
Social Media Tightrope (Bob Minhas)
01/19/22 • 35 min
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There is a precarious line between using social media as a cooperative marketing tool for your business and using it as a source of personal validation and fulfillment. That line can be difficult to navigate if we are not taking stock and being completely honest about our use of social media. Business Coach Bob Minhas talks candidly about his own struggles with social media addiction and how he helps clients (and himself) identify issues and get the most out of using social media as a tool - or not at all.
In this episode, Melinda and Bob guide coaches through auditing social media habits, giving valuable tips to the healthy and effective use of any platform. When we learn to manage the use of social media in our own business and personal lives, we can help our clients reap the benefits of this handy tool while avoiding potential pitfalls.
In this episode we discuss:
- Does your business even need social media to thrive?
- How to draw boundaries with social media usage.
- The difference between responding and reacting to social media activity.
- Using social media as one tool and not the whole toolbox.
- How to be aware of your true social media intentions.
- Delegating social media responsibilities to avoid personal attachment.
- How too much focus on social media can lead to burnout and overwhelm.
- Addressing clients’ fears regarding the use of social media.
“When you're building a business, the fundamental core of your business is really about who it is that you're trying to serve, and social media is not the only way to reach those people.”
“When you have a curated, crafted plan, it allows you to avoid the black hole, the sinkhole, the idea that you need to be on there all the time.” – Bob Minhas
Guest Bio: Bob Minhas started his entrepreneurial career by building a quarter-million dollar tech business with no advertising and gaining celebrity status with his HGTV Canada appearances. Now Bob helps entrepreneurs and business owners level up their revenue, reputation and success with his unique approach of combined intuition and business sensibility. He was recruited for his entrepreneurial spirit and effectiveness skills by Canadian regional government small business development offices.
A proud father to three future leaders, Bob loves nerding out over new discoveries in neurodiversity and mental health in entrepreneurship.
Resources or websites mentioned in this episode:
- Mirasee
- Coaches Console
- Bob’s website
- Bob’s LinkedIn
Credits:
- Guest: Bob Minhas
- Host: Melinda Cohan
- Producer: Cynthia Lamb
- Executive producer: Danny Iny
- Scripted and assembled by: Michi Lantz
- Audio Post Supervisor: Evan Miles, Christopher Martin
- Audio Post Production: Post Office Sound
- Music soundscape: Chad Michael Snavely
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• Music and SFX credits:
•Track Title: Clouds
Artist Name(s): Acreage
Writer Name: Marshall Usinger
Publisher Name: BOSS SOUNDSTRIPE PRODUCTIONS
•Track Title: Coastline Dream
Artist Name(s): Wild Sky
Writer Name: Adam Simons
Publisher Name: BOSS SOUNDSTRIPE PRODUCTIONS
•Track Title: Coo Coos
Artist Name(s): Dresden, The Flamingo
Writer Name: Matthew Wigton
Publisher Name: A SOUNDSTRIPE PRODUCTION
•Track Title: Stars & Trees
Artist Name(s): Outside The Sky
Writer Name: Dustin Ransom
Publisher Name: A SOUNDSTRIPE PRODUCTION
Episode transcript: Social Media Tightrope (Bob Minhas) Coming soon.
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There is a precarious line between using social media as a cooperative marketing tool for your business and using it as a source of personal validation and fulfillment. That line can be difficult to navigate if we are not taking stock and being completely honest about our use of social media. Business Coach Bob Minhas talks candidly about his own struggles with social media addiction and how he helps clients (and himself) identify issues and get the most out of using social media as a tool - or not at all.
In this episode, Melinda and Bob guide coaches through auditing social media habits, giving valuable tips to the healthy and effective use of any platform. When we learn to manage the use of social media in our own business and personal lives, we can help our clients reap the benefits of this handy tool while avoiding potential pitfalls.
In this episode we discuss:
- Does your business even need social media to thrive?
- How to draw boundaries with social media usage.
- The difference between responding and reacting to social media activity.
- Using social media as one tool and not the whole toolbox.
- How to be aware of your true social media intentions.
- Delegating social media responsibilities to avoid personal attachment.
- How too much focus on social media can lead to burnout and overwhelm.
- Addressing clients’ fears regarding the use of social media.
“When you're building a business, the fundamental core of your business is really about who it is that you're trying to serve, and social media is not the only way to reach those people.”
“When you have a curated, crafted plan, it allows you to avoid the black hole, the sinkhole, the idea that you need to be on there all the time.” – Bob Minhas
Guest Bio: Bob Minhas started his entrepreneurial career by building a quarter-million dollar tech business with no advertising and gaining celebrity status with his HGTV Canada appearances. Now Bob helps entrepreneurs and business owners level up their revenue, reputation and success with his unique approach of combined intuition and business sensibility. He was recruited for his entrepreneurial spirit and effectiveness skills by Canadian regional government small business development offices.
A proud father to three future leaders, Bob loves nerding out over new discoveries in neurodiversity and mental health in entrepreneurship.
Resources or websites mentioned in this episode:
- Mirasee
- Coaches Console
- Bob’s website
- Bob’s LinkedIn
Credits:
- Guest: Bob Minhas
- Host: Melinda Cohan
- Producer: Cynthia Lamb
- Executive producer: Danny Iny
- Scripted and assembled by: Michi Lantz
- Audio Post Supervisor: Evan Miles, Christopher Martin
- Audio Post Production: Post Office Sound
- Music soundscape: Chad Michael Snavely
If you don't want to miss future episodes of Just Between Coaches, please subscribe to Apple podcasts or Spotify or wherever you're listening right now. And if you liked the show, please leave us a starred review. It's the best way to help us get these ideas to more people.
If you have a question for Just Between Coaches, put the show title in the subject line and send it to [email protected]
• Music and SFX credits:
•Track Title: Clouds
Artist Name(s): Acreage
Writer Name: Marshall Usinger
Publisher Name: BOSS SOUNDSTRIPE PRODUCTIONS
•Track Title: Coastline Dream
Artist Name(s): Wild Sky
Writer Name: Adam Simons
Publisher Name: BOSS SOUNDSTRIPE PRODUCTIONS
•Track Title: Coo Coos
Artist Name(s): Dresden, The Flamingo
Writer Name: Matthew Wigton
Publisher Name: A SOUNDSTRIPE PRODUCTION
•Track Title: Stars & Trees
Artist Name(s): Outside The Sky
Writer Name: Dustin Ransom
Publisher Name: A SOUNDSTRIPE PRODUCTION
Episode transcript: Social Media Tightrope (Bob Minhas) Coming soon.
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Previous Episode

The Judgment Engine (Marisa Murray)
When judgment revs up, it can be hard to recognize and even harder to stop, subsequently slowing or even halting progress with a client. Marisa Murray, CEO of Leaderley, has asked herself the tough questions about judgment in her own coaching practice of top executives. She knows first hand that when the judgment train leaves the station, coaches can no longer hold a safe coaching space for their clients.
Fortunately, Marisa has honed in on three absolute truths that any coach can use to slow the judgment engine down and resume positive momentum for a client. Melinda chimes in with some truly insightful advice of her own as she discusses with Marisa what every coach has experienced at least once in their career, and likely more often for seasoned coaches. Together, Marisa and Melinda explore how our judgement engine gets started, what fuels it and how we can slow, stop and even reverse it.
In this episode we discuss:
- How to recognize when your voice of judgment shows up.
- How a client’s triggers can trigger you.
- Why seasoned coaches are more vulnerable to the judgment engine.
- A framework for communication to keep us out of judgment.
- How transparency and integrity can turn things around.
- The three absolute truths you can use to slow and reverse the momentum of judgment.
- How to stay in discovery and out of judgment.
- The importance of trust, faith and deep compassion with your clients.
- How to hold a hypothesis and let the client verify your discovery theories.
“Fear will accelerate the judgment engine, and faith will slow it down.”
“The only one that’s allowed to be the judge in the conversation is the client.”
– Marisa Murray
Credits:
- Guest: Marisa Murray
- Host: Melinda Cohan
- Produced and written: Cynthia Lamb
- Executive producer: Danny Iny
- Assembled by: Michi Lantz
- Audio Post Supervisor: Evan Miles, Christopher Martin
- Audio Post Production: Post Office Sound
- Music soundscape: Chad Michael Snavely
If you don't want to miss future episodes of Just Between Coaches, please subscribe to Apple podcasts or Spotify or wherever you're listening right now. And if you liked the show, please leave us a starred review. It's the best way to help us get these ideas to more people.
If you have a question for Just Between Coaches, put the show title in the subject line and send it to [email protected]
• Music and SFX credits:
•Track Title: Clouds
Artist Name(s): Acreage
Writer Name: Marshall Usinger
Publisher Name: BOSS SOUNDSTRIPE PRODUCTIONS
•Track Title: Coastline Dream
Artist Name(s): Wild Sky
Writer Name: Adam Simons
Publisher Name: BOSS SOUNDSTRIPE PRODUCTIONS
•Track Title: Coo Coos
Artist Name(s): Dresden, The Flamingo
Writer Name: Matthew Wigton
Publisher Name: A SOUNDSTRIPE PRODUCTION
•Track Title: Stars & Trees
Artist Name(s): Outside The Sky
Writer Name: Dustin Ransom
Publisher Name: A SOUNDSTRIPE PRODUCTION
Episode transcript: The Judgment Engine (Marisa Murray). Coming soon.
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Next Episode

Are You Biased? (Dr. Melinda C. Hill)
How do you show up in the world? Are you honest and aware of your own biases? We have to really know ourselves first before we can grow personally and professionally and truly be of value to others without bias. The beauty of life is diversity, and the basis of integrating that diversity into our lives in a productive and healthy way lies in emotional intelligence.
In this episode, the two Melindas dive into diversity and inclusion, how we all participate (consciously or not) and how simple it can be to affect real change. This episode is packed with practical information and delivered in a way that makes you wonder why everyone isn’t doing it!
In this episode we discuss:
- Why biases are innate and inevitable.
- How to accept the inevitability of biases while becoming aware of them in ourselves and our clients.
- The six steps to elevate inclusion.
- Our responsibility as coaches to recognize biases in our own lives and what to do about it.
- How we can make a real difference in the world by starting in our own homes and social circles.
- When and how to point out issues of bias in a professional setting.
- How to create a culture of connectedness and inspire authenticity.
- How to celebrate diversity and work toward inclusion.
- The importance of extending grace when confronting biases and intolerance.
“Diversity and inclusion is not that hard...just be aware of where you are.”
– Dr. Melinda C. Hill
Guest Bio: Dr. Melinda Hill is an Executive Director of The John Maxwell Team. She is a speaker and facilitator and trains individuals and groups in the areas of leadership development, professional skills and personal growth. With a doctorate in Higher Education and Organizational Change, she has an extensive understanding of learning, training, and development and over 15 years of experience working with individuals and groups to strengthen commitments to personal and professional behavioral change.
Resources or websites mentioned in this episode:
- Mirasee
- Coaches Console
- Dr. Melinda’s website
- Dr. Melinda’s LinkedIn
Credits:
- Guest: Dr. Melinda C Hill
- Host: Melinda Cohan
- Producer: Cynthia Lamb
- Executive producer: Danny Iny
- Scripted and assembled by: Michi Lantz
- Audio Post Supervisor: Evan Miles, Christopher Martin
- Audio Post Production: Post Office Sound
- Music soundscape: Chad Michael Snavely
If you don't want to miss future episodes of Just Between Coaches, please follow us on Apple podcasts or Spotify or wherever you're listening right now. And if you liked the show, please leave us a starred review. It's the best way to help us get these ideas to more people.
• Music and SFX credits:
•Track Title: Clouds
Artist Name(s): Acreage
Writer Name: Marshall Usinger
Publisher Name: BOSS SOUNDSTRIPE PRODUCTIONS
•Track Title: Coastline Dream
Artist Name(s): Wild Sky
Writer Name: Adam Simons
Publisher Name: BOSS SOUNDSTRIPE PRODUCTIONS
•Track Title: Coo Coos
Artist Name(s): Dresden, The Flamingo
Writer Name: Matthew Wigton
Publisher Name: A SOUNDSTRIPE PRODUCTION
•Track Title: Stars & Trees
Artist Name(s): Outside The Sky
Writer Name: Dustin Ransom
Publisher Name: A SOUNDSTRIPE PRODUCTION
Episode transcript: Your Unconscious Bias (Dr. Melinda C. Hill) Coming soon.
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