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Love Quirks

Love Quirks

Crystal Clark

Welcome to Love Quirks, the podcast that explores the art of creating meaningful connections and thriving relationships. In a world where working on our relationships is often stigmatized and reserved for times of crisis, Love Quirks challenges that narrative. Hosted by Crystal Clark an expert with an MA in Neurodiversity and a background in behavior analysis, this podcast offers a fresh perspective on love and relationships. With over a decade of experience in social relationship therapy, Crystal simplifies love into broad concepts while encouraging listeners to color in the unique details according to their own experiences. Whether you're quirky or a "plain old regular human being," the podcast emphasizes that everyone benefits from the same foundational ideas for sparking and maintaining relationships. Love Quirks provides actionable insights and big-picture ideas to help you grow fulfilling connections. So, if you've ever pondered the importance of love in your life, join us on Love Quirks. Share it with friends, make it a part of your couples routine, and embark on a journey to explore, understand, and enhance your relationships. This is where love becomes an art, and you are the artist. Let's be sparked.
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Goodpods has curated a list of the 10 best Love Quirks episodes, ranked by the number of listens and likes each episode have garnered from our listeners. If you are listening to Love Quirks for the first time, there's no better place to start than with one of these standout episodes. If you are a fan of the show, vote for your favorite Love Quirks episode by adding your comments to the episode page.

If your relationship feels like a never-ending DIY project and you keep wishing your partner would just “get it together”—this one’s for you.

In this episode, I’m unpacking the difference between wanting to change your spouse and wanting to change your relationship. We dive into the unchangeables—like personality traits, core values, and past experiences—and contrast them with the very changeable dynamics of how you communicate, collaborate, and show up in your love space. It’s about shifting from “if only they would...” to “how can we grow together?”—because real relationship magic happens when both people are tweaking, teaming up, and showing up with shared effort, not a one-sided renovation plan.

Relationships are an adventure—ready for a check-in? Take this fun quiz to see how strong your bond is & discover new ways to keep the spark alive!

About the Host:

Meet Crystal, your relationship and social health coach. Crystal is the founder of Sparked Forever Relationship & Singles coaching. She started her journey supporting the neurodiverse community in navigating this, sometimes frustrating, neurotypical social world. Lessons and inspiration from her earlier work drives Crystal’s passion for bringing couples and singles together through acceptance, understanding and big picture thinking to grow vibrant relationships. Crystal understands that the foundation for our social health and well-being starts with making connections to others. When Crystal is not working with couples, she loves to be out on adventures with her partner and bonus kids or spending time connecting with friends over good food and fun music.

Links:

https://sparkedforever.com/

https://www.instagram.com/sparkedforever/

https://www.instagram.com/sparkitsocial/

https://www.tiktok.com/@sparked_forever

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Love Quirks - Let Change Spark You! | LQ003
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01/09/24 • 16 min

Are you proactive or reactive in your relationships? In this latest episode, we dive into the exciting concept of being proactive in our relationships while addressing the common fear of change that might keep us stuck. Recognizing that change can be daunting, the episode will encourage you to overcome apprehensions, emphasizing that staying stuck is not the desired outcome. Instead, the focus is on learning and exploring within the framework of the CAKE model, with an emphasis on Real Relationship Energy.

Communication is neither inherently good nor bad. You will learn that if messages aren't conveying their intended meaning, adjustments can always be made. Listen as we dismantle the notion of "relationship work" as a potentially overwhelming concept and redirect the spotlight to the importance of putting energy into relationships. By adopting a collaborative and teamwork approach, you will find yourselves proactively engage in decisions that lead to positive outcomes, strengthening bonds, increasing overall energy, and creating lasting positive experiences and memories in your relationships. Join us to learn how being proactive can transform your relationship dynamics and contribute to a more fulfilling and vibrant connection.

About the Host:

Meet Crystal, your relationship and social health coach. Crystal is the founder of Sparked Forever Relationship & Singles coaching. She started her journey supporting the neurodiverse community in navigating this, sometimes frustrating, neurotypical social world. Lessons and inspiration from her earlier work drives Crystal’s passion for bringing couples and singles together through acceptance, understanding and big picture thinking to grow vibrant relationships. Crystal understands that the foundation for our social health and well-being starts with making connections to others. When Crystal is not working with couples, she loves to be out on adventures with her partner and bonus kids or spending time connecting with friends over good food and fun music.

Links:

https://sparkedforever.com/

https://www.instagram.com/sparkedforever/

https://www.instagram.com/sparkitsocial/

https://www.tiktok.com/@sparked_forever

Thanks for listening!

Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.

Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below!

Subscribe to the podcast

If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app.

Leave us an Apple Podcasts review

Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on Apple Podcasts.

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Love Quirks - Putting Some CAKE Into Date Night | LQ002
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01/09/24 • 15 min

Join us as we explore the transformative power of "Big Picture" thinking in relationships, emphasizing how it brings freedom, energy, and confidence. We challenge the outdated notion of putting "work" into relationships and advocate for redirecting focus towards investing "energy" into connections. Any relationship tip or activity, such as a date night, is not a fundamental piece of human relationships- it’s a detail which allows you to personalize your relationship based on what fills up your unique CAKE pieces—Communication, Affection, Kindfulness, and Energy.

The CAKE acronym serves as a guide, breaking down essential elements of human connections. Communication involves the exchange of messages, Affection focuses on the giving, receiving, and growth of love actions, Kindfulness emphasizes being mindful and kind in interactions, and Energy addresses the importance of managing and replenishing energy in relationships. Tune in to discover how these big picture ideas and the CAKE framework can enhance your relationship dynamics and foster a more fulfilling connection.

About the Host:

Meet Crystal, your relationship and social health coach. Crystal is the founder of Sparked Forever Relationship & Singles coaching. She started her journey supporting the neurodiverse community in navigating this, sometimes frustrating, neurotypical social world. Lessons and inspiration from her earlier work drives Crystal’s passion for bringing couples and singles together through acceptance, understanding and big picture thinking to grow vibrant relationships. Crystal understands that the foundation for our social health and well-being starts with making connections to others. When Crystal is not working with couples, she loves to be out on adventures with her partner and bonus kids or spending time connecting with friends over good food and fun music.

Links:

https://sparkedforever.com/

https://www.instagram.com/sparkedforever/

https://www.instagram.com/sparkitsocial/

https://www.tiktok.com/@sparked_forever

Thanks for listening!

Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.

Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below!

Subscribe to the podcast

If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app.

Leave us an Apple Podcasts review

Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on Apple Podcasts.

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Love Quirks - Reminiscing on Love | LQ008
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02/06/24 • 22 min

Communication itself is neutral, but how we use it matters. I share two key communication strategies for enhancing moments of love. First, sharing comments leading up to special moments creates positive settings, fostering micro-moments of connection. Second, engaging in reminiscing. When you reminisce as a couple, especially about those epic moments, you're not just reliving the past—you're building a solid story together. It turns the ups and downs into part of your journey, not roadblocks.

About the Host:

Meet Crystal, your relationship and social health coach. Crystal is the founder of Sparked Forever Relationship & Singles coaching. She started her journey supporting the neurodiverse community in navigating this, sometimes frustrating, neurotypical social world. Lessons and inspiration from her earlier work drives Crystal’s passion for bringing couples and singles together through acceptance, understanding and big picture thinking to grow vibrant relationships. Crystal understands that the foundation for our social health and well-being starts with making connections to others. When Crystal is not working with couples, she loves to be out on adventures with her partner and bonus kids or spending time connecting with friends over good food and fun music.

Links:

https://sparkedforever.com/

https://www.instagram.com/sparkedforever/

https://www.instagram.com/sparkitsocial/

https://www.tiktok.com/@sparked_forever

Thanks for listening!

Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.

Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below!

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If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app.

Leave us an Apple Podcasts review

Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on Apple Podcasts.

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Love Quirks - Power Up! | LQ041
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02/11/25 • 27 min

You know I love a good two-for-one deal, right? Well, in this final episode of our Love Space Creation series, we’re talking about making powerful shifts in your relationship—and guess what? These same ideas apply to life in general! If we can improve one area, we get to level up everywhere. It’s like a life hack for love, and I am so here for it.

We dive into the small but mighty actions that move you toward connection (instead of away from it), how tiny shifts create big relationship wins, and why self-awareness is the real MVP. Plus, I share some of my favorite mindset tweaks to keep love flowing and life feeling good. So, grab your favorite drink, get cozy, and let’s power up your relationships—because love, like life, is better when we make it intentional!

Sparked Forever Quiz: https://quiz.tryinteract.com/#/66ecb811bc1d7c432638a5e7

Positive Intelligence Quiz: https://www.positiveintelligence.com/saboteurs/?mwr=68be4152



About the Host:

Meet Crystal, your relationship and social health coach. Crystal is the founder of Sparked Forever Relationship & Singles coaching. She started her journey supporting the neurodiverse community in navigating this, sometimes frustrating, neurotypical social world. Lessons and inspiration from her earlier work drives Crystal’s passion for bringing couples and singles together through acceptance, understanding and big picture thinking to grow vibrant relationships. Crystal understands that the foundation for our social health and well-being starts with making connections to others. When Crystal is not working with couples, she loves to be out on adventures with her partner and bonus kids or spending time connecting with friends over good food and fun music.

Links:

https://sparkedforever.com/

https://www.instagram.com/sparkedforever/

https://www.instagram.com/sparkitsocial/

https://www.tiktok.com/@sparked_forever

Thanks for listening!

Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.

Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below!

Subscribe to the podcast

If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app.

Leave us an Apple Podcasts review

Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on Apple Podcasts.

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Love Quirks - Be Best Friends | LQ013
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03/12/24 • 21 min

On today's episode, we're tackling the issue of loneliness. Did you know a staggering 76% of adults in North America feel disconnected, even if they're in a relationship? Sometimes, it's because we forget to lean on our partners for social support, or we're holding onto unresolved feelings. But here's the deal: treating your partner like a best friend is crucial. Forget surface-level friendships, deep connections with both your partner and friends are where it's at. So, don't hesitate to let your partner into your inner circle—it's the key to a fulfilling relationship and long-lasting companionship.

Reach out on Instagram!

About the Host:

Meet Crystal, your relationship and social health coach. Crystal is the founder of Sparked Forever Relationship & Singles coaching. She started her journey supporting the neurodiverse community in navigating this, sometimes frustrating, neurotypical social world. Lessons and inspiration from her earlier work drives Crystal’s passion for bringing couples and singles together through acceptance, understanding and big picture thinking to grow vibrant relationships. Crystal understands that the foundation for our social health and well-being starts with making connections to others. When Crystal is not working with couples, she loves to be out on adventures with her partner and bonus kids or spending time connecting with friends over good food and fun music.

Links:

https://sparkedforever.com/

https://www.instagram.com/sparkedforever/

https://www.instagram.com/sparkitsocial/

https://www.tiktok.com/@sparked_forever

Thanks for listening!

Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.

Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below!

Subscribe to the podcast

If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app.

Leave us an Apple Podcasts review

Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on Apple Podcasts.

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Love Quirks - Don’t be Childish | LQ051
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04/22/25 • 33 min

Turns out, adding a tiny human to your love space also adds a whole lot of opinions, emotions... and parenting debates at the checkout line. In this episode, we’re getting real about how parenting can shake up your relationship dynamic—even when you both have the same values. From tag-teaming tantrums to realizing your kiddo’s got each of you wrapped around a different finger, I talk about how our parenting styles can drift apart without us even noticing. But don’t worry, it’s not about being right or wrong—it’s about recognizing your patterns, finding understanding for each other’s reactions, and building a true parenting collaboration that works for your family. Because yes, parenting is hard, but doing it as a team makes it a whole lot more joyful.

Relationships are an adventure—ready for a check-in? Take this fun quiz to see how strong your bond is & discover new ways to keep the spark alive!

About the Host:

Meet Crystal, your relationship and social health coach. Crystal is the founder of Sparked Forever Relationship & Singles coaching. She started her journey supporting the neurodiverse community in navigating this, sometimes frustrating, neurotypical social world. Lessons and inspiration from her earlier work drives Crystal’s passion for bringing couples and singles together through acceptance, understanding and big picture thinking to grow vibrant relationships. Crystal understands that the foundation for our social health and well-being starts with making connections to others. When Crystal is not working with couples, she loves to be out on adventures with her partner and bonus kids or spending time connecting with friends over good food and fun music.

Links:

https://sparkedforever.com/

https://www.instagram.com/sparkedforever/

https://www.instagram.com/sparkitsocial/

https://www.tiktok.com/@sparked_forever

Thanks for listening!

Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.

Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below!

Subscribe to the podcast

If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app.

Leave us an Apple Podcasts review

Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on Apple Podcast.

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Love Quirks - Partnering Not Parenting Part 2 | LQ016
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04/16/24 • 28 min

In this episode, we delve into part 2 of Partnering Not Parenting and how the parenting dynamic can impact communication between partners. Often, messages intended to be kind can be misinterpreted as nagging or criticism due to the ingrained roles of"controlling parent" and "petulant teenager." This dynamic can lead to a lack of affection, leaving emotional cups empty and draining energy. The solution? Start by acknowledging the imbalance with your partner and express a desire to shift towards a more equal partnership. Practice using a "kindful lens" in communication, and rebuild trust through vulnerability and recognizing moments of trust and letting go. It's about fostering a supportive and nurturing environment for both partners to thrive.

About the Host:

Meet Crystal, your relationship and social health coach. Crystal is the founder of Sparked Forever Relationship & Singles coaching. She started her journey supporting the neurodiverse community in navigating this, sometimes frustrating, neurotypical social world. Lessons and inspiration from her earlier work drives Crystal’s passion for bringing couples and singles together through acceptance, understanding and big picture thinking to grow vibrant relationships. Crystal understands that the foundation for our social health and well-being starts with making connections to others. When Crystal is not working with couples, she loves to be out on adventures with her partner and bonus kids or spending time connecting with friends over good food and fun music.

Links:

https://sparkedforever.com/

https://www.instagram.com/sparkedforever/

https://www.instagram.com/sparkitsocial/

https://www.tiktok.com/@sparked_forever

Thanks for listening!

Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.

Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below!

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If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app.

Leave us an Apple Podcasts review

Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on Apple Podcasts.

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Love Quirks - No Words Needed | LQ011
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02/27/24 • 27 min

In today's podcast, I explore the importance of self-care and couples' routines for maintaining energy levels and nurturing relationships. Sharing three simple actions: couples breathing, handholding, and smiling at each other. These practices promote relaxation, release oxytocin, and trigger 'honeymoon' hormones, fostering intimacy and well-being. Prioritizing these small gestures can lead to significant positive changes in your relationship. Tune in for more insights and add a smile whenever you can!

Reach out on Instagram!

About the Host:

Meet Crystal, your relationship and social health coach. Crystal is the founder of Sparked Forever Relationship & Singles coaching. She started her journey supporting the neurodiverse community in navigating this, sometimes frustrating, neurotypical social world. Lessons and inspiration from her earlier work drives Crystal’s passion for bringing couples and singles together through acceptance, understanding and big picture thinking to grow vibrant relationships. Crystal understands that the foundation for our social health and well-being starts with making connections to others. When Crystal is not working with couples, she loves to be out on adventures with her partner and bonus kids or spending time connecting with friends over good food and fun music.

Links:

https://sparkedforever.com/

https://www.instagram.com/sparkedforever/

https://www.instagram.com/sparkitsocial/

https://www.tiktok.com/@sparked_forever

Thanks for listening!

Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.

Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below!

Subscribe to the podcast

If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app.

Leave us an Apple Podcasts review

Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on Apple Podcasts.

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Love Quirks - Forget Valentine’s Day | LQ009
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02/13/24 • 20 min

We're reimagining Valentine's Day as Vulnerability Day! How vulnerability strengthens relationships by sharing our emotions, mistakes, and dreams which fosters trust and deeper connections. It's about creating a safe space for authenticity and growth, both individually and together. I share a few suggestions to try to increase opportunities to be vulnerable including trying something together outside your comfort zone.

Did you try any of the suggestions, how did it go? Reach out and let me know!

Crystal Clark (@sparkedforever) • Instagram photos and videos

About the Host:

Meet Crystal, your relationship and social health coach. Crystal is the founder of Sparked Forever Relationship & Singles coaching. She started her journey supporting the neurodiverse community in navigating this, sometimes frustrating, neurotypical social world. Lessons and inspiration from her earlier work drives Crystal’s passion for bringing couples and singles together through acceptance, understanding and big picture thinking to grow vibrant relationships. Crystal understands that the foundation for our social health and well-being starts with making connections to others. When Crystal is not working with couples, she loves to be out on adventures with her partner and bonus kids or spending time connecting with friends over good food and fun music.

Links:

https://sparkedforever.com/

https://www.instagram.com/sparkedforever/

https://www.instagram.com/sparkitsocial/

https://www.tiktok.com/@sparked_forever

Thanks for listening!

Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.

Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below!

Subscribe to the podcast

If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app.

Leave us an Apple Podcasts review

Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on Apple Podcasts.

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How many episodes does Love Quirks have?

Love Quirks currently has 55 episodes available.

What topics does Love Quirks cover?

The podcast is about Society & Culture, Podcasts, Self-Improvement, Education and Relationships.

What is the most popular episode on Love Quirks?

The episode title 'It’s TIME to get Sparked | LQ004' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on Love Quirks?

The average episode length on Love Quirks is 26 minutes.

How often are episodes of Love Quirks released?

Episodes of Love Quirks are typically released every 7 days.

When was the first episode of Love Quirks?

The first episode of Love Quirks was released on Jan 5, 2024.

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