Episode 423: From Heartbreak to Wholeness with Kristine Carlson

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01/12/22 • 52 min

“Change is one of the most creative forces in our life.” This week, Kristine Carlson joins me to talk about moving through change and how it allows for expansion and growth. We also discuss grief, including her journey through grief after the sudden passing of her husband. Finally, we discuss how to make empowered choices during times of hardship.For those new to Kristine Carlson and her work, she is a New York Times bestselling author, speaker, and leader in the field of transformation. After collaborating with her late husband Dr. Richard Carlson created a publishing industry phenomenon with the Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff series—selling more than 25 million copies worldwide—today, Kris is emerging as a profound teacher in the areas that matter most to the human heart: how to heal and how to love. Join us for this powerful and enjoyable conversation.

In this episode you’ll hear:

Kristine shares her journey through grief and describes her star mantra, “Surrender, trust, accept, release and receive.” (12:31)
The willingness to give and receive support from others during the grieving process. (22:15)
During times of stress or hardship, how can we make empowered choices? (27:21)
Why we resist change and some ways we can embrace it. (31:27)
Out of all of her books, Kristine shares her favorite one to write and why. (37:38)
Action steps you can take to live with intention. (42:33)

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In this episode you’ll hear:

Kristine shares her journey through grief and describes her star mantra, “Surrender, trust, accept, release and receive.” (12:31)
The willingness to give and receive support from others during the grieving process. (22:15)
During times of stress or hardship, how can we make empowered choices? (27:21)
Why we resist change and some ways we can embrace it. (31:27)
Out of all of her books, Kristine shares her favorite one to write and why. (37:38)
Action steps you can take to live with intention. (42:33)

http://andreaowen.com/423

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Previous Episode

Episode 422: Starting Over, Being ‘Right on Time,’ and Practicing Resilience with Amber McCue

This week we are talking about adventure, starting new things, and how to be the CEO of your own life. Amber McCue joins me for this lively conversation! Amber is a business coach, podcast host, and founder of Right on Time Living. In our conversation, she shares her “right on time,” mantra, being aligned with your values, and building resilience.

From being a single mom at the age of 18 to owning two companies that allow her to work from anywhere. Today Amber runs her businesses anywhere around the world from Chicago to Africa. Through her books, speaking, and in her coaching programs, Amber partners with business owners around the world who want to get more done, realize their dreams and get freedom for themselves.

Amber moved 15 times in one year. She explains how she did it and some strategies she used to deal with change so often in a one-year timespan. (6:42)
The ‘right on time,’ mantra. (7:02)
The way that we act or speak reveals our values. Sometimes it is very clear when we are or not in line with them. (13:38)
A fresh start doesn’t always mean committing to a drastic new course of action. Amber shares ways you can start and move forward from your new beginning. “A small step can have a big impact.” (18:12)
Amber’s photography business shut down and grew during COVID, she explains how that was possible. (27:20)
The three habits of a Modern CEO to implement into your life. (42:03)

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Next Episode

Episode 424: How We Heal Ourselves: Complex PTSD and Familial Roles with Elizabeth Kupferman

This show marks the kick-off of themed episodes, where we’re looking at the question, “How do we heal ourselves?” In the episodes coming up over the next couple of months I'm going to be talking to therapists, psychiatrists, psychologists, and others who have a different perspective or expertise around the topic of healing. To begin, I’ll be talking to experts who are sharing their wisdom about family roles, trauma responses, epigenetics, attachment styles, and even healing ancestral wounds.

You know how much I love talking about the deeper stuff and the things that we talk about in counseling, therapy or even in the company of trusted friends. I'm kicking off this theme with Elizabeth Kupferman. She is a woman that I met on TikTok. (Yes, the app is not just for kids!) Elizabeth is a Licensed Professional Counselor and is the author of The Irreverent Grief Guide and the Irreverent Trust Guide: How to Trust Again After Trauma F*cked You Up.

In this episode, Elizabeth and I discuss Complex PTSD, the impact of familial roles on our lives, and explore the trauma responses and the importance of replacing the responses with personal development tools to help heal.

In this episode you’ll hear:

How trauma work helped Elizabeth heal her eating disorder and how it led her to the work she is doing today. (9:14)
The different “roles” children are put into in a family system, The Hero, Golden Child, Scapegoat, The Lost Child and Mascot; and how these roles impact us later in life. (11:49)
The four trauma responses: flight, fight, freeze, and fawn and the importance of learning to replace the trauma responses with tools. (22:43)
What Elizabeth means when she says, “Complex PTSD is the autoimmune disease of the psyche.” (40:37)

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