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Brandon The Dom

Brandon The Dom

Brandon The Dom

Hey, I’m Brandon the Dom. I am a sex and relationship coach - and I want to guide you towards deeper connection, kinky and wild sex, and fulfilling emotional intimacy. Together, we will explore your boundaries, pleasure and willingness to move past barriers toward full self-expression. In a safe and trusting environment, I will help you tap into the vulnerable side of your sexuality - free from judgement and shame.
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Goodpods has curated a list of the 10 best Brandon The Dom episodes, ranked by the number of listens and likes each episode have garnered from our listeners. If you are listening to Brandon The Dom for the first time, there's no better place to start than with one of these standout episodes. If you are a fan of the show, vote for your favorite Brandon The Dom episode by adding your comments to the episode page.

Are you craving more dominance from your man in the bedroom? In this episode, Brandon the Dom reveals 5 psychology-based steps to naturally encourage and draw out his dominant masculine energy. Perfect for women who love their partner's caring nature but want him to take more control intimately. Learn how to create the right environment for his dominance to flourish without nagging or criticism.

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🔥 TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:

  • (00:00) - - Intro
  • (02:04) - - Why He's Afraid to Be Dominant
  • (06:56) - - Step 1: Express Your Desire for Dominance
  • (09:08) - - Step 2: Give Him Opportunities to Lead
  • (10:59) - - Step 3: Act Submissive to Polarize the Dynamic
  • (12:58) - - Step 4: Be More Sexually Forward
  • (14:21) - - Step 5: Encourage and Praise His Dominant Acts
  • (17:00) - - Conclusion: Your Power as a Submissive

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💯 FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
- Three Tools to Discover Your Turn-Ons: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/turn-ons
- Five Tools to Communicate Your Turn-Ons: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/turn-on-communication
- Sex Menu Template: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-menu
- Essential Behaviors for a Good Submissive: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/what-is-a-good-submissive
- Quick Guide to Becoming a Sexually Dominant Man: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/dominant-sex
- Get Free Advice: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice

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In this video, Brandon the Dom explains the concept of subspace in the BDSM scene, detailing its euphoric and trance-like nature. He discusses why subspace occurs, the risks involved, and how to achieve and safely transition out of it to avoid subdrop. Brandon also shares his personal updates and provides insights into related research studies, the complementary state of 'Domspace', and aftercare practices.

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  • (00:00) - Introduction to Subspace
  • (01:48) - What is Subspace?
  • (02:26) - What does Subspace feel like?
  • (04:26) - The Science Behind Subspace
  • (09:10) - Can Doms Experience Subspace?
  • (11:16) - How to Achieve Subspace
  • (14:57) - Is Subspace Safe?
  • (17:24) - Subdrop
  • (18:50) - Aftercare

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Referenced Content:
📖 What is a Good Dom? : https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/what-is-a-good-dominant
📖 Subspace article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/subspace

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👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching

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In this episode, Brandon the Dom introduces the concept of a 'sex menu' as a powerful communication tool for couples to express their desires effectively. This framework involves creating a comprehensive list of sexual acts and using a rating system to indicate preference levels, alongside detailed notes to enhance clarity. It aims to foster open communication, consent, and exploration of new experiences in intimate relationships. Whether in monogamous or non-monogamous settings, the sex menu helps couples share and update their evolving desires and boundaries, while respecting each other's needs and fostering a non-judgmental environment. Viewers are encouraged to download a free template provided by Brandon, which includes 350 sexual acts, to begin crafting their personalized sex menu.

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👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-menu

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  • (00:00) - Intro
  • (00:24) - What is a Sex Menu?
  • (01:18) - Benefits of a Sex Menu
  • (02:54) - Exploring the Sex Menu Template
  • (07:59) - Creating and Using Your Own Sex Menu
  • (11:08) - Tips for Filling Out the Sex Menu
  • (15:08) - Final Thoughts and Resources

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Referenced Content:
📖 5 Tools to Communicate Your Fantasies and Turn Ons with Your Partner: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/turn-on-communication
📖 Read the full article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-menu

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In this episode, Brandon the Dom shares what to do if you're struggling in a sexually incompatible relationship. He explains why this occurring based on libidos being mismatched or having different sex drives, desires, or relationship structures you wish to pursue. He also shares questions to ask yourself and signs to look out for. Finally, he gives you three options so you can fix your sexual incompatibility and return to a thriving sex life.

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  • (00:00) - Introduction
  • (00:22) - What is Sexual Incompatibility
  • (01:09) - Mismatched Libidos
  • (02:01) - Different Desires
  • (02:45) - Different Lifestyles
  • (03:13) - Signs of Incompatibility
  • (06:51) - Option 1: Stay in the relationship and work it out
  • (14:10) - Option 2: Fulfill your needs outside of the relationship
  • (17:34) - Option 3: You end the relationship

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Referenced Content:
📖 3 Secret Tools to Discover Your Turn Ons: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/turn-ons
📖 5 Tools to Communicate Your Fantasies and Turn Ons with Your Partner: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/turn-on-communication
📖 A Practical Guide to Tantric Sex for Beginners: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/tantric-sex
📖 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-menu
📖 Read the full article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sexually-incompatible-relationship

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In this episode, Brandon the Dom shares how to assign sex homework or BDSM tasks to your submissive in order to improve your Dom sub dynamic and helping your submissive grow. He explains how to give tasks using systems, set deadlines, and creating the appropriate rewards and punishments for the homework tasks. Then he shares example task, rules, and rituals that can be done for sex homework for vanilla goals, sexual training, her self awareness, her self care, foreplay, getting her into submissive headspace, and making your life easier as a Dom.

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  • (00:00) - Introduction
  • (00:18) - What is Sex Homework
  • (02:59) - Step 1: Understand your goals as partners
  • (03:26) - Step 2: Give a task in the form of a system, not a goal
  • (04:53) - Step 3: Set a deadline
  • (05:18) - Step 4: Rewards and punishments
  • (09:01) - Examples of Sex Homework Tasks

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Referenced Content:
📖 7 Essential Behaviors of a Good Dominant in BDSM: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/what-is-a-good-dominant
📖 3 Secret Tools to Discover Your Turn Ons: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/turn-ons
📖 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-menu
📖 Read the full article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-homework

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👉 Get Free Advice: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice
👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching

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In this episode, Brandon the Dom addresses the common issue of sexual performance anxiety, explaining what it is, why it occurs, and providing effective strategies to overcome it. He discusses the psychological and physiological factors behind erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation, and emphasizes the importance of reframing beliefs and focusing on pleasure rather than performance. Brandon also shares his personal experiences and offers practical techniques, including mindfulness meditation, communication with partners, and Sensate Focus exercises, to help men get out of their heads and back into their bodies for a more satisfying sex life.

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In this episode, Brandon the Dom explores the concept of attachment styles and their impact on relationships and intimate life. He explains the four types of attachment styles—secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized—detailing how each one is formed and its effects on adult behavior. Brandon also provides practical tools and strategies for developing a more secure attachment style, offering valuable insights for anyone looking to improve their emotional health and relationship dynamics.

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In this video, Brandon the Dom addresses the common fears of sharing intimate fantasies and desires with a partner, fearing judgment or rejection. He offers five practical tools to effectively communicate these turn-ons in a non-judgmental and open environment. These tools include desire statements, pillow talk, sexual bucket lists, sex menus, and sexual disclosure, each designed to foster trust, understanding, and vulnerability in the relationship. Brandon also emphasizes the importance of practicing these methods to build a strong, accepting container where both partners can openly share and explore their desires.

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Brandon The Dom - 3 Secret Tools to Discover Your Turn Ons
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04/03/25 • 19 min

In this episode, Brandon the Dom delves into the importance of understanding one's own desires and turn-ons. He introduces three tools to explore the erotic mind: an erotic journal, erotic quizzes, and a sexual disclosure with a trusted partner. Brandon covers the significance of Jack Morin's concept of the core erotic theme and explains how to use these tools to gain a deeper understanding of your turn-ons, which in turn allows better communication with your partner.

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  • (00:00) - Introduction: Discovering Your Desires
  • (00:22) - The Importance of Understanding Your Turn-Ons
  • (01:04) - Exploring the Erotic Mind
  • (02:54) - Tool 1: Keeping an Erotic Journal
  • (09:12) - Tool 2: Taking Erotic Quizzes
  • (14:39) - Tool 3: Sexual Disclosure
  • (18:49) - Conclusion and Next Steps

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📖 Read the full article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/turn-ons
👉 Get Free Advice: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice

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Brandon The Dom - Overcoming Sexual Shame With Seven Powerful Tactics
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04/03/25 • 30 min

In this episode, Brandon the Dom will explain seven powerful tactics to help you overcome sexual shame and embrace your sexuality. If you struggle with feelings of shame around sex, this video is for you.

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🔥 TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:

  • (00:00) - - Intro
  • (00:13) - - What is Shame?
  • (02:05) - - Why do you feel shame for your sexual desires?
  • (04:17) - - Are your sexual desires wrong?
  • (08:16) - - My Experience with Sexual Shame
  • (10:36) - - Tactic 1: Leave groups where sexual acts are shameful
  • (13:04) - - Tactic 2: Join groups where sexual acts are accepted
  • (15:52) - - Tactic 3: Journaling
  • (16:34) - - Tactic 4: Digest your emotions
  • (20:31) - - Tactic 5: Exposure
  • (22:14) - - Tactic 6: Sexual Disclosure
  • (24:47) - - Tactic 7: Stop praising and punishing yourself

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💯 FREE RESOURCES MENTIONED:
- Three Tools to Discover Your Turn-Ons: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/turn-ons
- Five Tools to Communicate Your Turn-Ons: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/turn-on-communication
- Get Free Advice: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice

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FAQ

How many episodes does Brandon The Dom have?

Brandon The Dom currently has 21 episodes available.

What topics does Brandon The Dom cover?

The podcast is about Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Sex, Bdsm, Kink, Polyamory, Podcasts, Relationship Advice, Relationships and Sexuality.

What is the most popular episode on Brandon The Dom?

The episode title '5 Steps to Make Your Man More Dominant in the Bedroom' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on Brandon The Dom?

The average episode length on Brandon The Dom is 29 minutes.

When was the first episode of Brandon The Dom?

The first episode of Brandon The Dom was released on Jul 23, 2024.

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