
Mastering the Drop REPLAY featuring Guest Tamar Medford
12/07/22 • 54 min
In this replay episode, Tricia is joined by Tamar Medford. Listen as they talk all about Putting Recovery goals into an aspirational plan with effective goals. Instead of allowing them to create anxiety and stress, use newfound skillsets and Focus only on what is right for right now!
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Hello. Hello. Good morning everybody. Look at us here for mastering the drop. A real view of recovery, bright and early at 9:00 AM and I think my internet is just kind of warming up to the idea I'm being live. So if I'm going slow, You know, I totally apologize, but, but here's the deal, man.
Sometimes we just have to go with the flow and, and, and show up when the time is right. And, and today my, my amazing friend Tamara and I are gonna be having these conversations about, you know, putting our recovery, recovery goals, you know, into a really aspirational plan. But making sure that they're super effective, right?
We always want to, you know, do what works and be effective. So this is what's going to actually keep us, um, out of the debilitating levels of anxiety and stress. Um, and, and I've been talking a lot this week about, Some amazing skill sets that we can focus on that really help us break things down and into a category.
But, you know, let's, let's first, you know, have Tamar introduce yourself. . Good morning, Tamar.
Good morning. I'm so excited to be here and I've enjoyed our convers. Thoroughly over the time that we've met. Uh, so my name's Tamar Medford and I'm a neuro change master practitioner, a life coach and author and host of the podcast, the Road Beyond Recovery, and my mission is to really help those in recovery, to overcome their limiting beliefs so they can create a life so good for themselves that they never want to go back to their old way of living.
And. Discovering my own purpose has changed and enhanced my own recovery, and it's been such a gift. I'm so glad it took me a little longer than you know, most to realize that. But I'm there now and um, yeah, that's what I do and I'm happy to be here.
Well, thank you. I love that you're here. I am so ecstatic that we connected, that we met, and that we're.
Cultivating such an amazing space
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Tamar Medford Certified Neuro Change Master PractitionerTM, YB12TM & Mens SanaTM Coach | Author | Podcast Host www.theroadforward.ca
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The Road Beyond Recovery Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-road-beyond-recovery/id1489009860
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In this replay episode, Tricia is joined by Tamar Medford. Listen as they talk all about Putting Recovery goals into an aspirational plan with effective goals. Instead of allowing them to create anxiety and stress, use newfound skillsets and Focus only on what is right for right now!
___________________________________________________
Hello. Hello. Good morning everybody. Look at us here for mastering the drop. A real view of recovery, bright and early at 9:00 AM and I think my internet is just kind of warming up to the idea I'm being live. So if I'm going slow, You know, I totally apologize, but, but here's the deal, man.
Sometimes we just have to go with the flow and, and, and show up when the time is right. And, and today my, my amazing friend Tamara and I are gonna be having these conversations about, you know, putting our recovery, recovery goals, you know, into a really aspirational plan. But making sure that they're super effective, right?
We always want to, you know, do what works and be effective. So this is what's going to actually keep us, um, out of the debilitating levels of anxiety and stress. Um, and, and I've been talking a lot this week about, Some amazing skill sets that we can focus on that really help us break things down and into a category.
But, you know, let's, let's first, you know, have Tamar introduce yourself. . Good morning, Tamar.
Good morning. I'm so excited to be here and I've enjoyed our convers. Thoroughly over the time that we've met. Uh, so my name's Tamar Medford and I'm a neuro change master practitioner, a life coach and author and host of the podcast, the Road Beyond Recovery, and my mission is to really help those in recovery, to overcome their limiting beliefs so they can create a life so good for themselves that they never want to go back to their old way of living.
And. Discovering my own purpose has changed and enhanced my own recovery, and it's been such a gift. I'm so glad it took me a little longer than you know, most to realize that. But I'm there now and um, yeah, that's what I do and I'm happy to be here.
Well, thank you. I love that you're here. I am so ecstatic that we connected, that we met, and that we're.
Cultivating such an amazing space
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Tamar Medford Certified Neuro Change Master PractitionerTM, YB12TM & Mens SanaTM Coach | Author | Podcast Host www.theroadforward.ca
Schedule a call
Get in touch with Tamar!
https://www.theroadforward.ca/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/risebeyondrecovery
IG: https://www.instagram.com/theroadbeyondrecovery/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/riseinrecovery
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tamarmedford/
The Road Beyond Recovery Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-road-beyond-recovery/id1489009860
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Intellectualizing Life Changes with Julie Jones
This week on Mastering the Drop, join Tricia with Guest Julie Jones!
Listen as Tricia and Julie discuss Intellectualizing a life change.
When we experience changes in the outside world, they often bring about an internalization. The process of intellectualizing can be seen as one that helps us to understand our own life.
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All right. Welcome back to Mastering the Drop. A real view of recovery. I am super jazz pumped right now because, you know, my, my, my really good friend Julie Jones is here with us today and, and she just always brings so much love, light energy, pizzaz to any space. So of course I've already like energized.
Um, and, and so, you know, we're just gonna kind of jump to the chase because we're ready to have this conversation , right? Um, because intellectualizing a life change or a recovery journey or, you know, whatever that life change is. It's a great conversation to have.......
My guest, Julie Jones, Welcome my friend. Welcome.
Well, thank you. I am super excited to be here. I've been looking forward to this, this conversation with you and I'm just so grateful to have you in my life. And yeah, so again, I appreciate the opportunity because you know, it's in these types of conversations that so much comes out that it supports and, you know, inspires other people to, you know, figure out their own journey.
Because everybody's journey is unique and everybody's journey, if you wanna say, is customized. Like nobody's gonna have the same journey ever cuz that's life.
So true. So true. When I know that, you know, you've had, you know, a lot of, a lot of journeys happening, right? Like some, like really cool, some, you know, some challenging, some whatever, right?
Like life change is big. Life change is big.
Well it is, and I don't know, I just recently posted, um, on all my social media, so on October 27th was a big day for me, and I call it my 10 and 10. So 10 years married, and that's been a journey in and of itself. Um, because of the fact that, um, my husband and I have had a lot of ups and downs in our relationship, but bottom line was that, you know, I, I love him so much that sometimes I was just willing to weather some things at my expense.
And then it was when I finally took a stand for myself and realizing, That I was no longer gonna tolerate some of the things that I tolerated. It's really shifted and changed a lot of different dynamics in, in our relationship as well. And then the other 10 came in. That I'm, you know, 10 months sober. So on December 27th of last year, so 20, you know, 20, 21.
I made the decision after examining my relationship with alcohol and I said, Okay, enough is enough. And I had thought about it a a lot as well. Like, you know, you talk about this, you know, intellectualization and I'm not always a think. Right. But at this particular moment, and this particular decision, I was. Because I had really started examining, um, you know, like the, the instances in my life where I was probably a little bit embarrassed by my behavior, and I realized a lot of it was alcohol related.
And then I also realized because of the struggles with my husband is that when, you know, he would drink, Then that would be like the trigger for me to drink and to drink even more. Like, it was like almost like, I'm gonna show you like, you know, Uhhuh, I can, you know, I can drink too. Right? And I, I also just recognized for myself that I really don't have a shutoff bells like I would say it's gonna be just, you know, one, one glass, right?
And it was one bottle and it wasn't every night, but it was quite a bit. And so I, I think about all the different times again, like in blacking out, getting sick, like, you know, those different kinds of things that, you know, really made me stop and think, is this the best, you know, best solution for my life? Yeah.
Yeah. I, I hear, wow, I hear that, right. Like the no, shut off. But also that intellectualization as to why we're drinking, right? Like when we're in it, we're in it, right?
Oh yeah, we can justify anything, right? Like, I mean, I. You know, like I used to justify that it was, you know, like my way to like, to relax, right?
Or I had a hard day, or you know, all the reasons that, you know, we give ourselves, I'm socializing it's happy hour. It's this, it's that, you know, I mean, think I remember because it was, um, Halloween last year and I'm known for throwing a huge Halloween party. and like I, I now look back and I, I recognize like a little bit of like my default and thinking.
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Creating Emotional Awareness and Peace with Roberta Hughes
Tricia is joined by guest Roberta Hughes, founder and owner of Peacefull Living. Listen as they discuss creating awareness around emotions.
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Hello. Hello everybody. Welcome to Mastering the Drop, A real view of recovery where myself and my guests talk about all different, um, aspects of a life recovery journey. Um, this week I have to say, I'm, I'm, I feel especially grateful and as you can all see just even with the peaceful background, um, I have a very dear friend of mine, Roberta, here with me from Peacefull Living and, and it's just such a gift that she is here and, and we've been spending quite a bit of time together lately and, um, with the team and, and, and everything and, and she just has so many gifts to give. But I really love how everything that she teaches and, and brings to her practice, um, how it actually supports a lot of the cognitive and emotional work that we do at Turning Leaves.
Because her approach is also, you know, with that, with that thought process of helping you nurture your own self-awareness of, of cultivating that emotional intelligence. And, and, and you know, of course this the stress management that we all need, right? And I am, am. You know, I'm not quite about the fact that I love, you know, Pilates and meditation and my, you know, my spirituality is, is, you know, very, um, very special to me.
And, and I, I just love the, the work that she does and, and the meditations are so healing. Um, anyway, I, I haven't even introduced her yet completely. Roberta Hughes. Is, is the founder of Peacefull Living, where, you know, she does customized, um, classes. There's on demand. Um, you can do yoga, you can do Pilates, you can do meditation, and, and you can, you can do it all, you know, in, in one sitting and, and it's just such a wonderful.
Approach and, and just, uh, just the site itself is, is so peaceful and, and I just love the way that, you know, you've set up your practice, Roberta. So I'm gonna let you like, come in and say hello and introduce yourself Before I start with all of the wonderful questions I, I wanna ask you today,
So thank you Tricia, for the introduction and for having me here on your show.
We have been working on a few things together lately, and I recently had the opportunity to do a guided meditation for some of your coaches, and that was a true gift for the holidays. Not just for me, but I hope for them and for you as well. Um, as coaches, you guys give so much to helping people on their recovery journey that it's important to nourish and nurture yourselves along the way and not to forget to do that.
So, It's been a joy to be part of that support team for you and your coaches and to be here today to see what I can share to help your audience and your clients and the people who listen to your podcast for inspiration and hope and motivation on their recovery journey.
Thank you. It is, it's always so amazing to, to spend time with you and, and I'll tell you the feedback from, from our team meeting.
Um, when you came was all about you and, and, and all of the gratitude for, for having you come in and spend some time with them. They all felt so just blessed and, and gifted. When, when, um, when it was over and, and it's, so anyway, it was. It was, it was amazing. But, um, you know, something that, you know, you and I haven't talked about, so I've been dying to ask you this, um, is, you know, to to know really what, what drove you or what brought you to this place that you're in, like the work that you do, because it's such a gift.
You know, I, I always, I'm always really interested to know like what. What drove you to be here and, and then you know, what, you know, really cultivated that passion to, to, you know, take it even further and create this wonderful thing that you have.
Yeah. So I first became curious about yoga in college. I took my first yoga class.
As a one credit course in college, and prior to that movement had always been a part of my life, but it was more from the place of gymnastics and cheerleading and the performance of movement rather than, um, mindful movement and figuring out how movement affected your body. Not on the only on a physical level, but on an emotional and spiritual and mental level as well.
And I really felt the transformation right away. After I would finish a yoga class and walk out that door, I just felt different. I felt more at ease. I felt more at peace. I felt more focused and ready to go to my next class, and my friends could see it in me too. So that's really where the curiosity about yoga started and after college, I got married and was moving around every three years because my ex-husband was in the Air Force and. I was able to study at Santa Barbara Yoga Center, which is pretty close to wh...
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