Finding the Guardian of Your Soul
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ChatGPT Spills the Tea: Why My Coaching Is a Game-Changer
Finding the Guardian of Your Soul
05/13/25 • 19 min
In this episode of 'Finding the Guardian of Your Soul,' Lisa Shield explores the transformative power of ChatGPT and how it can revolutionize your dating life. Lisa explains how artificial intelligence can enhance personal growth and dating experiences by providing tailored responses and insights. She shares how she uses ChatGPT in her coaching to help women find soulful, meaningful connections. Listen in to discover the unique aspects that set Lisa's coaching approach apart from others.
Here are just a few Highlights you won’t want to miss:
Encouraging authenticity over manipulative tactics.
Emphasizing personal growth and self-awareness to build genuine connections.
Marrying spirituality with actionable, real-world advice.
Focusing on finding not just any relationship, but a Guardian of Your Soul.
Here are just a few notes you won’t want to miss:
- Introducing ChatGPT
Discussion on ChatGPT as one of the coolest tools and greatest inventions, entering the age of AI.
- Practical Uses of ChatGPT
How ChatGPT can help with crafting text responses.
Using ChatGPT for fun and engaging dating app opening lines and responses.
- Authenticity and Repetition
Addressing concerns about authenticity when using AI to generate responses and emphasizing the efficiency of good opening lines.
- Personal Experience with ChatGPT
Sharing personal experience of using ChatGPT for business and hiring processes.
- ChatGPT's Insights on Lisa's Coaching
Lisa's interaction with ChatGPT regarding her coaching approach and its unique aspects.
Detailed feedback from ChatGPT on the uniqueness of Lisa's emotionally naked dating approach.
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GITRMM: Do Men Really LOVE to Chase Women?
Finding the Guardian of Your Soul
04/23/24 • 48 min
In today's thought-provoking episode of 'Finding the Guardian of Your Soul,' we unravel the provocative wonders behind the age-old belief: Do men really crave the pursuit of love? Our host, Lisa Shield, embarks on a deeply introspective quest to dissect the "chase" and its place in modern romance. To spark this illuminating discussion, Lisa taps into her wisdom derived from guiding a mastermind group of 15 women steadfast in their mission to discover lasting love.
Lisa dismantles common dating myths that cloud the path to true connection, by embracing authenticity over game-playing. She provides an enlightening commentary on the nuanced personalities of men, the complexities of communication between sexes, and the magnetic power of women taking the feminine lead. Learn why Lisa argues that a concoction of clarity, genuine interest, and a dash of patience are the true elixirs for a soulmate bond.
In the absence of a special guest, Lisa takes center stage and shares a personal narrative reflecting on her husband's inclinations, revealing that even in the sanctuary of marriage, learning the art of togetherness remains key. Embark on this journey with Lisa as she dissects the dynamics of the chase, explores the proactive roles women can assume in kindling romance, and provides an antidote to the pitfalls of manipulative dating strategies. This episode holds up a mirror to the quest for companionship, urging listeners to foster connections that are organically grown and mutually nourished. Tune in for a session brimming with impactful stories, vital revelations, and Lisa's trademark debunking of relationship myths—all leading to the elusive guardian of your soul.
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What Makes a Man Want to Commit?
Finding the Guardian of Your Soul
03/13/24 • 28 min
Key Takeaways:
1. Establishing Friendship and Building Trust: Benjamin and I prioritized getting to know each other before rushing into anything, taking the time to build trust and a sense of safety within the relationship.
2. Nurturing Dreams and Personal Freedom: Supporting each other's individual journeys has been foundational to our relationship. This includes providing space, respecting personal ambitions, and not living someone else's dream.
3. Reflecting Masculinity and Femininity: Understanding the importance of mirroring each other's masculine and feminine energies has been a cornerstone of our lasting romance, promoting growth, gratitude, and deep appreciation.
Listen to the full episode for an in-depth exploration into understanding, connecting, and finding the guardian of your soul. Stay tuned for more episodes as we continue to share valuable insights and experiences. #Podcast #Relationships #Love #Commitment #FindingTheGuardianOfYourSoul
The Art of Giving Space in Relationships: "I gave you space. And the space wasn't just a physical distance. I don't crowd you emotionally. I don't pull on you emotionally, and I give you space."— Lisa Shield
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GITRMM: 5 Reasons Men Are Afraid to Commit
Finding the Guardian of Your Soul
01/30/24 • 43 min
What You’ll Hear In This Episode:
The paradox of choice and fear of choosing the wrong partner
Waiting for perfection
Fear of losing freedom and concerns over reduced time for personal interests and social circles
Anxiety about committing to one partner and losing the excitement of multiple intimacies
The desire for mental and emotional space within a relationship
The impact of childhood and parental relationship models
How past relationship traumas can influence views on commitment
The difficulty of opening up emotionally after being deeply hurt
The challenge of overcoming feelings of failure from previous relationships
The struggle with emotional openness and vulnerability
The importance of communication skills in fostering a healthy relationship
Mirroring masculinity, being playful, and supportive in relationships
Adapting a forgiving, drama-free, and patient approach
Issues related to timing, career aspirations, and personal growth
The feeling of being diminished in the presence of a highly successful partner
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Lost in Translation: How Men and Women Hear Dating Terms Differently
Finding the Guardian of Your Soul
10/03/23 • 35 min
What You'll Hear In This Episode:
Communication differences surrounding certain phrases, such as “I need time alone” and "we need to talk"
Clarifying the meaning of commitment with each partner
Asking specific questions to understand expectations and intentions
Regular communication and clarification to avoid misunderstandings
Importance of discussing expectations and desires for building a deeper connection
Addressing potential issues and clarifying intentions early on
Recognizing signs of a potential mismatch in commitment levels
Importance of addressing concerns and desires to avoid future hurt and disappointment
Men also need space for personal growth and processing, similar to women
Seriousness for men may involve consistency and integrating each other into daily routines, not necessarily long-term plans
Differences in views on moving in together
Importance of open communication and taking time to be sure before making such big decisions
Highlighting the need for communication and understanding differing perspectives in a relationship
Key quotes:
- "When most women tell a man they want to ‘take it slowly,’ they are saying they want to build a strong emotional foundation before having sex. They want deep meaningful conversations and to build the emotional intimacy first. For men, taking it slowly often means NOT having intimate talks that go too deep." – Lisa Shield
- “When a woman hears the phrase 'I need some space,' it can trigger catastrophic thinking and tap into her insecurities, causing her to question the stability of the relationship. On the other hand, for some men, being in a serious relationship may simply mean integrating each other into their daily routines and getting to know each other better, without necessarily signaling long-term plans or commitments." — Lisa Shield
- “It is good to have a conversation to clarify what you mean by certain phrases. You can say, ‘Hey, ________, I know that we said we're in a committed relationship, and I also know that being in a committed relationship, that word can have different meanings for different people. I would love to hear what it means for you.’” — Lisa Shield
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The Yin to his Yang: Discover Femininity by Understanding Masculinity
Finding the Guardian of Your Soul
09/19/23 • 43 min
What You'll Hear In This Episode:
The symbiotic relationship between masculinity and femininity, and how they bring out the best in each other
The misconception that simply dressing up and waiting for the "right guy" is enough to feel feminine
Learning how to make a man's world bigger by supporting his dreams and aspirations
The tendency to build walls and become less open with age and negative experiences
The shifting of focus from masculine or feminine behavior to attractive behavior
The dangers of relying on seducers and players to bring out femininity
The need for self-reflection and understanding one's role in attracting certain types of individuals
The importance of both partners doing their part in maintaining a healthy relationship
Key quotes:
- "Because I had these thick walls up and I was so afraid of being vulnerable and feminine I never could find a man who treated me the way I wanted to be treated. Most men didn't feel like there was an opportunity for them to do that with me." — Lisa Shield
- "One way of making a man's world bigger is listening to, asking about, and supporting his dreams." — Lisa Shield
- "If you want to have a healthy relationship and you want to have a really beautiful, masculine, feminine dynamic, then it starts with learning about masculinity. Not just learning how you can become more feminine, but learning what draws out a man's masculine side. So you need to do your part just as much as he needs to do his part." — Lisa Shield
- "And it's not just about sitting and waiting for a man to bring your femininity out, but it's also about you knowing how to draw out his masculinity. And as you do that, your femininity will start to emerge in the process." — Lisa Shield
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Special Guests Lisa & Steve!
Finding the Guardian of Your Soul
09/05/23 • 36 min
What You'll Hear In This Episode:
About Lisa Y, a divorced mom and lawyer who is used to taking care of her kids and had rarely invested in herself before Lisa Shield’s program.
About her desire for change and not wanting to have regrets in the future
How she prioritized coaching calls in a commitment to invest time, finances, hopes and dreams into the program
How she met Steve, what she found in him, and what he found in her
Her moments of feeling discouraged but encouraged by Steve to keep going
Her acknowledging the challenges of the journey and the importance of support
Her learning to value personal relationships and experiences over work accomplishments
Her exploring the lessons learned from recommended readings and the Four Agreements
Her recognizing patterns in dating and relationships
Key quotes:
- "I recognized myself. I recognized other people. I recognized how I date, but I also recognized my other relationships... That book was really life changing." — Lisa Y.
- "For these set of weeks, I am committed to that, and work will always be there... But I needed to invest in myself, and you really did impress that upon me." — Lisa Y.
- "The idea of slowing down and enjoying who you're with in that moment, that rings true in all aspects of my life, because I don't want everything to be said and done. And the only thing I had to show for it was work. That's not good. That's not where I want to be." — Lisa Y.
- “This is hard to keep up. And I can see why people throw in the towel. But you encouraged me keep going, keep going and keep doing the work. And it made all the difference because I want this guy to travel with and to cut the birthday cake with." — Lisa Y.
- ”No relationship lasted longer than three months. It seems like that was a magic point where the real truth comes out and breaks loose. I was trying to slow things down and really make sure I was picking the right person to begin with and giving that more thought than just falling into things, trying to be more deliberate." — Steve
- "Drama in relationships, where someone instigates conflicts for the thrill of breaking up and making up, is sheer madness. Personally, I've been in such situations before, and I can't tolerate it. Genuine disagreement is one thing, but intentionally causing drama for emotional rollercoasters is something I refuse to engage in." — Steve
- "Two people can be passionately in love and not fight." — Lisa Shield
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Spark First or Flame Later: Exploring the Chemistry Conundrum in Relationships
Finding the Guardian of Your Soul
08/29/23 • 29 min
What You'll Hear In This Episode:
Discussion of attachment theory and its influence on partner choice
Highlighting the volatility and toxicity of relationships with anxious-avoidant attachments
Realization that chemical attraction isn't the best foundation for a relationship
Understanding the need to find different ways to connect with potential partners
Exploration of managing one's own anxiety and building secure attachments
Importance of taking time to get to know each other in building a strong relationship
Emphasizing the need to observe how a person responds in difficult situations
Encouraging enjoyment of the dating journey and taking the time to get to know each other
Importance of finding a partner who respects boundaries and desires for a slower pace
Identification of avoidant behaviors early on, particularly in men
Differentiation between confident pacing and overwhelming love bombing
Desire for calm and peace in relationships, especially in the early stages
Key quotes:
- "When I finally started to unravel this in my late 30s, early forties, and I started to look at all of the bad relationships I'd had, it made me start to realize that chemical attraction wasn't really a good thing." — Lisa Shield
- "What's really hard for many people to wrap their brains around is the idea of a relationship that doesn't have those extreme highs and those extreme lows, but still is connected." — Lisa Shield
- "It doesn't matter how beautiful you are or how educated or successful or whatever, your anxiety will sabotage everything." — Lisa Shield
- "One of the things that I started to do was instead of just jumping in and fixating on one guy I liked, I realized that it would be much healthier for me to date several men at once." — Lisa Shield
- "Relationships take time...You have to sit back and wait and watch and listen and learn before you just give your heart to anybody." — Lisa Shield
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GITRMM: Empowering Women to Ask for What They Want in Their Relationship
Finding the Guardian of Your Soul
08/15/23 • 56 min
What You'll Hear In This Episode:
- How men are not mind readers, and communication is key.
- Why women should express their needs and desires to their partners, despite conflicting messages
- The importance of expressing appreciation and guiding each other to be a partners in each others’ life
- How to let a partner know their importance and suggest ways they can contribute
- Personal experiences and the importance of expressing needs for a fulfilling partnership
- The importance of balancing positive and negative feedback in relationships:
- Gottman's research, and the 5:1 ratio rule
Key quotes:
- “Having this conversation in the right way and at the right time is an invitation to deeper intimacy. It is an invitation for a man to come closer to you." — Lisa Shield
- “One of the issues of asking for what a person needs is to be able to have that conversation that either moves the relationship forward or she has to know that this isn't working for her for what she ultimately wants." — Benjamin Shield
- “Women need to ask for what they want in a loving, kind, compassionate, non-shaming, non-emasculating way; in a way that is positive and inviting and allows the right men to come closer to her." — Lisa Shield
- “If he has this discussion just before in his bedtime, he's going to be up, he's going to be ruminating." — Benjamin Shield
- "The single most important thing we can do with our time is be looking for love." — Lisa Shield
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GITRMM: Ambivalence
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06/11/24 • 40 min
Listen in as Benjamin defines ambivalence and explains how it leads to overthinking, resistance to new relationships, and dismissing well-suited matches based on a rigid checklist. Lisa opens up about the challenges faced by high-achieving women in their program, including fears related to personal imbalances and complex life circumstances, from medical conditions to navigating parental roles.
Today on 'Finding the Guardian of Your Soul,' Lisa and Benjamin Shield delve into the complex world of ambivalence in romantic relationships. In this episode, titled "Ambivalence.MP3," Lisa and Benjamin explore the simultaneous positive and negative emotions that can halt women seeking love in their tracks.
Listen in as Benjamin defines ambivalence and explains how it leads to overthinking, resistance to new relationships, and dismissing well-suited matches based on a rigid checklist. Lisa opens up about the challenges faced by high-achieving women in their program, including fears related to personal imbalances and complex life circumstances, from medical conditions to navigating parental roles.
Discover how the Shields emphasize creating a vivid vision of an ideal relationship to combat worst-case scenarios, with unique examples like living apart or maintaining separate households. Moreover, learn why they believe successful relationships require work and the importance of vulnerability and seeing one's partner's internal beauty.
Lisa shares personal insights and exercises, like "a day in the life" visualization or vision boards, to help you manifest your ideal partner. She also encourages listeners to seek connection and inspiration through programs like theirs. Tune in for this heartfelt episode filled with real success stories, practical advice, and an invitation to reimagine your love life. Visit lisashield.com for a free 45-minute presentation and schedule your breakthrough call today. Join us as we navigate the highs and lows of love and explore the true path to finding your guardian of the soul.
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How many episodes does Finding the Guardian of Your Soul have?
Finding the Guardian of Your Soul currently has 204 episodes available.
What topics does Finding the Guardian of Your Soul cover?
The podcast is about Society & Culture, Spirituality, Sex, Compassion, Dating, Women, Love, Community, How To, Religion & Spirituality, Therapy, Podcasts, Relationships, Men, Emotions, Communication, Romance and Online Dating.
What is the most popular episode on Finding the Guardian of Your Soul?
The episode title '4 Ways to Tell if He's the Right Guy For You' is the most popular.
What is the average episode length on Finding the Guardian of Your Soul?
The average episode length on Finding the Guardian of Your Soul is 39 minutes.
How often are episodes of Finding the Guardian of Your Soul released?
Episodes of Finding the Guardian of Your Soul are typically released every 6 days, 15 hours.
When was the first episode of Finding the Guardian of Your Soul?
The first episode of Finding the Guardian of Your Soul was released on Jul 20, 2021.
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