
20: Trial Style and Courtroom Confidence, with Judith Gaton
07/06/21 • 40 min
In Episode 20 of May the Record Reflect, trial lawyer and wardrobe consultation Judith Gaton joins us to explain why style matters in the courtroom and how to dress for post-pandemic office life at a time when the expected corporate culture—and maybe our bodies—have changed.
Topics
3:05 Why your clothes matter
5:36 But isn’t style frivolous?
13:18 Work clothes that no longer “fit”
16:22 Evaluating your wardrobe after covid
18:45 What pieces to invest in, and what to save on
21:48 Pandemic’s impact on dressing for the law office
25:15 Menswear options for a more casual office environment
27:29 Stanley Tucci’s refined casual style and sprezzatura
30:54 Sleek footwear options
32:40 Style inspo and options for lawyers and other professionals
38:07 Signature signoff question
Quote
“We have to sort of make room to be amused by each other as we find our footing and find out what it’s going to look like for all of us as we re-enter society, as we sort of spend more time with each other, as we come back to the office. It doesn’t have to go back to the way it always was. There’s no requirement. This is a beautiful moment for all of us to rethink ‘Did we even like the way it always was? Did we enjoy wearing suits? Did we enjoy being dressed up all the time?’ or would we all collectively prefer to be a little more on the smart-casual side of things, or business casual of things, than to be so dressed up all the time. Each office culture’s going to have to figure that out for itself. I think every courtroom, almost, is going to decide that for itself.” (Judith Gaton)
Recommended Resources
Judith Gaton (bio)
How COVID-19 has changed what we wear and how we feel about clothing (Seattle Times)
Schedule an Appointment with Those Clothes You Haven’t Worn in a Year (New York Times)
In Praise of Stanley Tucci’s TV Travel Uniform (GQ)
Berluti double monkstrap sneakers
Next Level Wardrobe (Instagram)
Read NITA’s statement on the important of in-person advocacy in courts, here.
In Episode 20 of May the Record Reflect, trial lawyer and wardrobe consultation Judith Gaton joins us to explain why style matters in the courtroom and how to dress for post-pandemic office life at a time when the expected corporate culture—and maybe our bodies—have changed.
Topics
3:05 Why your clothes matter
5:36 But isn’t style frivolous?
13:18 Work clothes that no longer “fit”
16:22 Evaluating your wardrobe after covid
18:45 What pieces to invest in, and what to save on
21:48 Pandemic’s impact on dressing for the law office
25:15 Menswear options for a more casual office environment
27:29 Stanley Tucci’s refined casual style and sprezzatura
30:54 Sleek footwear options
32:40 Style inspo and options for lawyers and other professionals
38:07 Signature signoff question
Quote
“We have to sort of make room to be amused by each other as we find our footing and find out what it’s going to look like for all of us as we re-enter society, as we sort of spend more time with each other, as we come back to the office. It doesn’t have to go back to the way it always was. There’s no requirement. This is a beautiful moment for all of us to rethink ‘Did we even like the way it always was? Did we enjoy wearing suits? Did we enjoy being dressed up all the time?’ or would we all collectively prefer to be a little more on the smart-casual side of things, or business casual of things, than to be so dressed up all the time. Each office culture’s going to have to figure that out for itself. I think every courtroom, almost, is going to decide that for itself.” (Judith Gaton)
Recommended Resources
Judith Gaton (bio)
How COVID-19 has changed what we wear and how we feel about clothing (Seattle Times)
Schedule an Appointment with Those Clothes You Haven’t Worn in a Year (New York Times)
In Praise of Stanley Tucci’s TV Travel Uniform (GQ)
Berluti double monkstrap sneakers
Next Level Wardrobe (Instagram)
Read NITA’s statement on the important of in-person advocacy in courts, here.
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19: Upleveling Your Oral Advocacy Skills, with Hon. Nancy Vaidik and Rebecca Diaz-Bonilla
In Episode 19 of May the Record Reflect, Judge Nancy Vaidik of the Indiana Court of Appeals and international communications consultant Rebecca Diaz-Bonilla, are in the hot seat to share insights from their new book, Point Well Made, Persuasive Oral Advocacy. They reveal why oral advocacy still matters in a time when most cases settle before going to trial, how to better know your judge to give yourself a leg up, and what are the highs and lows of ruling from the Zoom bench.
Topics
3:56 A learning-by-doing book for oral advocacy
6:45 Writing process as co-authors writing remotely
9:05 Why trial lawyers should care about oral advocacy
11:16 Oral versus written advocacy
13:17 Oral advocacy in persuasion
16:02 What judges are looking forward to in a proceeding
21:24 What to know about your judge
23:45 Relationships you need to know about
27:45 Appearing before a multi-judge panel
30:03 Why rebuttal matters
31:31 Judge Vaidik’s experience with remote advocacy
35:32 “Soft” things lost in remote hearings
40:06 Communication needs that have changed during the pandemic
42:25 Signature signoff question
Quotes
“Oral advocacy is a lot different from written advocacy and our law schools are focusing on written advocacy and not on oral advocacy, and there are differences. In oral advocacy, as an advocate, you can actually listen to the judge’s concerns—or whoever you’re talking to, the listener’s concerns – and adapt your argument. You can’t do that in a written setting. In an oral setting, however, you need to keep attention, the attention of the listener. And in a written advocacy situation, that’s not so much the case because when the reader loses focus, they can go back and re-read the material. You can’t do that in oral advocacy situation.” (Judge Nancy Vaidik)
“Judges are people too, and so they’re not immune to the digital age and the lower attention span and the need for people to get to the point and say it clearly, concisely, thematically. All those things are super important, and so old-style argument is not going to be as effective. You have to take into account the digital age and the judges who are going to be listening, especially as younger and younger judges get appointed to the courts. It’s so important to adapt the way we approach oral argument in front of one or multiple judges.” (Rebecca Diaz-Bonilla)
Recommended Resources
Point Well Made: Persuasive Oral Advocacy (book)
Hon. Nancy Vaidik (bio)
Rebecca Diaz-Bonilla (bio)
Foolproof: The Art of Communication for Lawyers and Professionals, Second Edition (book)
Rebecca Diaz-Bonilla’s “Foolproof” Tips for Professional Communication (podcast)
Delivering a (Last-Minute) Point Well Made (webcast)
Read NITA’s statement on the important of in-person advocacy in courts,
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21: Top 10 Trial Tips that Make a Difference, with Steve Wood
In Episode 21 of May the Record Reflect, veteran prosecutor Steve Wood joins us to share his ten favorite trial tips. He also talks about what he remembers about his first trial, his life in public service as the Delaware DOJ’s leading trial attorney, and the other reflections on living the lawyering life.
Topics
2:43 Tip #1
5:20 Why law?
7:18 Tip #2
10:31 Recollections of his first trial
13:08 Tip #3
18:08 Favorite part of trial
25:04 Tip #4
27:15 Nerves and anxiety about trial
28:34 Tip #5
32:49 Unwinding after trial
34:16 Tip #6
38:34 Most agonizing career decision
40:49 Public service careers
45:36 Tip #7
48:36 A high-profile case I wish I’d tried
49:56 Tip #8
52:28 Tip #9
54:03 Retirement
54:30 Tip #10
56:27 Signature signoff question
Quote
“Somebody I taught with [at NITA] once said something I thought was brilliant, and it’s this: ‘Time is the measure of importance in the courtroom, whether you want it to be or not.’ And what that means is, we indicate importance by how much time we spend on something.”
Recommended Resources
Steven P. Wood (bio)
America’s Constitution: A Biography (book)
So Many Ways to Lose (book)
Geddy Lee’s Big Beautiful Book of Bass (book)
Read NITA’s statement on the important of in-person advocacy in courts, here.
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