
The Yin to his Yang: Discover Femininity by Understanding Masculinity
09/19/23 • 43 min
What You'll Hear In This Episode:
The symbiotic relationship between masculinity and femininity, and how they bring out the best in each other
The misconception that simply dressing up and waiting for the "right guy" is enough to feel feminine
Learning how to make a man's world bigger by supporting his dreams and aspirations
The tendency to build walls and become less open with age and negative experiences
The shifting of focus from masculine or feminine behavior to attractive behavior
The dangers of relying on seducers and players to bring out femininity
The need for self-reflection and understanding one's role in attracting certain types of individuals
The importance of both partners doing their part in maintaining a healthy relationship
Key quotes:
- "Because I had these thick walls up and I was so afraid of being vulnerable and feminine I never could find a man who treated me the way I wanted to be treated. Most men didn't feel like there was an opportunity for them to do that with me." — Lisa Shield
- "One way of making a man's world bigger is listening to, asking about, and supporting his dreams." — Lisa Shield
- "If you want to have a healthy relationship and you want to have a really beautiful, masculine, feminine dynamic, then it starts with learning about masculinity. Not just learning how you can become more feminine, but learning what draws out a man's masculine side. So you need to do your part just as much as he needs to do his part." — Lisa Shield
- "And it's not just about sitting and waiting for a man to bring your femininity out, but it's also about you knowing how to draw out his masculinity. And as you do that, your femininity will start to emerge in the process." — Lisa Shield
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What You'll Hear In This Episode:
The symbiotic relationship between masculinity and femininity, and how they bring out the best in each other
The misconception that simply dressing up and waiting for the "right guy" is enough to feel feminine
Learning how to make a man's world bigger by supporting his dreams and aspirations
The tendency to build walls and become less open with age and negative experiences
The shifting of focus from masculine or feminine behavior to attractive behavior
The dangers of relying on seducers and players to bring out femininity
The need for self-reflection and understanding one's role in attracting certain types of individuals
The importance of both partners doing their part in maintaining a healthy relationship
Key quotes:
- "Because I had these thick walls up and I was so afraid of being vulnerable and feminine I never could find a man who treated me the way I wanted to be treated. Most men didn't feel like there was an opportunity for them to do that with me." — Lisa Shield
- "One way of making a man's world bigger is listening to, asking about, and supporting his dreams." — Lisa Shield
- "If you want to have a healthy relationship and you want to have a really beautiful, masculine, feminine dynamic, then it starts with learning about masculinity. Not just learning how you can become more feminine, but learning what draws out a man's masculine side. So you need to do your part just as much as he needs to do his part." — Lisa Shield
- "And it's not just about sitting and waiting for a man to bring your femininity out, but it's also about you knowing how to draw out his masculinity. And as you do that, your femininity will start to emerge in the process." — Lisa Shield
Continue On Your Journey:
Lisa Shield | YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call With Lisa
Email the podcast at: [email protected]
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Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with Lisa
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Previous Episode

The Future of Online Dating: How AI Is Changing the Dating Game
What You'll Hear In This Episode:
The use of AI in online dating and its impact on profile verification and safety measures
The need for background checks and spotting inconsistencies in online profiles
The excitement and fear surrounding the use of AI in dating
Difficulty in distinguishing between AI-generated and human-created content
The prevalence and dangers of scammers using AI to create fake profiles
Possibility of AI relationship coaching and virtual chat rooms for communication
Concerns about deep fakes and the difficulty in verifying authenticity in online interactions
Recommendations for prioritizing in-person meetings and avoiding long-distance relationships
Key quotes:
- "There is, on one hand, all the wonderful things that AI is going to do, and then on the other hand, there is a tremendous amount of fear around who's going to be using the AI and will it bring the end of mankind.'" — Lisa Shield
- “You can have your own AI-powered chat bot filter out unsuitable matches and communicate on your behalf. It's like having a personal assistant for your love life!" — Lisa Shield
- “AI-powered applications could offer personalized coaching relationships...there's no reason in the world you shouldn't have dating coaches that are AI powered.” — Lisa Shield
- "If you really want to verify and authenticate if somebody is real, one step in that process is to get off the platform and get on to Zoom or do it on FaceTime on your phone... Scammers can now do what are called deep fakes where they can take a few seconds of you talking and then replicate your voice from it." — Lisa Shield
- "Do a background check on anybody and everybody you're dating. Look for inconsistencies. If the profile is too perfect, something could be wrong." — Lisa Shield
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Next Episode

Special Guest, Plastic Surgeon Dr. Larry Fan!
What You'll Hear In This Episode:
Dr. Fan's background, experiences, and achievements in the field of plastic surgery.
Factors to consider when deciding to undergo a procedure, such as personal concerns and desires
The importance of safety and understanding potential risks associated with surgery, especially for older individuals
Recovery process and common side effects of procedures
The significance of realistic expectations and maturity when considering cosmetic surgery, especially for young individuals
The importance of discussing motivations with parents and potentially seeking psychological evaluation
Encouragement for individuals to wait until they are older and more confident before making decisions about procedures
The limits and effectiveness of non-surgical treatments like Botox and fillers
The belief in the importance of inner beauty and improving overall well-being in addition to outer appearance
Lisa’s work on helping women find love and partnership and the transformative effects on their appearance through the Finding the Guardian of Your Soul program
Key quotes:
- "And I encourage people to wait until they're old enough, mature enough, to really know, to have their own identity, to know what's important to themselves, so that when they're making any choices, it is from a place of empowerment, a place of certainty, a place of confidence, a place of making a long term decision." — Dr. Larry Fan
- "Even in an era where we are so modernized and women have so many opportunities, the emphasis on looks is awful for so many of us." — Lisa Shield
- "What I tell people is, number one, if you have a problem that you're not happy with and it bothers you enough to be willing to get help, that's probably an appropriate time to get help, provided you understand, okay, what does the help involve and what kind of results can be expected?" — Dr. Larry Fan
- The best results are cases where people clearly look much, much better, but they also look very natural and very appealing, where there isn't any obvious sign it doesn't look like they've had surgery. That's the highest level of surgery when people look better, but it's actually undetectable." — Dr. Larry Fan
- "And I call my course my work the world's Cheapest facelift because these women start blossoming and coming back to life and this dark cloud of being single and feeling stigmatized and finally finding their power with men. And they literally look ten to 15 years younger at the end of twelve weeks." — Lisa Shield
- "I think there's a very big opportunity to not just improve our outer appearance, what I call our outer beauty, but also to improve our inner beauty." — Dr. Larry Fan
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