
Do You Really Want To Be a Leader? | E155
04/01/24 • 17 min
In this episode of Leadership is Feminine, Kris Plachy gets real about the journey of entrepreneurship, asking the crucial question: what kind of business do you want? She draws on her years as an entrepreneur to explore the pivotal moments that arise as businesses grow, particularly when revenue hits the million-dollar mark. Kris discusses the decision-making process and the challenges women face when scaling their businesses, emphasizing the importance of aligning business goals with personal aspirations.
Kris candidly shares her insights on the need for women to consider the life they want in the future and how it intersects with their business decisions. She challenges the traditional focus on revenue and growth, encouraging listeners to think about the type of business they truly want, and if they are willing to do what it takes to achieve it. Kris questions whether building a bigger business is always the right choice and highlights the necessity of being intentional about the future.
Throughout the episode, Kris explores the potential pitfalls of rapid success and the importance of being prepared for growth. She emphasizes the need to build exceptional teams and be honest about personal leadership preferences. Kris’s compelling insights shed light on the often-overlooked aspects of entrepreneurial success, inspiring listeners to prioritize alignment with their true desires and intentions.
"I want you to really think about it and build a business that aligns with the life you want. Do not live for your business and wake up thinking, this is my life. That's not the gift of entrepreneurship."
Key Takeaways From This Episode- Evaluating Business Growth and Leadership Role: The pivotal moments in the growth of a business
- Decisions when hitting certain revenue milestones: Deciding what team structures look like
- Questioning the Desire For a Larger Business: Examining whether or not a large business aligns with personal goals and lifestyle
- Exploration of whether a business has to be larger: Not living for the business but making conscious decisions
- Challenges and changes in scaling a business: Planning for the necessary resources, training, and infrastructure
- Preparedness for Business Success: The need to foresee and be ready for potential business growth
ONE HOUR LEADER Transform your current team into the million dollar self-directed team you wish you had in as little as one hour per week.
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Work with Kris and Her Team:In this episode of Leadership is Feminine, Kris Plachy gets real about the journey of entrepreneurship, asking the crucial question: what kind of business do you want? She draws on her years as an entrepreneur to explore the pivotal moments that arise as businesses grow, particularly when revenue hits the million-dollar mark. Kris discusses the decision-making process and the challenges women face when scaling their businesses, emphasizing the importance of aligning business goals with personal aspirations.
Kris candidly shares her insights on the need for women to consider the life they want in the future and how it intersects with their business decisions. She challenges the traditional focus on revenue and growth, encouraging listeners to think about the type of business they truly want, and if they are willing to do what it takes to achieve it. Kris questions whether building a bigger business is always the right choice and highlights the necessity of being intentional about the future.
Throughout the episode, Kris explores the potential pitfalls of rapid success and the importance of being prepared for growth. She emphasizes the need to build exceptional teams and be honest about personal leadership preferences. Kris’s compelling insights shed light on the often-overlooked aspects of entrepreneurial success, inspiring listeners to prioritize alignment with their true desires and intentions.
"I want you to really think about it and build a business that aligns with the life you want. Do not live for your business and wake up thinking, this is my life. That's not the gift of entrepreneurship."
Key Takeaways From This Episode- Evaluating Business Growth and Leadership Role: The pivotal moments in the growth of a business
- Decisions when hitting certain revenue milestones: Deciding what team structures look like
- Questioning the Desire For a Larger Business: Examining whether or not a large business aligns with personal goals and lifestyle
- Exploration of whether a business has to be larger: Not living for the business but making conscious decisions
- Challenges and changes in scaling a business: Planning for the necessary resources, training, and infrastructure
- Preparedness for Business Success: The need to foresee and be ready for potential business growth
ONE HOUR LEADER Transform your current team into the million dollar self-directed team you wish you had in as little as one hour per week.
Private Subscriber List: Get on the list today! TheVisionary.ceo
Work with Kris and Her Team:Previous Episode

Abdicating is a Founder's Kryptonite | E154
Welcome back to Leadership is Feminine! In this engaging episode, Kris Plachy sheds light on a crucial yet often overlooked aspect of running a business: the pitfalls of abdicating responsibilities as a founder. With candor and insight, Kris addresses the vulnerability that arises from handing over crucial aspects of the business and not being actively involved in their management.
Kris highlights the tendency to delegate tasks to others and then disengage, whether it's bookkeeping, graphic design, or other operational functions. She emphasizes the vital role of the founder in maintaining strategic involvement and a clear line of sight into all areas of the business, even when delegating to experts. Kris delves into the potential consequences of complete abdication, such as financial mismanagement, loss of control, and the challenge of replacing key team members who hold all the knowledge.
The episode explores the common tendencies of female founders, especially those from a bootstrapped background, to defer to or feel intimidated by senior hires' expertise. Kris stresses the importance of maintaining an authoritative presence and clear expectations for these roles, ensuring that the founder remains in control and actively engaged. She also addresses the fears and challenges that may prompt founders to shy away from micromanagement and inadvertently slide into complete abdication.
Kris's powerful message resonates as she urges founders to embrace a leadership role, not by doing everything themselves, but by effectively leading and holding all team members accountable to the business's core vision and results. The episode serves as a wake-up call for founders to recognize and rectify instances of abdication that may be leaving their business vulnerable.
"You're still in charge. And if you're in charge, you've got to show up. You have to be present in that relationship."
Key Takeaways From This Episode- Defining Abdication Within Your Business: Common areas and roles, recognizing what it looks like, and the consequences it has
- Hiring Senior Leaders and Delegating Responsibility: Ensuring understanding of the strategic vision and the results expected
- Balancing autonomy: The need for structure and accountability in senior roles
- Not Abdicating Doesn’t Have to Mean Micromanaging: Having a plan and not simply abdicating responsibilities
- Leading and Managing as a Founder/CEO: Inviting broader and bigger results through leadership
- Maintaining presence: Being present in the relationship without needing to know how to do the job
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The Best Question for Leaders to Ask | E156
In another episode of Leadership is Feminine, Kris Plachy delivers powerful insights and thoughtful musings about a favorite topic: goals. Showcasing her natural finesse for leadership coaching, Kris frames a magic question that serves as an effective tool to realign our focus - "What is the goal?"
In a world where our minds are cluttered with to-do lists, divergent ideas, and unexpected plans, Kris argues that this seemingly simple question can guide us back to the heart of our intentions. This episode delves into the importance of a goal-oriented approach in leadership and decision-making processes.
Moreover, Kris shares an ambitious goal of her own. She hopes to inspire and influence 20 million women in leadership globally through her podcast. With this target, she highlights the underlying tenet of Leadership is Feminine - that one thriving woman can make a significant difference. She gives a call-to-action, inviting listeners to share the podcast and empower more women leaders worldwide.
In her discussion about the power of goal setting, Kris candidly explores how "What is the goal?" can serve as a filter for clarity. It's an immediate dose of reality, highlighting if we’re on track or need to re-calibrate. So, are you ready to ask yourself, “What is the goal?”
“What would happen to the world if women had more personal agency, had more voice, led on her own terms? I do believe we could change the world.”
Key Takeaways From This Episode- Clarifying your goals: Importance of being clear with your goals as a leader
- The magical question that can help regain perspective and focus
- Kris' Personal Goal to Reach 20 Million Women: The impact this will have for women in leadership, and how that will have an affect on all of us
- Call to Action for Listeners: How you can help Kris reach her goal, and the incentives to help you do so
- The Importance of Having a Clear Goal: Using this tool will help in meetings, professional conversations, and personal decision-making situations
ONE HOUR LEADER Transform your current team into the million dollar self-directed team you wish you had in as little as one hour per week.
Private Subscriber List: Get on the list today! TheVisionary.ceo
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