65. Stop Demonizing the Narcissist!

03/03/22 • 14 min

I had somebody comment on my Instagram page that said to stop demonizing the narcissist, to stop talking bad about them. Well, The only thing that I can believe is that this was another narcissist on the other end and he or she felt that they were attacked and they didn't like it. I said, if this is not something you believe in, you can just scroll away, because this is the thing; there's a lot of trolls out there and they just want to look for fights with just about anybody.

We all have some kind of mental health issue, we are all dealing with some kind of trauma, difference is that we work with trauma differently. Narcissists decide to use their trauma, to abuse people.

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We all have some kind of mental health issue, we are all dealing with some kind of trauma, difference is that we work with trauma differently. Narcissists decide to use their trauma, to abuse people.

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64. Fast Cars and Narcissists: Unveiling Control and Abuse

The reason why I decided to talk about this today is that I had a memory triggered. I heard someone on TikTok talk about the same topic and all of a sudden I had a rush of memories and I needed to bring this out to you.

I never realized how an abuser could use a fast car as part of the abuse patterns. I don't think I even noticed it until it happened to me in a manner that was more open and clearer in my mind. Due to the nature of abuse, we forget details of the abuse we endured.

The first person that I ever liked that liked fast cars used to take me racing with him all the time. It was him that opened this door for me. What I didn't realize was that abusers use this as a manipulation tool. Fast cars can be used as a form of control, you'll hear all about it in today's episode.

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66. Hoovering: Manipulation Tactics and How to Protect Yourself

Hoovering is also known as emotional blackmail as part of the emotional abuse provoked by a narcissist, it happens when they think they're losing control of you. It's an attempt to reactivate the connection to make you engage with them once again for another cycle of abuse.

The name Hoovering comes from Hoover, the vacuum cleaner brand. Meaning the narcissists sucks the happiness out of you to fuel their supply. It may look like you're being manipulated through a relationship you didn't want to be with because they start threatening you by becoming suicidal or causing self-harm.

Hoovering might be displayed in many different ways, but it all leads to rekindling the connection between the two of you. It's an emotional manipulation to get you to react and re-engage.

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