and different brains affect our feelings about sex.
Shifting hormones, changing body composition, hot flashes, and so much more can affect how we feel about ourselves which often affects our sex lives. We cover what makes us less-than-excited about sex, and how we can help ourselves and our partners.
But hold your horses; before you get too hot and bothered, let us explain. There are a ton of factors that affect libido. There are stages of sex. Did you know that there are organs involved that aren't south of your navel? There are hormones that trigger emotions and physical response. Yes, we take a little bit if a scientific approach. (Did you forget that Amelia is a scientist?) So don't be sheepish about listening to this episode. You're going to love it, feel empowered by it and enjoy the levity we bring to this sensitive subject.
Other Episodes You Might Like:
Real-life Solutions for the Midlife MidsectionBelly Fat, Insulin, and MidlifeHas Your Exercise Stopped Working in Midlife?Resources For You:
5 Free Core Workouts for Midlife Women
Solid Center
https://bit.ly/SolidCenter
Get Social!
Join us on the midlife journey!
Websites: www.camoyler.com and www.thehelpfulplate.com
Instagram: www.Instagram.com/midlife.mommas
Stay Connected!
Amelia
Cam
- Website: https://www.camoyler.com/
- IG: https://www.instagram.com/heymomma_cam/
- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@heymomma_cam
Midlife Mommas IG: https://www.instagram.com/midlife.mommas/
Please share, rate, and review the podcast. We appreciate you! ❤️
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Little Leaks from Coughing and Sneezing: The Midlife Pelvic Floor
Have you ever had that little anxious moment....right before sneezing when you feared that you'd leak the slightest dribble of urine? It's a real concern for many women in midlife.
We are here to discuss this difficult, embarrassing and very common subject. The first thing to know is that while common, this is not normal. Many of use are told by our doctors that a little urine leakage while coughing, sneezing, laughing, exercising or lifting is just an unfortunate result of aging. But it's not. This a result of weak pelvic floor muscles.
In this episode we talk about :
- What your pelvic floor is
- How you exercise your pelvic floor muscles
- The difference between weak pelvic floor muscles and tight pelvic floor muscles
- What makes you prone to weak pelvic floor muscles
- What treatments are available if you are leaking urine
At the end of this episode, we posit how your pelvic floor affects your intimacy and we invite you to tell US if this subject is important to you and if you'd like us to do an episode on it.
Other Episodes You Might Like:
Real-life Solutions for the Midlife MidsectionBelly Fat, Insulin, and MidlifeResources For You:
5 Free Core Workouts for Midlife Women
Solid Center
https://bit.ly/SolidCenter
Get Social!
Join us on the midlife journey!
Websites: www.camoyler.com and www.thehelpfulplate.com
Instagram: www.Instagram.com/midlife.mommas
Stay Connected!
Amelia
Cam
- Website: https://www.camoyler.com/
- IG: https://www.instagram.com/heymomma_cam/
- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@heymomma_cam
Midlife Mommas IG: https://www.instagram.com/midlife.mommas/
Please share, rate, and review the podcast. We appreciate you! ❤️
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Midlife, Menopause, and Hormone Replacement Therapy-Signs, Symptoms, Solutions, women over 40,perimenopause, midlife
This week we’re here to talk about hormone replacement or HRT. Many women experiment with various forms of hormone therapy, such as the use of birth control pills. We have both used this and other hormone replacement therapies and we are going to tell you our experience.
We are not doctors and cannot tell you what is right for YOU, but we want to share some facts so that you are armed with your own questions to ask yourself and your medical provider.
Some women sail through menopause without HRT, while others have found the symptoms to severely decrease quality of life and have opted to supplement with estrogen, progesterone and possibly testosterone. This is a delicate, precious and joyous time in life. To figure out if HRT is right for you, we encourage you to listen to this episode, employ the resources we’ve provided and start asking questions!
Resources:
34 Symptoms of Menopause:
- Hot Flashes
- Night Sweats
- Irregular Periods
- Mood Changes
- Breast Soreness
- Decreased Libido
- Vaginal dryness
- Headaches
- Tingling Extremities
- Burning Mouth
- Changes in Taste
- Fatigue
- Bloating
- Other digestive changes
- Joint pain
- Muscle tension and aches
- Electric shock sensation
- Itchiness Sleep disturbance
- Difficulty concentrating
- Memory lapses
- Thinning hair
- Brittle nails
- Weight gain
- Stress incontinence
- Dizzy spells
- Allergies
- Osteoporosis
- Irregular heartbeat
- Body odor
- Irritability
- Depression
- Anxiety
- Panic disorder
DUTCH test:
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Recommended Hormone Books:
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Stay Connected!
Amelia
Cam
- Website: https://www.camoyler.com/
- IG: https://www.instagram.com/heymomma_cam/
- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@heymomma_cam
Midlife Mommas IG: https://www.instagram.com/midlife.mommas/
Please share, rate, and review the podcast. We appreciate you! ❤️
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