S4E2: Assume Positive Intent
07/14/22 • 58 min
Show Notes:
- (01:50): Advantages and disadvantages of social media
- (09:45): API: Assume Positive Intent
- (17:01): Character vs. reputation
- (26:25): Ask better questions
- (32:57): Understanding complexity
- (37:25): How does failure affect your life?
- (46:22): How to figure out what you want in life
Quotes:
“You are not defined by your job title, you're not defined by your function, you're defined as a human.” - Bryce ‘
“We're human beings, we're exploring, we're navigating on this floating rock inside some sort of universe.” - Bryce
“API: Assume Positive Intent.” - Bryce
“Wonder leads to better conversation.” - Bryce
“Deal with failure and stick it all the way through.” -Misbah
“There are takers and givers in the world.” - Bryce
“Don't allow your memories to be bigger than your dreams.” - Bryce
“We can adapt so easily to different lifestyles.” - Misbah
“Try a lot of things.” - Misbah
“Know when to quit certain thoughts or a certain mindset.” - Misbah
Connect with Bryce Smith:
Instagram: https://geni.us/zuts
Linktree: https://geni.us/UInt
Invictus Mindset Podcast w/ Bryce Smith
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Connect with Misbah Haque:
Instagram: https://geni.us/2m65mE
Website: https://geni.us/cgCJ
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YT Channel for Clips: https://geni.us/vEyn
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Show Notes:
- (01:50): Advantages and disadvantages of social media
- (09:45): API: Assume Positive Intent
- (17:01): Character vs. reputation
- (26:25): Ask better questions
- (32:57): Understanding complexity
- (37:25): How does failure affect your life?
- (46:22): How to figure out what you want in life
Quotes:
“You are not defined by your job title, you're not defined by your function, you're defined as a human.” - Bryce ‘
“We're human beings, we're exploring, we're navigating on this floating rock inside some sort of universe.” - Bryce
“API: Assume Positive Intent.” - Bryce
“Wonder leads to better conversation.” - Bryce
“Deal with failure and stick it all the way through.” -Misbah
“There are takers and givers in the world.” - Bryce
“Don't allow your memories to be bigger than your dreams.” - Bryce
“We can adapt so easily to different lifestyles.” - Misbah
“Try a lot of things.” - Misbah
“Know when to quit certain thoughts or a certain mindset.” - Misbah
Connect with Bryce Smith:
Instagram: https://geni.us/zuts
Linktree: https://geni.us/UInt
Invictus Mindset Podcast w/ Bryce Smith
Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://geni.us/Azjc4L6
Watch on YouTube: https://geni.us/Awr9
Connect with Misbah Haque:
Instagram: https://geni.us/2m65mE
Website: https://geni.us/cgCJ
YouTube: https://geni.us/7P7yde
YT Channel for Clips: https://geni.us/vEyn
FREE Tools:
Podcast Launch Checklist: https://geni.us/7IKCfRU
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Services:
Podcast Launch In A Day: https://geni.us/AUb3CKx
Done-For-You Podcast Production: https://geni.us/EkmoLS
Inside The Mind with Misbah Haque
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Spotify: https://geni.us/UwEcT9D
Pod Mahal
YouTube: https://geni.us/68vah
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Spotify: https://geni.us/cx4fgY
Instagram: https://geni.us/erBq5AI
Human Evolution Project
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Previous Episode
S4E1: Managing Stress While Staying Productive
Show Notes:
- (01:41): How to manage stress
- (08:24): Courage to be disliked
- (11:04): How to be productive
- (18:54): “Give someone the green light”
- (29:58): Calendar anorexia concept
- (32:17): Bad effects of lack of sleep
- (40:15): How to sleep better
- (48:07): Value of time
Quotes:
“And if everything is important, nothing is important.”- Bryce
“Do the right thing when nobody's watching.” - Bryce
“If you get better sleep, everything else is better.”- Bryce
“No matter what you're doing, no matter what your field is, what you do. It's like, that is the one thing we all have to do.” - Misbah
"It's hard to be productive when you're constantly trying to live up to other peoples' expectations.” - Bryce
“You can learn a lot about yourself if you just audit your time.”
Connect with Bryce Smith:
Instagram: https://geni.us/zuts
Linktree: https://geni.us/UInt
Invictus Mindset Podcast w/ Bryce Smith
Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://geni.us/Azjc4L6
Watch on YouTube: https://geni.us/Awr9
Connect with Misbah Haque:
Instagram: https://geni.us/2m65mE
Website: https://geni.us/cgCJ
YouTube: https://geni.us/7P7yde
YT Channel for Clips: https://geni.us/vEyn
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Inside The Mind with Misbah Haque
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Spotify: https://geni.us/UwEcT9D
Pod Mahal
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Spotify: https://geni.us/cx4fgY
Instagram: https://geni.us/erBq5AI
Human Evolution Project
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Next Episode
S4E3: Logic vs. Emotion with Dr. Alice Shikina
In this episode, Bryce and Misbah talk to Alice Shikina. She’s a negotiation coach & mediator. She is very comfortable in high conflict situations. She keep your logical/reasoning mind engaged, while keeping your emotions as calm as possible. Her calm and gentle, yet firm demeanor truly pulls parties toward a mutually agreeable solution.
She has several years of experience mediating landlord/tenant disputes and neighborly disputes, divorcing couples to get to a resolution around their children, money and property. Finally, family disputes can be about taking care of aging parents, strained relationships between adult siblings or children. She mediates both litigated cases, such as probate, conservatorship and unlawful detainers as well as conflicts which are not in litigation. She help parties get beyond the emotional blocks and move them to a place where they can come to agreement.
We talk about mediation/negotiation, how to stay neutral, managing emotion during mediation, and much more.
Show Notes:
- (00:00): What is mediation or negotiation?
- (04:37): Staying neutral in a mediation
- (11:35): Amygdala: Definition and function
- (16:40): Managing emotion during a mediation
- (22:06): Therapy vs. mediation
- (28:00): Asking the right questions in a mediation
- (35:28): Don’t ask “WHY” questions
- (40:16): Encouraging people to think
- (43:06): Win-win negotiation
- (46:14): How to deal with the third-party in a mediation
- (50:13): Managing mediation while dealing with your personal problem
- (58:49): Advantages of active listening
How to connect with Alice:
Website: https://www.shikinamediation.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shikinamediation/
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aliceshikina/
Connect with Bryce Smith:
Instagram: https://geni.us/zuts
Linktree: https://geni.us/UInt
Invictus Mindset Podcast w/ Bryce Smith
Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://geni.us/Azjc4L6
Watch on YouTube: https://geni.us/Awr9
Connect with Misbah Haque:
Instagram: https://geni.us/2m65mE
Website: https://geni.us/cgCJ
YouTube: https://geni.us/7P7yde
YT Channel for Clips: https://geni.us/vEyn
FREE Tools:
Podcast Launch Checklist: https://geni.us/7IKCfRU
Podcast Content Planner: https://geni.us/AgmBZV
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Services:
Podcast Launch In A Day: https://geni.us/AUb3CKx
Done-For-You Podcast Production: https://geni.us/EkmoLS
Inside The Mind with Misbah Haque
Apple Podcasts: https://geni.us/1ZrQ23y
Spotify: https://geni.us/UwEcT9D
Pod Mahal
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Instagram: https://geni.us/erBq5AI
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