566 Confessions of an Upset Mama! Why didn't you tell me?

It is beyond a challenge when you're the last to know. Why didn't you tell me?

Discovering the mark on the carpet in the family room. Only if someone would have told you sooner, you could have done something about it.

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How many times have you thought...why didn't you tell me?

Can you recall a time when you had this discussion with your children, your husband?

As you go through different stages of your relationships, "why didn't you tell me" happens way too often.

And this is all because of:

• Assumptions
• Taking for granted what was learned
• Just didn't hear; too distracted
• Who is right? Who is wrong?

Why didn't you tell me?

This is a breakdown of communication! And in relationships, we definitely have communication problems.

You can have an argument of where you want to go to dinner. Nothing gets solved because of the back-handed slap talking you do to each other.

Why didn't you tell me?

What is hidden in that statement? Placing BLAME on the other person. Giving them the responsibility so it's their fault. You don't have to accept ownership, but you are forcing them to do so.

Ho can you improve communication in your relationships and break the cycle of "why didn't you tell me"...the blame?

The K.I.S.S. ~ Listen with 2 ears and 2 eyes!

We care quick to jump. It's a self defense mechanism. You put your and your loved ones in survival mode.

1. ALERT to the words and body language.
2. BOUNDARY of RESPECT.
3. CONNECT to the eyes.
4. ZONE IN removing distractions.

"The eyes are the window to the soul."

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