Ep. 13 More Than Love (Song: Somewhere in Between)
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01/24/21 • 20 min
Maybe what the world needs isn't more love, but better love. Love that doesn't feel good and light all the time. Love that doesn't brush hard truths under the rug, but helps us face them, knowing that moving through the valley of the shadow gifts us with an inner richness beyond words.
Join me in this episode as I explore moving from the Codependent Love paradigm to what I call the More Than Love paradigm.
Topics:
- Codependent Love paradigm vs the More Than Love paradigm
- Transmuting my "Self Righteous Bitch" energy
- Learning to hold conflict and opposition in ourselves and with others
- Discovering The Third Way--the possibility of new life when opposites are joined
- Working with and healing ongoing divisions in ourselves, our relationships, and our communities
Live Performance of my original song "Somewhere in Between" at 15:30
With More Than Love,
McCall
Thank you for listening and supporting the show.
Click here to read or listen to my book The Second Half of the Mountain: A Guide to Personal Alchemy After Awakening-->Click here for 20% off audiobook
- Read The Terrible, Beautiful Truth on Substack
- Stay connected through my Email List
- Get a copy of my NEW book Down from the Mountain directly from me
- Read or listen to my new book Down from the Mountain
- Read or Listen to my first book The Second Half of the Mountain: A Guide to Personal Alchemy after Awakening
Maybe what the world needs isn't more love, but better love. Love that doesn't feel good and light all the time. Love that doesn't brush hard truths under the rug, but helps us face them, knowing that moving through the valley of the shadow gifts us with an inner richness beyond words.
Join me in this episode as I explore moving from the Codependent Love paradigm to what I call the More Than Love paradigm.
Topics:
- Codependent Love paradigm vs the More Than Love paradigm
- Transmuting my "Self Righteous Bitch" energy
- Learning to hold conflict and opposition in ourselves and with others
- Discovering The Third Way--the possibility of new life when opposites are joined
- Working with and healing ongoing divisions in ourselves, our relationships, and our communities
Live Performance of my original song "Somewhere in Between" at 15:30
With More Than Love,
McCall
Thank you for listening and supporting the show.
Click here to read or listen to my book The Second Half of the Mountain: A Guide to Personal Alchemy After Awakening-->Click here for 20% off audiobook
- Read The Terrible, Beautiful Truth on Substack
- Stay connected through my Email List
- Get a copy of my NEW book Down from the Mountain directly from me
- Read or listen to my new book Down from the Mountain
- Read or Listen to my first book The Second Half of the Mountain: A Guide to Personal Alchemy after Awakening
Previous Episode
Ep. 12 The Codependent Triangle and Soul Growth
The codependent triangle way of relating as abuser-victim-rescuer permeates our society and perpetuates trauma. In order to stop the trauma cycle and heal, we have to step out of all roles in the triangle and operate from a place of soul, seeing the luminous power in ourselves and all beings.
In this episode:
- What is codependency as it relates to soul work?
- The three roles in the codependent (drama) triangle and how to break free of them
- My personal journey and story with progressing out of the drama triangle
- How taking the second half of the mountain journey and forming the Philosopher's Stone within brings a new round of facing codependency
- Transmuting the Codependent Triangle to the Compassion Triangle
This one is for the cycle breakers.
With love,
M
Resources mentioned in the show:
https://www.karpmandramatriangle.com/
https://yourholisticpsychologist.com/
Codependent No More
Healing the Shame that Binds You
The Second Half of the Mountain
-->Click here for 20% off The Second Half of the Mountain audiobook
- Read The Terrible, Beautiful Truth on Substack
- Stay connected through my Email List
- Get a copy of my NEW book Down from the Mountain directly from me
- Read or listen to my new book Down from the Mountain
- Read or Listen to my first book The Second Half of the Mountain: A Guide to Personal Alchemy after Awakening
Next Episode
Ep. 14 Fear and Shame--Gatekeepers of the Soul (Song: How We Grow)
There’s no level of self-actualization that can exempt us from having blind spots. The willingness to be softened and see in ourselves what we have not yet been able to see is how we grow. Again and again.
In this episode, I explore:
- The role of fear and shame in keeping us locked into the Codependent Drama Triangle
- The necessity to face fear and shame to transmute out of the Drama Triangle and get to your own soul source
- Signs that fear and shame are pulling you into the Drama Triangle
- Tools for addressing them
- Grace we can give ourselves as we reconnect with our true nature as Ongoing Process
- Reclaiming our true worth--worth inherent in and dependent on nothing but our very existence
I share my original song "How We Grow" at 17:17
Thank you for listening and supporting the podcast.
With love,
McCall
Click here to read or listen to my book The Second Half of the Mountain: A Guide to Personal Alchemy After Awakening-->Click here for 20% off audiobook
- Read The Terrible, Beautiful Truth on Substack
- Stay connected through my Email List
- Get a copy of my NEW book Down from the Mountain directly from me
- Read or listen to my new book Down from the Mountain
- Read or Listen to my first book The Second Half of the Mountain: A Guide to Personal Alchemy after Awakening
Falling Into Soul - Ep. 13 More Than Love (Song: Somewhere in Between)
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Better Love
Maybe what the world needs isn't more love the better love. Love that doesn't feel comfortable and light all the time. Love that doesn't brush hard truths under the rug, but helps us face them, knowing that when we move through the Valley of the shadow, we gain an inner richness beyond words. We need love that doesn't demand we move on, get over it or forgive prematurely, but allows us space and time to go through the processes necessary to do so. Love that
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