![Different Spectrums Podcast ™️ - Daddy Daycare: Being a Girl Dad and a SIngle Parent [Ft. Jey Young]](https://storage.googleapis.com/goodpods-images-bucket/episode_images/9183b39bc553344225ed54082a34cbf4ae57f88343b9aa1a2c479447422f833e.avif)
Daddy Daycare: Being a Girl Dad and a SIngle Parent [Ft. Jey Young]
Explicit content warning
12/12/24 • 99 min
Today, we’re excited to have Jey Young, a mental health professional, therapist, care manager, and the creator/host of the Young Dad Pod. 🎙️ We’re diving into Eddie Murphy’s Daddy Day Care and tying it to fatherhood, masculinity, and Jey’s experience as a proud girl dad. 👨👧
In Daddy Day Care, Eddie Murphy's character opens a daycare, and people find it unusual, even suspicious, to see men in caregiving roles. We’ll explore how this mirrors real-life biases about men being primary caregivers and why breaking these outdated norms is essential for healthier family dynamics. Jey and Dr. Naz also share their experiences as men of color in mental health and education fields, where they're often the minority and have to adjust their behavior to counter negative stereotypes.
Another big theme is breaking free from toxic masculinity. Jey’s experience shows a different, deeply loving narrative of fatherhood, far from the emotionally distant dad stereotype. We’ll discuss how anxiety over not meeting societal expectations can impact men’s mental health and their relationships with their children.
Jey also shares his challenges as a single dad balancing work, education, and fatherhood, challenging the stereotype of men of color being absent dads. We touch on representation and how men like Jey are working to shift the narrative around fatherhood, showing that many fathers, especially men of color, are present, loving, and committed.
We wrap up by highlighting the importance of representation and spaces where dads, especially men of color, feel supported and heard. Jey’s Young Dad Pod promotes men’s mental health and challenges harmful stereotypes, encouraging men to seek help and embrace all aspects of fatherhood.
Thanks for joining us! We hope today’s episode inspires and uplifts, showing that being a dad is both rewarding and essential. Don’t forget to check out Jey’s amazing work on Young Dad Pod. 🙌
Thanks for checking out Different Spectrums! 🎙️ We're a podcast led by licensed therapists and neurodivergent individuals who explore emotions in movies and shows. Our mission is to normalize mental health challenges and promote understanding.
Join your founders and hosts, Dr. Nazeer Zerka and Spencer Srnec, as we process some key scenes to help you better understand your emotions and maybe even find some validation in them.
To find our new guest:
https://www.instagram.com/youngdadpod/
@youngdadpod
Episode Breakdown:
0:00 Attention
0:54 Sponsorship
1:57 Intro
6:15 Scenes
11:32 Discussion
We’d love to hear your ideas for future episodes and connect with you on social media. You can find all our links here: https://linktr.ee/different_spectrums
⚠️ Reminder: Our podcast isn’t a substitute for therapy. If you need help, please seek professional assistance or call 988 for the National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline or 911 in case of an emergency.
Don’t forget to use our links for discounts with our partner companies:
Let our sponsor, BetterHelp, connect you to a therapist who can support you - all from the comfort of your home. Visit https://betterhelp.com/dsp and enjoy a special discount on your first month.
ONO Roller
https://onoroller.com?sca_ref=5082016.VIt4Svd8Ng
Bubs Naturals
https://www.bubsnaturals.com/?discount=DSP20
Two Nerds Candle
https://twonerdscandle.com/DSP
Cat and Raven Designs
https://catandravendesigns.com/differentspectrumspodcast
Toynk
https://toynk.com/DIFFERENTSPECTRUMSPODCAST
#podcast #therapy #psychology #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #mentalillness #mentalhealthmatters #autismawareness #actuallyautistic #autism #neurodiversity #selfcare #selflove #anxietyawareness #depressionawareness #DaddyDayCare #FamilyComedy #EddieMurphy #DadLife #ChildcareAdventures #ParentingHumor #FamilyFun#podcast #ComedyFilm #DadsInCharge #KidsAndChaos#podcast #DaycareDays #He...
Today, we’re excited to have Jey Young, a mental health professional, therapist, care manager, and the creator/host of the Young Dad Pod. 🎙️ We’re diving into Eddie Murphy’s Daddy Day Care and tying it to fatherhood, masculinity, and Jey’s experience as a proud girl dad. 👨👧
In Daddy Day Care, Eddie Murphy's character opens a daycare, and people find it unusual, even suspicious, to see men in caregiving roles. We’ll explore how this mirrors real-life biases about men being primary caregivers and why breaking these outdated norms is essential for healthier family dynamics. Jey and Dr. Naz also share their experiences as men of color in mental health and education fields, where they're often the minority and have to adjust their behavior to counter negative stereotypes.
Another big theme is breaking free from toxic masculinity. Jey’s experience shows a different, deeply loving narrative of fatherhood, far from the emotionally distant dad stereotype. We’ll discuss how anxiety over not meeting societal expectations can impact men’s mental health and their relationships with their children.
Jey also shares his challenges as a single dad balancing work, education, and fatherhood, challenging the stereotype of men of color being absent dads. We touch on representation and how men like Jey are working to shift the narrative around fatherhood, showing that many fathers, especially men of color, are present, loving, and committed.
We wrap up by highlighting the importance of representation and spaces where dads, especially men of color, feel supported and heard. Jey’s Young Dad Pod promotes men’s mental health and challenges harmful stereotypes, encouraging men to seek help and embrace all aspects of fatherhood.
Thanks for joining us! We hope today’s episode inspires and uplifts, showing that being a dad is both rewarding and essential. Don’t forget to check out Jey’s amazing work on Young Dad Pod. 🙌
Thanks for checking out Different Spectrums! 🎙️ We're a podcast led by licensed therapists and neurodivergent individuals who explore emotions in movies and shows. Our mission is to normalize mental health challenges and promote understanding.
Join your founders and hosts, Dr. Nazeer Zerka and Spencer Srnec, as we process some key scenes to help you better understand your emotions and maybe even find some validation in them.
To find our new guest:
https://www.instagram.com/youngdadpod/
@youngdadpod
Episode Breakdown:
0:00 Attention
0:54 Sponsorship
1:57 Intro
6:15 Scenes
11:32 Discussion
We’d love to hear your ideas for future episodes and connect with you on social media. You can find all our links here: https://linktr.ee/different_spectrums
⚠️ Reminder: Our podcast isn’t a substitute for therapy. If you need help, please seek professional assistance or call 988 for the National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline or 911 in case of an emergency.
Don’t forget to use our links for discounts with our partner companies:
Let our sponsor, BetterHelp, connect you to a therapist who can support you - all from the comfort of your home. Visit https://betterhelp.com/dsp and enjoy a special discount on your first month.
ONO Roller
https://onoroller.com?sca_ref=5082016.VIt4Svd8Ng
Bubs Naturals
https://www.bubsnaturals.com/?discount=DSP20
Two Nerds Candle
https://twonerdscandle.com/DSP
Cat and Raven Designs
https://catandravendesigns.com/differentspectrumspodcast
Toynk
https://toynk.com/DIFFERENTSPECTRUMSPODCAST
#podcast #therapy #psychology #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #mentalillness #mentalhealthmatters #autismawareness #actuallyautistic #autism #neurodiversity #selfcare #selflove #anxietyawareness #depressionawareness #DaddyDayCare #FamilyComedy #EddieMurphy #DadLife #ChildcareAdventures #ParentingHumor #FamilyFun#podcast #ComedyFilm #DadsInCharge #KidsAndChaos#podcast #DaycareDays #He...
Previous Episode

Deadpool: Dealing with Grief, Cancer, and Anxiety Attacks While Laughing
Today, we're excited to dive into the hilarious film Deadpool, but we’re using it to talk about some serious topics like anxiety, depression, and grief. 🖤 We’ll explore how Deadpool’s constant struggles and physical pain reflect what it's like to feel beaten down by life, and how many of us, especially those with severe health issues like cancer, can relate to that deep emotional toll.
We touch on dissociation when trauma strikes, like when you hear devastating news but mentally drift away, something common with neurodivergent folks. We also discuss the tough decisions people face when dealing with cancer treatments, as seen in Deadpool’s journey, emphasizing that each person’s choice is their own.
To lighten the mood, we'll break down some of Deadpool's comedic yet painfully relatable scenes where it feels like everything is falling apart, and we just keep going—even when we know it might not be good for us.
Dr. Nas also draws a connection between Deadpool’s suffocation scene and the real-life feeling of panic attacks, where people struggle to catch their breath, comparing it to gasping for air during moments of intense anxiety.
Finally, we dive into Deadpool's reflection on having five moments to be a hero, encouraging listeners to see that maybe they’ve already been heroes in ways they don’t even realize. And sometimes, it’s okay to be a "villain" to protect your peace and well-being. 💪
Overall, we balance humor with deep, touching moments, as always. Stay strong, keep looking for those moments to be a superhero, and take care of yourselves. Much love, and peace. ✌️
Thanks for checking out Different Spectrums! 🎙️ We're a podcast led by licensed therapists and neurodivergent individuals who explore emotions in movies and shows. Our mission is to normalize mental health challenges and promote understanding.
Join your founders and hosts, Dr. Nazeer Zerka and Spencer Srnec, as we process some key scenes to help you better understand your emotions and maybe even find some validation in them.
Episode Breakdown:
0:00 Attention
0:54 Sponsorship
1:57 Intro
5:28 Scenes
17:07 Discussion
We’d love to hear your ideas for future episodes and connect with you on social media. You can find all our links here: https://linktr.ee/different_spectrums
⚠️ Reminder: Our podcast isn’t a substitute for therapy. If you need help, please seek professional assistance or call 988 for the National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline or 911 in case of an emergency.
Don’t forget to use our links for discounts with our partner companies:
Let our sponsor, BetterHelp, connect you to a therapist who can support you - all from the comfort of your home. Visit https://betterhelp.com/dsp and enjoy a special discount on your first month.
ONO Roller
https://onoroller.com?sca_ref=5082016.VIt4Svd8Ng
Bubs Naturals
https://www.bubsnaturals.com/?discount=DSP20
Two Nerds Candle
https://twonerdscandle.com/DSP
Cat and Raven Designs
https://catandravendesigns.com/differentspectrumspodcast
Toynk
https://toynk.com/DIFFERENTSPECTRUMSPODCAST
#podcast #therapy #psychology #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #mentalillness #mentalhealthmatters #autismawareness #actuallyautistic #autism #neurodiversity #selfcare #selflove #anxietyawareness #depressionawareness #Deadpool #MercWithAMouth #RyanReynolds #DeadpoolMovie #AntiHero #MarvelComedy #BreakingTheFourthWall #DeadpoolFans #SuperheroHumor #MarvelCinematicUniverse #ActionAndComedy #WadeWilson #ChimichangaLover #DeadpoolVibes #UnfilteredHero
Next Episode
![undefined - The Incredibles: Dealing with Boundaries at Work and life satisfaction [Ft Daniel Lattimore]](https://storage.googleapis.com/goodpods-images-bucket/episode_images/1c572620ee7013b77b3fb4ff68cb7be6402659573ec9912248a0ec06d6d7b52c.avif)
The Incredibles: Dealing with Boundaries at Work and life satisfaction [Ft Daniel Lattimore]
In today’s podcast, psychologist and consultant Daniel C. Lattimore will join us to explore The Incredibles. Get ready for a fun and hilarious ride as Daniel uses his background in stand-up comedy to push some buttons and make us laugh.
We’ll dive into important topics like work-life balance, setting boundaries, and dealing with accelerated grief. We’ll also touch on how capitalism affects our mental health, especially in terms of overwork, burnout, and struggling to find joy in our everyday lives.
We’ll talk about Mr. Incredible’s journey as he tries to balance being a hero, a husband, and a father. From fumbling through saving lives while trying to get to his wedding on time, to later losing his identity and struggling to adjust to “normal” life, we’ll see how these themes resonate with us all.
Daniel and I will explore how to recognize when we or our loved ones are feeling burned out or emotionally distant and how to support each other during tough times. Plus, we’ll talk about the real-life stress many Americans face, living paycheck to paycheck, and the anxiety that comes with missing work or losing financial security.
We’ll also have some fun, diving into relationship dynamics, including the old saying “happy wife, happy life,” and discussing how relationships and cultural differences shape our roles.
It’s a lighthearted yet insightful episode that touches on grief, humor, and resilience. We loved having Daniel on, and if you need consulting services, his team is there to help create healthier work environments. Shout out to Daniel’s supporters, especially his wife.
Thanks for listening, and take care of yourselves!
Thanks for checking out Different Spectrums! 🎙️ We're a podcast led by licensed therapists and neurodivergent individuals who explore emotions in movies and shows. Our mission is to normalize mental health challenges and promote understanding.
Join your founders and hosts, Dr. Nazeer Zerka and Spencer Srnec, as we process some key scenes to help you better understand your emotions and maybe even find some validation in them.
To find our next guest:
https://www.instagram.com/read.the.danual/
https://www.instagram.com/dlattsoul/
Episode Breakdown:
0:00 Attention
0:54 Sponsorship
1:57 Intro
5:10 Scenes
19:39 Discussion
We’d love to hear your ideas for future episodes and connect with you on social media. You can find all our links here: https://linktr.ee/different_spectrums
Let our sponsor, BetterHelp, connect you to a therapist who can support you - all from the comfort of your home. Visit https://betterhelp.com/dsp and enjoy a special discount on your first month.
⚠️ Reminder: Our podcast isn’t a substitute for therapy. If you need help, please seek professional assistance or call 988 for the National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline or 911 in case of an emergency.
Don’t forget to use our links for discounts with our partner companies:
ONO Roller
https://onoroller.com?sca_ref=5082016.VIt4Svd8Ng
Bubs Naturals
https://www.bubsnaturals.com/?discount=DSP20
Two Nerds Candle
https://twonerdscandle.com/DSP
Cat and Raven Designs
https://catandravendesigns.com/differentspectrumspodcast
Toynk
https://toynk.com/DIFFERENTSPECTRUMSPODCAST
#podcast #therapy #psychology #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #mentalillness #mentalhealthmatters #autismawareness #actuallyautistic #autism #neurodiversity #selfcare #selflove #anxietyawareness #depressionawareness #TheIncredibles #IncredibleFamily #PixarMagic #SuperheroFamily #MrIncredible #Elastigirl #DashAndViolet #JackJackPowers #ParrFamily #PixarClassic #SavingTheDay #IncrediblesAdventure #SuperFamilyGoals #WhereIsMySuperSuit #IncrediblesFans
If you like this episode you’ll love
Episode Comments
Generate a badge
Get a badge for your website that links back to this episode
<a href="https://goodpods.com/podcasts/different-spectrums-podcast-517128/daddy-daycare-being-a-girl-dad-and-a-single-parent-ft-jey-young-79960709"> <img src="https://storage.googleapis.com/goodpods-images-bucket/badges/generic-badge-1.svg" alt="listen to daddy daycare: being a girl dad and a single parent [ft. jey young] on goodpods" style="width: 225px" /> </a>
Copy