
In Bed with Caoi Featuring Alicia Davon
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01/23/23 • 44 min
In this week's episode, I interview Alicia Davon. Alica along with her husband Erwan, has become the go-to experts for those seeking a higher level of relationship support since 1995. They are among the most experienced relationship coaches in the world and have taught throughout the United States and abroad.
In this week's episode we covered:
✨ Alicia’s initial experience of extended orgasm with her husband Erwan
✨ Erwan studied the Deliberate Orgasm practice in More University and made modifications e.g. making it a 2 hand practice, adding in spiritual elements to change the practice to extended orgasm
✨ How Alicia helps women heal the split between the part that is ravenous for sex and the other part that has shame or feels shut down around sex
✨ The Davon Method has 4 practices: i) Meditation ii) Psychological Inquiry iii) Body Practice iv) Sensual Practice
✨ Alicia typically focuses on the Psychological Inquiry and sensual practices to help women open up and get more into her sex
✨ Pleasure as an orientation vs. Performance as an orientation when it comes to sensual practices
✨ What is an Extended Orgasm and how it’s different to a Peak Orgasm
✨ The stroking positions and movements of the Extended Orgasm Practice
✨ How to handle if you get distracted during the practice
✨ Why bearing down is helpful for the woman to do while being stroked instead of the standard practice of clenching
✨ How to practice Extended Orgasm on Men
More About Alicia & Erwan
Both have advanced degrees in Psychology and have developed a method that covers everything from sex to the mind to lifestyle design to how to get into and thrive throughout the stages of relationship from a feminine and a masculine perspective. Based in the SF Bay Area, Alicia provides a high-end boutique service that gives her clients an effective way to enhance their relationships. She and Erwan offer all of their coaching and classes in both online and in-person formats and support students all over the world.
To contact Alicia for one of the 5 free spots in the Pleasure Course you can message her at
+1 415 308 9580
or
https://erwandavon.com/consult/
To register for The Pleasure Course with $100 off:
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/442984577797
CODE100
IG & TT @davonmethod
Connect with Caoilfhionn:
https://www.caoinicc.com/about-me-invitation-to-1to1-coaching
Instagram: @Caoilfhionn.nic.conmara
In this week's episode, I interview Alicia Davon. Alica along with her husband Erwan, has become the go-to experts for those seeking a higher level of relationship support since 1995. They are among the most experienced relationship coaches in the world and have taught throughout the United States and abroad.
In this week's episode we covered:
✨ Alicia’s initial experience of extended orgasm with her husband Erwan
✨ Erwan studied the Deliberate Orgasm practice in More University and made modifications e.g. making it a 2 hand practice, adding in spiritual elements to change the practice to extended orgasm
✨ How Alicia helps women heal the split between the part that is ravenous for sex and the other part that has shame or feels shut down around sex
✨ The Davon Method has 4 practices: i) Meditation ii) Psychological Inquiry iii) Body Practice iv) Sensual Practice
✨ Alicia typically focuses on the Psychological Inquiry and sensual practices to help women open up and get more into her sex
✨ Pleasure as an orientation vs. Performance as an orientation when it comes to sensual practices
✨ What is an Extended Orgasm and how it’s different to a Peak Orgasm
✨ The stroking positions and movements of the Extended Orgasm Practice
✨ How to handle if you get distracted during the practice
✨ Why bearing down is helpful for the woman to do while being stroked instead of the standard practice of clenching
✨ How to practice Extended Orgasm on Men
More About Alicia & Erwan
Both have advanced degrees in Psychology and have developed a method that covers everything from sex to the mind to lifestyle design to how to get into and thrive throughout the stages of relationship from a feminine and a masculine perspective. Based in the SF Bay Area, Alicia provides a high-end boutique service that gives her clients an effective way to enhance their relationships. She and Erwan offer all of their coaching and classes in both online and in-person formats and support students all over the world.
To contact Alicia for one of the 5 free spots in the Pleasure Course you can message her at
+1 415 308 9580
or
https://erwandavon.com/consult/
To register for The Pleasure Course with $100 off:
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/442984577797
CODE100
IG & TT @davonmethod
Connect with Caoilfhionn:
https://www.caoinicc.com/about-me-invitation-to-1to1-coaching
Instagram: @Caoilfhionn.nic.conmara
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You can find out more about Esi here:
http://www.wildholyhuman.com
Connect with Caoilfhionn:
https://www.caoinicc.com/about-me-invitation-to-1to1-coaching
Instagram: @Caoilfhionn.nic.conmara
Facebook: @Caoinicc
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Connect with Caoilfhionn:
https://www.caoinicc.com/about-me-invitation-to-1to1-coaching
Instagram: @Caoilfhionn.nic.conmara
Facebook: @Caoinicc
Join her mailing list and download her Free Great Sex Guide here: https://mailchi.mp/f30c2254bf30/greatsxguide
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