Leadership is Feminine - Comparison Shame and Paralysis | Ep #38

Comparison Shame and Paralysis | Ep #38

11/18/19 • 22 min

Are you comparing other people’s perceived success to your own and feeling terrible about yourself? That shame can trigger paralysis in your business - which stimulates further shame. Let’s talk about your own compass and how to honor that instead.

What you'll find in this episode:

Knowing the “steps” to take is not the only part of success. The other part in achievement of outcomes is your brain and mindset.
When learning from top performers: “Don’t just look at what they do. That’s just their action. Ask them why they do it.”
“Comparison is the thief of joy.” ~ Theodore Roosevelt
Are you building what you want, or have you spent so much time focusing on what everyone else has that you don’t even know what that is anymore?
My favorite question I ask people at my Hawaiian retreat - “What do you really, really, really want? YOU.”
Stop comparing and start really savoring and enjoying your own journey.

Visit: KrisPlachy.com for show notes and available downloads

Email: [email protected]

Kris on Facebook

@krisplachycoach on Instagram

Kris on LinkedIn

Produced by Podcast Prowess

What you'll find in this episode:

Knowing the “steps” to take is not the only part of success. The other part in achievement of outcomes is your brain and mindset.
When learning from top performers: “Don’t just look at what they do. That’s just their action. Ask them why they do it.”
“Comparison is the thief of joy.” ~ Theodore Roosevelt
Are you building what you want, or have you spent so much time focusing on what everyone else has that you don’t even know what that is anymore?
My favorite question I ask people at my Hawaiian retreat - “What do you really, really, really want? YOU.”
Stop comparing and start really savoring and enjoying your own journey.

Visit: KrisPlachy.com for show notes and available downloads

Email: [email protected]

Kris on Facebook

@krisplachycoach on Instagram

Kris on LinkedIn

Produced by Podcast Prowess

Previous Episode

Who Does That? | Ep #37

Two of the most common things I hear clients say in moments of total frustration are “Who does that?” & “You would think.” As your coach, I’m not going to indulge your confusion and perplexity, because it’s not serving you. Here’s what let’s do instead.

What you'll find in this episode:

“Who does that?” It doesn’t matter. The question to ask is, “What are you going to do about it?”
“You would think...” No need losing valuable time staying perplexed and confused about what someone did. Your job is to evaluate whether or not you've been clear about the expectation.
“Being in someone else’s family is like being in a foreign country.” You have people who were raised in totally different environments than yours.
Instead of saying – you would think – say, I think...” Instead of “who does that” – say “I want this done.”

Visit: KrisPlachy.com for show notes and available downloads Email: [email protected] Kris on Facebook @krisplachycoach on Instagram Kris on LinkedIn Produced by Podcast Prowess

Next Episode

The Interview with Kelly Roach, THE BUSINESS CATALYST | Ep #39

Kris talks with Kelly Roach, THE BUSINESS CATALYST, who helps elite business owners become game changers in their field and achieve million-dollar+ breakthroughs in their business.

What you'll find in this episode:

1) The biggest differences between leading in a company versus leading your own company. 2) Kelly’s thoughts on finding the ideal employee for a female entrepreneur or founder. 3) What “Look in the Mirror Leadership” is. 4) What is a “franken-business.” 5) The danger of personalizing your business. 6) Things we need to think about when growing the business to be bigger than us. 7) What the “Four-Times Model for Profitability” is. 8) The biggest challenge Kelly experienced when scaling her business and adding employees. 9) The main characteristic Kelly brings to leadership that has helped her business grow.

Visit: KrisPlachy.com for show notes and available downloads

Email: [email protected]

Kris on Facebook

@krisplachycoach on Instagram

Kris on LinkedIn

Produced by Podcast Prowess