Strength in Identity – Lessons from Parshas Vayakhel

03/17/25 • 35 min

In this week’s episode of Guiding Generations, Rabbi Shifman explores the Torah’s timeless wisdom on family dynamics, gender roles, and the power of identity within the home. Drawing from Parshas Vayakhel, he examines the deeper meaning behind the copper mirrors donated by the Jewish women for the Mishkan and how they played a crucial role in preserving Jewish continuity in Mitzrayim.

What can these mirrors teach us about modern parenting and marriage? How do we navigate evolving societal roles while maintaining harmony in our relationships? With a blend of Torah insight, history, and practical wisdom, Rabbi Shifman delves into the delicate balance of respect, affirmation, and the strength of building up one another in marriage and family life.

Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion on how understanding our roles—both in Torah and in today’s world—can create stronger homes and raise confident, connected children.

Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion on how understanding our roles—both in Torah and in today’s world—can create stronger homes and raise confident, connected children.

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The Legacy of Mordechai – Parenting Through Purim and Ki Tisa

In this episode of Guiding Generations, Rabbi Shifman uncovers the deep connection between Purim and Parshat Ki Tisa, revealing timeless lessons on parenting and personal growth. Exploring the Tikunei Zohar’s teaching that Yom Kippur is merely like Purim, we delve into the transformative power of embracing our past while shaping a better future. Through the symbolism of Mordechai, the ketoret (incense offering), and the concept of teshuva, Rabbi Shifman illustrates how parents can foster resilience, patience, and understanding in their children—recognizing that every child has the potential for greatness, no matter their origins. Tune in for an inspiring discussion on raising children with faith, perspective, and unwavering support.

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Legacy in the Making: Trusting the Process of Parenthood

In this week’s episode of Guiding Generations, Rabbi Shifman explores a powerful lesson from Parshat Pekudei: why was Betzalel, the grandson of Hur, chosen to build the Mishkan instead of his father, Uri?

Through this fascinating question—and a moving real-life story about a teacher who never lived to see the impact he made—Rabbi Shifman uncovers a vital parenting truth: our efforts may not always bear fruit in the moment, but they are never in vain. Whether it’s in our children or their children, the values we live and the sacrifices we make do take root.

Tune in to be reminded that parenting is not just about short-term results—it’s about building a legacy that lasts.