Call Your Sister

Alex

Call Your Sister is a podcast for related and unrelated sisters or CYS everywhere co-hosted by Alexandra Hodge and Astrid Ferguson. Every week, Alex and Astrid call each other to discuss the complexities of motherhood, sisterhood, identity struggles, dating as a single mother, sex and much more. We’re real Latinx sisters who are fiercely opinionated, and not afraid to realtalk each other about everything from (men)strual cycles and body shaming to the Platanos versus Yuccas debates and current identity life drama. We highlight women who are both trying to keep it together and got it all figured out. We also care deeply about the lived experiences of BIPOC and Lantinx women who are just trying to get through the week. We’re here for every facet of women’s humanity because we are a community, a nation of CYS everywhere.

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Goodpods has curated a list of the 10 best Call Your Sister episodes, ranked by the number of listens and likes each episode have garnered from our listeners. If you are listening to Call Your Sister for the first time, there's no better place to start than with one of these standout episodes. If you are a fan of the show, vote for your favorite Call Your Sister episode by adding your comments to the episode page.

Toxic Relationships Pt.2

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08/26/20 • 74 min

Listen to this episode and see if any of the 24 signs we share from the Women's Health Mag article applies to you (article linked further down). Often, we tolerate being in toxic relationships because we are the last to know or we could be the toxic one in the relationship. Relationships are complex because of the people in the relationship. Relationships are simple, people not so much. Take time to identify where toxicity could be developing from in your life and see if you are creating more excuses to continue the toxic cycle. Send us what signs resonates with you the most on our socials listed below.
Once you listen to the episode ask yourself the following questions: How has your troublesome childhood influenced how you function in relationships? Are you creating excuses for them? Are you blaming your parents for your adult behaviors? Let us know if you agree with Lauren Hill's daughter perspective. We would love to hear from you. On this episode we also share an update on the Breonna Taylor and Vanessa Guillen. To read the articles we share follow the link below:

Breonna Taylor’s case - Attorney General Cameron finally went and meet with Breonna’s family on 8/12. https://www.npr.org/sections/live-updates-protests-for-racial-justice/2020/08/13/902104185/breonna-taylors-mother-awaits-criminal-charges-every-day-is-still-march-the-13th )
Vanessa Guillen Update: https://www.nytimes.com/2020/08/14/us/vanessa-guillen-fort-hood-funeral.html
Womens Health Mag toxic relationship article: https://www.womenshealthmag.com/relationships/a19739065/signs-of-toxic-relationship/

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Are you more like Malcolm or Marie or Both?

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02/24/21 • 79 min

In today's episode Astrid and Alexandra discuss the infamous Netflix movie Malcolm and Marie. This episode contains spoiler alerts as we discuss a few scenes in detail. So don't listen if you haven't watched Malcolm and Marie on Netflix.
Malcolm and Marie is a black and white film about a filmmaker (Malcolm) who returns home with his girlfriend (Marie) following a celebratory movie premiere as he awaits what's sure to be imminently critical and a financial success. The evening suddenly takes a turn as revelations about their relationships begin to surface, testing the strength of their love. This film is played by Zendaya and John David Washington.
If curious about your reactions in combative situations with your significant other, we recommend watching this film as a cross-comparison. In this episode, we discuss some Malcolm and Marie scenes--resurfaced some past relationships and experiences, our own combative tendencies during points of conflict, how our upbringing interplays in whether we react as Malcolm or Marie, and what we would have done differently. Some psychological terms we reference are pursuer and distancer (withdrawer) interactions and the burnout withdrawal symptom. We highlight the absolute don't-do's in arguments to avoid permanently deterring long-term relationships and much more. So listen on as we break down these patterns and share our own experiences in being Malcolm , Marie or both.
Articles used to review during this episode are the following: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/rediscovering-love/201707/needing-win-ten-mean-fighting-strategies

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/anger-in-the-age-entitlement/201509/the-dynamic-thats-poison-any-couple

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Author Nancy Burke Invites Us Into Only The Women Are Burning

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12/02/20 • 58 min

In this episode we talk with Nancy Burke who is the author of Only the Women Are Burning. A classical and first book of its kind. She blends mystery, science and fabulism into her newest debut. We have a little fun discussing her writing process and what inspired the story. A story about sisterhood and searching to uncover hidden truths. A story that we could all relate to and inspire one another to indulge.
In Nancy Burke’s “Only the Women are Burning” (Apprentice House Press, October 1, 2020) three women are eclipsed by flames in a single morning, one at a commuter train, one at a school, one while walking her dog in the woods. The authorities decide the burning women are members of a cult, but when Cassandra learns her former best friend died in the fiery phenomenon she refuses to accept that explanation. A mom and former anthropologist, Cassandra finds herself wrapped up in the mystery of these fiery deaths, searching for a solution. As she delves into this strange episode in her once safe suburban New Jersey town, she must also face some buried truths of her own.

Part mystery, part science fiction, part suburban domestic novel, Burke’s “Only the Women are Burning”asks important questions about women in contemporary suburban lives. Fans of Margaret Atwood, Naomi Alderman, Meg Wolitzer, and Rebecca Solnit will enjoy this striking novel for both its poetic prose and the biting social commentary within.
To find out more about Nancy Burke and her book(s) visit her site http://www.nancyburkestories.com

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Practicing Gratitude and a Throwback EP W/ Kierra Lashae (When Magic is Not Enough)

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11/25/20 • 76 min

In this episode Astrid Ferguson and Alexandra Hodge share what they are grateful for as the upcoming holiday "Thanksgiving" is coming up. Astrid shouts out her husband, Jerel Ferguson for holding things down. Visit his art and show him support by clicking HERE for keeping us from starvation he-he, shameless plug. Thanksgiving will look different this year due to the pandemic, so we decided to share a throwback that will help motivate others to realign with their fun side. It is an interview with Author of When Magic is Not Enough, Kierra Lashae who shares her tips for putting fun as the main focus of each passion. She shares her favorite shows to watch during quarantine; tips on becoming a Yelp Atlanta Elite foodie and writing poetry for fun.

Kierra works in the marketing department full-time so her passions are all derived from a place of fun and enjoyment. She is at a place where fun is her motivation to develop new passions/hobbies. She shares how it wasn't always that way hence her book title "When Magic is Not Enough."

Now that she graduated college she has learned to get what she needs out of her passions. Her message to everyone is to just enjoy the ride. Enjoy each moment and don't forget to have fun.

To follow Kierra follow her poetry page @ https://www.instagram.com/iamkierralashae

foodie page @ https://www.instagram.com/herfoodlife

Jerel Ferguson IG page @ https://www.instagram.com/jayreal215
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How Carla Diaz is Helping Moms Break People Pleasing and Setting Healthier Habits

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01/13/21 • 87 min

Every New Year we set resolutions we have no intentions on keeping. The number one New Years resolution is "losing weight." Carla helps us look at health and healthism from a different lens. She shares that the most important thing is loving the journey of health that pertains to each of us and our bodies. She also shares tips and techniques for breaking people pleasing patterns and establishing better eating habits that set us up for success.
Carla Diaz is a Physical Therapist turned health and wellness coach who loves to help busy mom professionals co-create a healthier lifestyle through sensible lifestyle changes and added self-awareness. She’s passionate about helping women rediscover their own inner magic by helping them put their needs first. She’s also the host of The Joyful Energetic Mama Podcast, a weekly show that covers a variety of health, wellness and personal development topics. In her spare time she loves to hang out with her family and rescue dog Perry, as well as discovering which online course to take next.
Learn more about Carla by going to:
https://www.heycarladiaz.com or on Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/heycarladiaz
Sponsored by: Afergtale LLC @ https://www.astridferguson.com/course
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Music/ Sounds from:
Have it Your Way - http://www.freeadmusic.com
Needle Scratch - DJ Sound Effects SFX - https://audiosoundclips.com/dj-sound-effects-sfx/

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Covid Affects on India and Sister Candid Convos

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05/05/21 • 58 min

In this episode we (Astrid Ferguson and Alexandra Hodge) discuss how the numbers affected in India are rising and vaccines are scarce. We share some of the key highlights shared in the New York Times.

Casualties up to approximately 800,000 and rising
Hospitals are running low on supplies
Covid is becoming a third world country silent assassin

Meanwhile, in the US we are trying to go back to normal. Although, we have established that normal wasn't working and many are exhausted. As sisters it wouldn't be the real us if we didn't share some of our bold opinions and added some random thoughts. Along with all the info provided in this episode we are asking our listeners;
What are you doing for mothers day? Send us a message and let us know.

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Why Social Media Anything?

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10/27/21 • 54 min

In this episode sisters Astrid Ferguson and Alexandra Hodge discuss social media, Facebook and Instagram to be precise. What is going on with Facebook and why do they continue to sell customer data without permission?
How the algorithm changes and profit before human concern is the sole driver behind social media (giants like Facebook). Remaining on the app to sell us things is the apps main objective, while making a ton of money on small business owners trying to develop a community/business. So what’s the solution?
We raise the question; should we really be on social media? What are we gaining from social media and is it worth it?
Reference:
https://www.cnn.com/2021/10/25/tech/facebook-papers/index.html
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Sister Talk: A Bit of Bochinche (Suicide & D*cks)

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09/23/20 • 82 min

Astrid Ferguson and Alexandra Hodge discuss un chin de celebrity bochinche because who doesn’t like a little gossip?
Tamar Braxton boyfriend files for restraining order and we asked when is it a good time to leave a relationship when someone is suicidal? Let’s talk Cardi b divorce and our thoughts around marriage and relationships. Let’s talk about the word slut and where it derived from. Let’s address the double standard of men not being considered sluts but women are considered sluts even when they’re not having sex. We talk Netflix show The Social Dilemma, August Alsina (entanglements and penis) and Kanye West delusional or nah?
Update on the Breonna Taylor case and Vanessa Guillen case still unresolved.
Sources:

Breonna Taylor - 12 Mill Settlement .. thoughts and feelings?
1. now president of fraternal police want the banners removed
  1. https://www.wave3.com/2020/09/16/fop-president-calls-city-remove-breonna-taylor-banners/
Tamar Braxton
1. https://www.tmz.com/2020/09/11/tamar-braxton-boyfriend-punched-threatened-kill-domestic-violence-restraining-order/
Cardi B Divorce - currently being clowned for it
1. https://pagesix.com/2020/09/16/cardi-bs-divorce-filing-not-over-alleged-extramarital-offset-baby/
2. https://www.bbc.com/news/entertainment-arts-54174437

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What’s codependency, money limiting beliefs, scarcity vs abundance mindset and how could this be affecting our Latinidad?

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09/02/20 • 58 min

In this episode Astrid Ferguson and Alexandra Hodge discuss... Breonna Taylor - Lebron James wore a MAGA modified hat to have her murders arrested. She was published on the cover of Vanity Fair. But no updates on her actual case has been made public. Vanessa Guillen - no updates on her case besides she was laid to rest last week. A news article revealed—not only is it alleged sexual harassment, she was killed on base and everyone is stating they don’t know anything https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jVqtAojfo3w
Codependency- what is it and how does it show up for you? “Codependency is typically discussed in the context of substance use, where one person is abusing the substance, and he or she depends on the other person to supply money, food, or shelter. But codependency is much broader than that,” says Jonathan Becker, DO, an associate professor of clinical psychiatry at Vanderbilt University in Nashville, Tennessee. (https://www.everydayhealth.com/emotional-health/do-you-have-a-codependent-personality.aspx )
What are 8 signs of codependency and how may it be showing up for you? Listen to this episode and check to see how it can manifest in your relationships and in your inability to let go of people.
Let’s talk money and our Latinidad. The big R word “responsibility.” The need to constantly take care of others before ourselves and revisit the abundance vs scarcity mind shift. Learn in this episode the varying degrees of both and other limiting beliefs we carry around money.

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Honoring the 20th Anniversary of Sexual Assault Awareness Month

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04/07/21 • 61 min

In this episode Astrid Ferguson and Alexandra Hodge discuss the topic most of us avoid, sexual assault. This year marks the 20th anniversary of sexual assault awareness month. Yes, it has only been 20 years since this topic has been publicly discussed.

The Violence Against Women's Act was signed in 1994 and it was a movement primarily pushed by women of color. Prior to this act, sexualt assualt and domestic abuse against women was not considered a crime. That is why we share in this episode the importance of knowing what is considered sexual assault, what is consent and how to have the sensitive conversation.

The most common question that is always asked to survivors is what were they doing. Have you ever wondered what survivors were doing prior to being sexually assaulted? If you have, see the statistics below so survivors are no longer asked this question when they are trying to articulate the details of sexual assault.

48% were sleeping, or performing another activity at home
29% were traveling to and from work or school, or traveling to shop or run errands
12% were working
7% were attending school
5% were doing an unknown or other activity

We know! It's crazy! So listen to all the information shared from RAINN and Marshall University. If you think you have been sexually assaulted and want more information please click on the links below that we used to provide you with as much detailed information as possible.

Reference: https://www.rainn.org/statistics/scope-problem
Discuss Consent and what consent looks like (different statutes of limitations in different states) Keep in mind you can always change your mind your partner must be able to be ok with that.
After effects of sexual assault https://www.rainn.org/effects-sexual-violence
Resources:
Natonal Sexual Violence Resource Center: https://www.nsvrc.org/saam (they talk about creating safe spaces online as well)
Sexual Assault hotline: https://www.rainn.org/resources
Types of Sexual Assault Resource
https://www.marshall.edu/wcenter/sexual-assault/types-of-sexual-assault/

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How many episodes does Call Your Sister have?

Call Your Sister currently has 93 episodes available.

What topics does Call Your Sister cover?

The podcast is about Society & Culture, Personal Journals, Mental Health, Feminist, Self Love, Podcasts, Self-Improvement and Relationships.

What is the most popular episode on Call Your Sister?

The episode title 'Practicing Gratitude and a Throwback EP W/ Kierra Lashae (When Magic is Not Enough)' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on Call Your Sister?

The average episode length on Call Your Sister is 64 minutes.

How often are episodes of Call Your Sister released?

Episodes of Call Your Sister are typically released every 7 days.

When was the first episode of Call Your Sister?

The first episode of Call Your Sister was released on Aug 5, 2020.

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