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In Bed with Caoi

In Bed with Caoi

Caoilfhionn - Pleasure and Purpose Coach

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Everyone wants to have better sex and relationships, but many of us don't know how. Join Caoilfhionn, a pleasure and purpose coach as she interviews various teachers and experienced practitioners about conscious sexuality, erotic awakening, dating, masculine/feminine dynamics, desire, sexual health and many other topics related to sex. If you’re also curious about about how erotic practices such as Orgasmic Meditation, BDSM, Tantra, Taoism could benefit your sex life, then this podcast is for you.Connect with Caoilfhionn: https://www.caoinicc.com/about-me-invitation-to-1to1-coaching Instagram: @Caoilfhionn.nic.conmara Facebook: @CaoiniccJoin her mailing list and download her Free Great Sex Guide here: https://mailchi.mp/f30c2254bf30/greatsxguideSupport Caoilfhionn for the creation of this Podcast here: https://www.paypal.me/CNicConmara
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In Bed with Caoi - In Bed with Caoi Featuring Alicia Davon
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01/23/23 • 44 min

In this week's episode, I interview Alicia Davon. Alica along with her husband Erwan, has become the go-to experts for those seeking a higher level of relationship support since 1995. They are among the most experienced relationship coaches in the world and have taught throughout the United States and abroad.
In this week's episode we covered:
✨ Alicia’s initial experience of extended orgasm with her husband Erwan
✨ Erwan studied the Deliberate Orgasm practice in More University and made modifications e.g. making it a 2 hand practice, adding in spiritual elements to change the practice to extended orgasm
✨ How Alicia helps women heal the split between the part that is ravenous for sex and the other part that has shame or feels shut down around sex
✨ The Davon Method has 4 practices: i) Meditation ii) Psychological Inquiry iii) Body Practice iv) Sensual Practice
✨ Alicia typically focuses on the Psychological Inquiry and sensual practices to help women open up and get more into her sex
✨ Pleasure as an orientation vs. Performance as an orientation when it comes to sensual practices
✨ What is an Extended Orgasm and how it’s different to a Peak Orgasm
✨ The stroking positions and movements of the Extended Orgasm Practice
✨ How to handle if you get distracted during the practice
✨ Why bearing down is helpful for the woman to do while being stroked instead of the standard practice of clenching
✨ How to practice Extended Orgasm on Men

More About Alicia & Erwan
Both have advanced degrees in Psychology and have developed a method that covers everything from sex to the mind to lifestyle design to how to get into and thrive throughout the stages of relationship from a feminine and a masculine perspective. Based in the SF Bay Area, Alicia provides a high-end boutique service that gives her clients an effective way to enhance their relationships. She and Erwan offer all of their coaching and classes in both online and in-person formats and support students all over the world.

To contact Alicia for one of the 5 free spots in the Pleasure Course you can message her at

+1 415 308 9580

or

https://erwandavon.com/consult/

To register for The Pleasure Course with $100 off:

https://www.eventbrite.com/e/442984577797

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www.davonmethod.com

IG & TT @davonmethod

Connect with Caoilfhionn:
https://www.caoinicc.com/about-me-invitation-to-1to1-coaching
Instagram: @Caoilfhionn.nic.conmara

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In Bed with Caoi - In Bed with Caoi Featuring Dr. Alexandra Stockwell
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07/19/22 • 47 min

In this week's episode I interviewed Dr. Alexandra Stockwell. Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.
We covered
✨ How Alexandra listened to the whisper of her desire to shift from her life working as a doctor to become a coach
✨ The practice of discrete eroticism (bringing the erotic to how you to connect with your partner all throughout the day) and how it brought out her sexuality as a woman
✨ How cultivating curiosity in your relationship enhances intimacy and revives those early day feelings of falling in love with your partner
✨How you can give your partner a manual for how to be successful with you
✨Why compromise is bad relationship advice and why uncompromising intimacy is a far better approach.
✨Why it's important to start small when making changes to your relationship
More About Alexandra:
For over 20 years she has shown men and women how to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life-- from the daily grind of running a household to intimate communication and ecstatic experiences in the bedroom.

A wife of 26 years and a mother of 4, Dr. Alexandra believes the key to passion, fulfillment, intimacy and success, isn’t compromise--it’s being unwilling to compromise. Because when both people feel free to be themselves, the relationship becomes juicy, nourishing, and deeply satisfying.

Dr. Alexandra has been featured in the Huffington Post, Rolling Stone, USAToday, Cosmopolitan, Business Insider, thriveglobal, mindbodygreen, FOX NEWS NYC, and Disruptors Magazine recently named her one of “30 Inspiring Women to Watch in 2022.”

You can find out more here: www.alexandrastockwell.com
If you enjoy this episode, please rate and review it so others can find it too X
Connect with Caoilfhionn:
https://www.caoinicc.com/about-me-invitation-to-1to1-coaching
Instagram: @Caoilfhionn.nic.conmara
Facebook: @Caoinicc
Join her mailing list and download her Free Great Sex Guide here: https://mailchi.mp/f30c2254bf30/greatsxguide

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In Bed with Caoi - My Journey through Somatic Experiencing
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01/31/23 • 34 min

This week's episode is all about my journey of healing with the practice of Somatic Experiencing. I've found the modality to be really effective and I'm compiled this podcast to answer questions I've been asked over the years.
I cover:
✨What is Somatic Experiencing
✨What inspired me to try it out
✨What happens in a somatic experiencing session
✨The different stages of healing that I encountered
✨What have been the gifts of the process
✨How my understanding of victim consciousness has changed
✨How my coaching has shifted with this process

If you enjoy this episode, please rate and review it so others can find it too X
Connect with Caoilfhionn:
https://www.caoinicc.com/about-me-invitation-to-1to1-coaching
Instagram: @Caoilfhionn.nic.conmara
Facebook: @Caoinicc
Join her mailing list and download her Free Great Sex Guide here: https://mailchi.mp/f30c2254bf30/greatsxguide

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In Bed with Caoi - In Bed with Caoi Featuring Dr. Joli Hamilton
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11/30/22 • 48 min

This is a great episode if you're considering polyamory! All of your tricky questions on this topic get answered. Dr. Joli Hamilton is this week's guest. She is the relationship coach for couples who color outside the lines. She is a research psychologist, TEDx speaker, best-selling author, and AASECT certified sex educator.
We covered...
✨ How to know if a couple is ready to explore polyamory
✨ How to figure out and acknowledge fundamental differences in desires in what both parties want
✨ Why people find multiple love challenging and why you need to make space for it
✨ Understanding the different versions of monogamy
✨ Why you need to be specific in conversations about boundaries and desires and why it's sometimes hard to that!
✨ Why it's helpful to have differences in your relationships and to feel differently on topics, values etc to your partner/s
✨ How to handle jealousy!
More on Joli:
Joli also co-hosts the Project Relationship podcast with her anchor partner, Ken. Joli’s been featured in The New York Times, Vogue, NPR, and The Atlantic.
You can find out more and complete her quiz here: https://www.jolihamilton.com
https://www.instagram.com/drjoli_hamilton/
Connect with Caoilfhionn:
https://www.caoinicc.com/about-me-invitation-to-1to1-coaching
Instagram: @Caoilfhionn.nic.conmara
Facebook: @Caoinicc
Join her mailing list and download her Free Great Sex Guide here: https://mailchi.mp/f30c2254bf30/greatsxguidIf you enjoy this episode

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In Bed with Caoi - In Bed with Caoi Featuring Ray Biancalana
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10/25/22 • 40 min

In this week's episode I interviewed Roy Biancalana. Roy is a certified relationship coach and a nationally-recognized expert in the field of attraction and conscious relationships. He is the author of three #1 best-selling books, the latest of which is Relationship Bootcamp: Hard-Core Training for Life, Love & the Pursuit of Intimacy.
We covered:
✨ How holding onto past pain is the biggest block to love
✨The negative impact of having unconscious expectations or stories about potential partners
✨How we can self sabotage from finding love and the way through that
✨Why technique isn't important when it comes to being good in bed
✨ Why presence, radiance, being emotionally aware and good at communicating are what make for great, heart to heart, soul to soul experiences of sex
✨The importance of doing inner work to understand why we're getting into bad relationships
And lots more! Check it out.
More info on Roy:
For the past 15 years, Roy has been supporting single people in the art of attracting healthy, sustainable, intimate relationships. His experience has taught him that getting in “relationship shape” is the key to attracting lasting love.

Roy works privately with individuals, but he also offers 6-week group-coaching programs that provide many of the benefits of private coaching for a fraction of the cost.
You can find out more here: www.coachingwithroy.com
https://www.facebook.com/roybiancalana

If you enjoy this episode, please rate and review it so others can find it too X
Connect with Caoilfhionn:
https://www.caoinicc.com/about-me-invitation-to-1to1-coaching
Instagram: @Caoilfhionn.nic.conmara
Facebook: @Caoinicc
Join her mailing list and download her Free Great Sex Guide here: https://mailchi.mp/f30c2254bf30/greatsxguid

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This is one hot episode all about Orgasms and how to have a hot, turned on Pussy at any age! Susan Bratton is this episode's guest. Susan is "Intimacy Expert to Millions" , she is a champion and advocate for all those who desire intimacy and passion their whole life long.
We covered...
✨ Susan's practice of Orgasmic Meditation (OM) and the types of orgasms and intense pleasure she experiences from it
✨ The difference between an orgasm, multiple orgasms, extended orgasm and expanded orgasm
✨Susan's background and research of various clitoral stroking practices including orgasmic meditation, deliberate orgasm and expanded massive orgasm
✨ Susan's intimacy practices with her husband and boyfriend and how she's trained them to touch her pussy giving her incredible orgasms
✨The difference between male and female sexual desire
✨Susan's approach to keeping her pussy so vibrant and healthy including: diet, supplements, hormones, topical cream, exercise, lube, probiotics that are digested as well as inserted into the vaginal canal, and medical treatmentsMore On Susan:
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he is co-founder and CEO of two corporations: Personal Life Media, Inc., a publisher of heart-connected lovemaking techniques and bedroom communication skills and The20, LLC., a manufacturer of organic and botanical supplements that enhance sexual vitality.

A best-selling author and publisher of 34 books and programs including Sexual Soulmates, Relationship Magic, Revive Her Drive, Ravish Him, Steamy Sex EdTM, The Passion Patch, Hormone Balancing, and Hot To Trot.

You can find The Susan Bratton Show® atBetterLover.com, her personal shares on Instagram @susanbratton, and her lust-for-life supplements, FLOW and DESIRE atThe20store.com.
https://gainswave.com/
https://femiwave.com/

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In Bed with Caoi - In Bed with Caoi Featuring Charlotte Faragher
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06/15/23 • 38 min

This week’s episode is a first, I’m really excited for you to listen to it! We’ve got Charlotte Faragher reading her poem ‘Not what you need’ on her experience of unrequited love as a disabled woman. Charlotte is a 32-year-old who lives in Oldham Manchester. She has lived with quadriplegic cerebral palsy since being born at 26 weeks.
About the episode:

  • You can follow along and read her poem here: https://chazzda16.blogspot.com/2023/01/not-what-you-need.html
  • Charlotte shares the reality of sexuality as a disabled woman and how it’s raw, messy and exciting
  • Why its important to talk to people with disabilities like they’re normal people and not put them on pedestals aka calling them brave just for being out and about living their lives going dancing etc
  • Society puts physical and attitudinal barriers in the way for disabled people which blocks Charlotte from experiencing her life as fully as she wants to
  • Attitudinal barriers against disabled people include pitying them and never being portrayed in a sexual way. This lack is demeaning, and means it’s less likely for disabled people to be in relationship. Those with disabilities are also more likely to experience physical abuse in relationship
  • Sex educators need to do better about understanding and supporting disabled people’s sexual experiences
  • Charlotte wants her poem to go further into a short, filmed piece with a disabled actress in a filmed monologue. She’s looking for people to help, so please reach out to her if you feel inspired to

More about Charlotte:
Although she is very physically disabled, her mental abilities are not affected. As a result, she became acutely aware of the prejudices and challenges that befall people who are deemed different in society. She is a keen advocate for challenging harmful assumptions about disability and differences. She also highlights to the non-disabled community that even though disabled people do have some differences; they have the same dreams, life ambitions and hunger for a full and authentic life as anyone else. She often finds it devastating when she comes up against presumptions, that because she is very physically challenged, she must be mentally challenged also. This has led to a lack of self esteem and confidence. In order to further solidify her opinions on challenging assumptions around disability and what that means; she has written several articles on subjects such as sex and loneliness. She have also spoken on several popular podcasts to help promote further discussion around these issues including Disability after Dark, Aces Interviews and CP and Me.
You can find Charlotte online here:
https://www.facebook.com/charlotte.faragher.1
https://www.instagram.com/charlottefaragher/
https://twitter.com/YOCHARLOTTEF
[email protected]

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In Bed with Caoi - How to Create the Life you Desire
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07/15/22 • 21 min

This week's episode is on one of my favourite topics, "How to Create the Life you Desire". I share my go-to tips for someone who is getting started. I cover
✨The difference between having the momentum to change vs. when you don't and you’re in the down. And what to do in both spots
✨Getting clarity on where you want your life to be/connecting with bigger vision of your life
✨The power of listening to your intuition
✨Looking at the cost of staying where you are
✨The importance of nervous system regulation when creating change
✨The power of surrounding yourself with people doing what you want
✨Why rest is necessary to sustain change
✨Research your desires

If you enjoy this episode, please rate and review it so others can find it too X
Connect with Caoilfhionn:
https://www.caoinicc.com/about-me-invitation-to-1to1-coaching
Instagram: @Caoilfhionn.nic.conmara
Facebook: @Caoinicc
Join her mailing list and download her Free Great Sex Guide here: https://mailchi.mp/f30c2254bf30/greatsxguide

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In Bed with Caoi - In Bed with Caoi Featuring Sasha Kerkmann Hood
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04/07/23 • 41 min

In this week's episode, I interview Sasha Kerkmann Hood. Sasha is a Mother, Midwife, and Relationship & Sexuality coach, and teacher of intuition, and desire. She owns a business alongside her husband, Moritz, working with couples on creating partnerships that foster relationship to personal power, respect and care, deepening connection and intimacy. Sasha believes in living life guided by desire and fueled by connection purpose. In her 14 years of experience as a coach, she sees a thread of supporting women and couples who claim their power and autonomy, in Relationship to themselves, their partners, families and communities.

In this week’s episode we covered

✨How Sasha got on the path of midwifery and what she sees it offering to mothers

✨How post partum is such a critical time for mothers

✨Why the post partum window is longer that the standard 3 month window and can in fact go as long as a few years

✨How Sasha prepared for the 40 day post birth window and what it involved and why it impacts a woman’s health for the rest of her life

✨How can we transform our culture to protect mothers and to have the option of a 40 day rest period available to all who want it

✨Why relationship coaching is not just for couples experiencing issues, it’s for all couples who want to build a strong foundation, a strong relationship

✨For couples starting a family, it’s important to have solid communication before you embark on this change

✨If you’re pregnant, prepare to need far more help and support than you expect

✨Why relationships need others to give reflection and support to each partner

✨The pattern of women looking to their partners for permission for their desire

✨The power of a desire inventory practice - to help you get in the practice of your own desire

Sasha Can be found online at awakened Intimacy on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/awakened_intimacy/

And on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@awakened_intimacy

As well as for all things birth and postpartum https://www.instagram.com/thewildrootbirth/

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In Bed with Caoi - In Bed with Caoi Featuring Sophia Babai
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04/20/23 • 44 min

In this week's episode, I interview Sophia Babai. Sophia is a writer, embodiment worker, and climate activist. She helps people reconnect to their natural wisdom and heal their relationships with their bodies and their shadows, so they can fall wildly in love with their lives, their planet, and each other. Sophia studied embodiment at Yale University, The Somatic School in London, and the Strozzi Institute.

In this week’s episode we covered:

✨ Organic Intelligence as a somatic practice for trauma resolution, and also for thriving and enjoying your life

✨ Sophia’s Kundalini practice, and how it works with energy in the body and heals blocks, and again how it encourages embracing love and expressing creativity

✨Sophia’s journey of being very productivity and achievement focused with 3 jobs and bodily pain to shifting instead towards being present in the moment and feeling pleasure

✨Noticing the moment through the body, e.g. how fabric feels on your skin, stopping to smell the flowers and how that’s possible even when you’re in pain

✨How Sophia’s work supports people in letting themselves being loved, coming back to their body and back to the moment

✨How energy vampirism shows up in relationships aka when we’re giving out of obligation, we are in fact taking from people

✨How people who are martyrs, are often terrible at receiving because it doesn’t feel safe to receive

✨The power of nature when it comes to healing those who worry about taking from others

✨Why we need community for healing

Connect with Sophia at instagram.com/sophia.babai or tinyurl.com/somatic-guidance

Connect with Caoilfhionn:
https://www.caoinicc.com/about-me-invitation-to-1to1-coaching
Instagram: @Caoilfhionn.nic.conmara
Facebook: @CaoiniccJoin her mailing list and download her Free Great Sex Guide here: https://mailchi.mp/f30c2254bf30/greatsxguide

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In Bed with Caoi currently has 53 episodes available.

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The podcast is about Health & Fitness, Sex, Relationship, Bdsm, Awakening, Kink, Podcasts, Consciousness and Sexuality.

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The episode title 'In Bed with Caoi Featuring Julia Lally' is the most popular.

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The average episode length on In Bed with Caoi is 39 minutes.

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Episodes of In Bed with Caoi are typically released every 9 days, 23 hours.

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The first episode of In Bed with Caoi was released on May 4, 2020.

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