Sex Menu: Best Communication Tool for Turn Ons for Kink, BDSM, and Intimacy

04/03/25 • 15 min

In this episode, Brandon the Dom introduces the concept of a 'sex menu' as a powerful communication tool for couples to express their desires effectively. This framework involves creating a comprehensive list of sexual acts and using a rating system to indicate preference levels, alongside detailed notes to enhance clarity. It aims to foster open communication, consent, and exploration of new experiences in intimate relationships. Whether in monogamous or non-monogamous settings, the sex menu helps couples share and update their evolving desires and boundaries, while respecting each other's needs and fostering a non-judgmental environment. Viewers are encouraged to download a free template provided by Brandon, which includes 350 sexual acts, to begin crafting their personalized sex menu.

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👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-menu

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(00:00) - Intro
(00:24) - What is a Sex Menu?
(01:18) - Benefits of a Sex Menu
(02:54) - Exploring the Sex Menu Template
(07:59) - Creating and Using Your Own Sex Menu
(11:08) - Tips for Filling Out the Sex Menu
(15:08) - Final Thoughts and Resources

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Referenced Content:
📖 5 Tools to Communicate Your Fantasies and Turn Ons with Your Partner: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/turn-on-communication
📖 Read the full article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-menu

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More Help:
👉 Get Free Advice: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice
👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching

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👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-menu

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(00:00) - Intro
(00:24) - What is a Sex Menu?
(01:18) - Benefits of a Sex Menu
(02:54) - Exploring the Sex Menu Template
(07:59) - Creating and Using Your Own Sex Menu
(11:08) - Tips for Filling Out the Sex Menu
(15:08) - Final Thoughts and Resources

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More Help:
👉 Get Free Advice: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice
👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching

Previous Episode

Have Mismatched Libidos? Here's How to Fix a Sexually Incompatible Relationship

In this episode, Brandon the Dom shares what to do if you're struggling in a sexually incompatible relationship. He explains why this occurring based on libidos being mismatched or having different sex drives, desires, or relationship structures you wish to pursue. He also shares questions to ask yourself and signs to look out for. Finally, he gives you three options so you can fix your sexual incompatibility and return to a thriving sex life.

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👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching

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(00:00) - Introduction
(00:22) - What is Sexual Incompatibility
(01:09) - Mismatched Libidos
(02:01) - Different Desires
(02:45) - Different Lifestyles
(03:13) - Signs of Incompatibility
(06:51) - Option 1: Stay in the relationship and work it out
(14:10) - Option 2: Fulfill your needs outside of the relationship
(17:34) - Option 3: You end the relationship

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Referenced Content:
📖 3 Secret Tools to Discover Your Turn Ons: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/turn-ons
📖 5 Tools to Communicate Your Fantasies and Turn Ons with Your Partner: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/turn-on-communication
📖 A Practical Guide to Tantric Sex for Beginners: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/tantric-sex
📖 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-menu
📖 Read the full article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sexually-incompatible-relationship

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More Help:
👉 Get Free Advice: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice
👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching

Next Episode

Subspace: What Every Submissive Needs to Know About This Drug Like State

In this video, Brandon the Dom explains the concept of subspace in the BDSM scene, detailing its euphoric and trance-like nature. He discusses why subspace occurs, the risks involved, and how to achieve and safely transition out of it to avoid subdrop. Brandon also shares his personal updates and provides insights into related research studies, the complementary state of 'Domspace', and aftercare practices.

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👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching

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