Employing Differences, Episode 146: What can a facilitator say?

02/28/23 • 16 min

"As a facilitator, if I'm noticing that the patterns in the way that the group is working is not helping the group move forward towards its goals, it's usually useful to say something about that. In a way that the group can hear, in a way that isn't shutting people down, it isn't demeaning."
Paul & Karen discuss the impact a facilitator’s words can have.
Miki Kashtan’s The Highest Common Denominator

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Employing Differences, Episode 145: What if it makes them cry?

"And so what we want to do is not be afraid of it, not run away from it. And also not drag them into the deep end of it. Or bring ours in with them. But to be curious and check in. Express, somehow, sympathy, of whatever sort makes sense to you. Offer what you can. "
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Employing Differences, Episode 147: Do I have to listen to them?

"The first thing we want to say is let's get away from the ‘Do you have to?’ or ‘Are you willing to?’ and really live in the space of ‘Can you?’"
Paul & Karen talk about obligation, willingness, and capacity.