How the Law of Mirroring Creates Stronger Connection with Others

03/29/22 • 7 min

I wanted to share with you this tool called The Law of Mirroring.
This is a tool that I used to create a deeper awareness of myself, and a phenomenal tool for me to learn more about how other people are feeling.
This is super useful especially with your kids, esp. when you feel there is a communication breakdown, this tool will help you gain a deeper understanding of what your kids are feeling.
I hope this tools benefits you as much as it benefited me!
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How Coaching Changed My Life

In this episode, I shared with you some of my deepest struggles when it came to balancing between my full time work, being a mom and being a business owner.
I had to work through a lot of resentment and frustration. It was through coaching that I discovered 8 different beliefs that didn't serve me, but had defined me unconsciously:

I believed that to be a great mom I have to sacrifice and trade in my identity and give up my dreams
I believed that to be a great wife I have to make sure the household is running well,my husband is happy, and I take on a fair share amount of work.
I created a few businesses before and didn’t see result, so I believed there is NO POINT wasting my time on new things UNLESS I know it will work out.
I believed no matter how hard I try, things will always stay the same
I can’t go after what I want because I don’t feel worthy.
I don’t deserve what I ask for because asking for me means I’m being ungrateful for what I have.
I can’t do that because I’m a girl.
I believed that other people will think that I’m too greedy or selfish.

I also shared with you what coaching meant for me, and gave a very fun imagery of climbing a rope ladder, and also highlighted how a coach could advance your life.
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Loving Your Mean Girl

We all have a mean girl within us, they're the jealous part, the angry part, the gossipy part, the condesending part, the resentful part.
Our mean girl is the part of us that we don't want to admit that we have.
That's because this part has somehow been denied, been shamed, been punished.
And we don't want to admit that we have it, because it means we're not good girls. It's not appropriate for us, because as a girl, we are nice, caring, loving, kind, generous, etc.
In this episode, I shared with you 3 of my mean girls.
The envious/jealous mean girl.
The impatient/high expectation mean girl.
The resentful mean girl.
I worked really hard to get to know them, accept them, embrace them and love them.
I'd love for you to see yours for who she is, let her know that there is nothing to be ashamed of, nothing to hide. It's all a sign that there is pain residing deep within us. And we're here to love them fully and wholeheartedly.