Have Mismatched Libidos? Here's How to Fix a Sexually Incompatible Relationship

04/03/25 • 23 min

In this episode, Brandon the Dom shares what to do if you're struggling in a sexually incompatible relationship. He explains why this occurring based on libidos being mismatched or having different sex drives, desires, or relationship structures you wish to pursue. He also shares questions to ask yourself and signs to look out for. Finally, he gives you three options so you can fix your sexual incompatibility and return to a thriving sex life.

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(00:00) - Introduction
(00:22) - What is Sexual Incompatibility
(01:09) - Mismatched Libidos
(02:01) - Different Desires
(02:45) - Different Lifestyles
(03:13) - Signs of Incompatibility
(06:51) - Option 1: Stay in the relationship and work it out
(14:10) - Option 2: Fulfill your needs outside of the relationship
(17:34) - Option 3: You end the relationship

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Referenced Content:
📖 3 Secret Tools to Discover Your Turn Ons: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/turn-ons
📖 5 Tools to Communicate Your Fantasies and Turn Ons with Your Partner: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/turn-on-communication
📖 A Practical Guide to Tantric Sex for Beginners: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/tantric-sex
📖 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-menu
📖 Read the full article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sexually-incompatible-relationship

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More Help:
👉 Get Free Advice: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice
👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching

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👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching

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(00:00) - Introduction
(00:22) - What is Sexual Incompatibility
(01:09) - Mismatched Libidos
(02:01) - Different Desires
(02:45) - Different Lifestyles
(03:13) - Signs of Incompatibility
(06:51) - Option 1: Stay in the relationship and work it out
(14:10) - Option 2: Fulfill your needs outside of the relationship
(17:34) - Option 3: You end the relationship

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More Help:
👉 Get Free Advice: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice
👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching

Previous Episode

BDSM Sex Homework to Give Your Submissive with Example Task, Rules, and Rituals

In this episode, Brandon the Dom shares how to assign sex homework or BDSM tasks to your submissive in order to improve your Dom sub dynamic and helping your submissive grow. He explains how to give tasks using systems, set deadlines, and creating the appropriate rewards and punishments for the homework tasks. Then he shares example task, rules, and rituals that can be done for sex homework for vanilla goals, sexual training, her self awareness, her self care, foreplay, getting her into submissive headspace, and making your life easier as a Dom.

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👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching

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(00:00) - Introduction
(00:18) - What is Sex Homework
(02:59) - Step 1: Understand your goals as partners
(03:26) - Step 2: Give a task in the form of a system, not a goal
(04:53) - Step 3: Set a deadline
(05:18) - Step 4: Rewards and punishments
(09:01) - Examples of Sex Homework Tasks

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Referenced Content:
📖 7 Essential Behaviors of a Good Dominant in BDSM: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/what-is-a-good-dominant
📖 3 Secret Tools to Discover Your Turn Ons: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/turn-ons
📖 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-menu
📖 Read the full article: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-homework

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More Help:
👉 Get Free Advice: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice
👉 Get Coaching: https://www.brandonthedom.com/coaching

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Sex Menu: Best Communication Tool for Turn Ons for Kink, BDSM, and Intimacy

In this episode, Brandon the Dom introduces the concept of a 'sex menu' as a powerful communication tool for couples to express their desires effectively. This framework involves creating a comprehensive list of sexual acts and using a rating system to indicate preference levels, alongside detailed notes to enhance clarity. It aims to foster open communication, consent, and exploration of new experiences in intimate relationships. Whether in monogamous or non-monogamous settings, the sex menu helps couples share and update their evolving desires and boundaries, while respecting each other's needs and fostering a non-judgmental environment. Viewers are encouraged to download a free template provided by Brandon, which includes 350 sexual acts, to begin crafting their personalized sex menu.

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👉 Free Sex Menu with 350+ Acts: https://www.brandonthedom.com/advice/sex-menu

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