
Don’t be Childish | LQ051
04/22/25 • 33 min
Turns out, adding a tiny human to your love space also adds a whole lot of opinions, emotions... and parenting debates at the checkout line. In this episode, we’re getting real about how parenting can shake up your relationship dynamic—even when you both have the same values. From tag-teaming tantrums to realizing your kiddo’s got each of you wrapped around a different finger, I talk about how our parenting styles can drift apart without us even noticing. But don’t worry, it’s not about being right or wrong—it’s about recognizing your patterns, finding understanding for each other’s reactions, and building a true parenting collaboration that works for your family. Because yes, parenting is hard, but doing it as a team makes it a whole lot more joyful.
Relationships are an adventure—ready for a check-in? Take this fun quiz to see how strong your bond is & discover new ways to keep the spark alive!
About the Host:
Meet Crystal, your relationship and social health coach. Crystal is the founder of Sparked Forever Relationship & Singles coaching. She started her journey supporting the neurodiverse community in navigating this, sometimes frustrating, neurotypical social world. Lessons and inspiration from her earlier work drives Crystal’s passion for bringing couples and singles together through acceptance, understanding and big picture thinking to grow vibrant relationships. Crystal understands that the foundation for our social health and well-being starts with making connections to others. When Crystal is not working with couples, she loves to be out on adventures with her partner and bonus kids or spending time connecting with friends over good food and fun music.
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Turns out, adding a tiny human to your love space also adds a whole lot of opinions, emotions... and parenting debates at the checkout line. In this episode, we’re getting real about how parenting can shake up your relationship dynamic—even when you both have the same values. From tag-teaming tantrums to realizing your kiddo’s got each of you wrapped around a different finger, I talk about how our parenting styles can drift apart without us even noticing. But don’t worry, it’s not about being right or wrong—it’s about recognizing your patterns, finding understanding for each other’s reactions, and building a true parenting collaboration that works for your family. Because yes, parenting is hard, but doing it as a team makes it a whole lot more joyful.
Relationships are an adventure—ready for a check-in? Take this fun quiz to see how strong your bond is & discover new ways to keep the spark alive!
About the Host:
Meet Crystal, your relationship and social health coach. Crystal is the founder of Sparked Forever Relationship & Singles coaching. She started her journey supporting the neurodiverse community in navigating this, sometimes frustrating, neurotypical social world. Lessons and inspiration from her earlier work drives Crystal’s passion for bringing couples and singles together through acceptance, understanding and big picture thinking to grow vibrant relationships. Crystal understands that the foundation for our social health and well-being starts with making connections to others. When Crystal is not working with couples, she loves to be out on adventures with her partner and bonus kids or spending time connecting with friends over good food and fun music.
Links:
https://www.instagram.com/sparkedforever/
https://www.instagram.com/sparkitsocial/
https://www.tiktok.com/@sparked_forever
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Relationships are an adventure—ready for a check-in? Take this fun quiz to see how strong your bond is & discover new ways to keep the spark alive!
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https://www.instagram.com/sparkedforever/
https://www.instagram.com/sparkitsocial/
https://www.tiktok.com/@sparked_forever
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Love Quirks - Don’t be Childish | LQ051
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Welcome to our love space. Today. I'm so glad that you're here joining me, exploring a few more April showers before we end off this theme for the month. And you know, I have to say we've been talking about April showers because it's important for us to bring the May flowers, right? We're talking about all of these hiccups and things, because they really if we can navigate them, explore them, find out what works in our love space, in our rela
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