
Rochelle Aytes & CJ Lindsey
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08/13/21 • 52 min
When actors Rochelle and CJ first met in 1998 it was just in passing as two students attending the same college in New York. Their love story wouldn't truly begin until over a decade later when they would reconnect in Los Angeles as they both were pursuing their dreams. An overly awkward first date didn't make the situation any easier. After CJ realized he wasn't ready to jump into a new relationship, the two parted ways once again. Flash forward to 2014 and CJ is finally ready to get back into the dating scene, but there was only one person he was really interested in: Rochelle. In this 2017 interview from the second season of Black Love Doc, Rochelle and CJ share everything that transpired from there and the trials that would come up along the way.
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When actors Rochelle and CJ first met in 1998 it was just in passing as two students attending the same college in New York. Their love story wouldn't truly begin until over a decade later when they would reconnect in Los Angeles as they both were pursuing their dreams. An overly awkward first date didn't make the situation any easier. After CJ realized he wasn't ready to jump into a new relationship, the two parted ways once again. Flash forward to 2014 and CJ is finally ready to get back into the dating scene, but there was only one person he was really interested in: Rochelle. In this 2017 interview from the second season of Black Love Doc, Rochelle and CJ share everything that transpired from there and the trials that would come up along the way.
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Ladies! The YOU Retreat is here and you do not want to miss out! The YOU Retreat is a loving space for Black women designed & curated by Black Love to uplift ourselves while uplifting our sisters. This is an intimate virtual and in person wellness experience is specifically designed to hone into our power as women and to highlight the value of sisterhood in personal success. After all, Real Queens Fix Each Other’s Crowns. And...it's...FREE!!! Make sure you register early because space is limited! And Fellas, make sure you get the women in your life on this!
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Looking for more Black Love content like After Love: the official Black Love after show? Get to getting Black Love+. Black Love+ is an all new totally free app that gives you all 360 degrees of Black Love. You can find it now on Apple, and Android. Plus you can find it on your favorite TV apps like Roku, Apple TV, Amazon Fire Stick and wherever you get your apps! Download it today so you never miss a minute of Black Love.
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Ladies! The YOU Retreat is here and you do not want to miss out! The YOU Retreat is a loving space for Black women designed & curated by Black Love to uplift ourselves while uplifting our sisters. This is an intimate virtual and in person wellness experience is specifically designed to hone into our power as women and to highlight the value of sisterhood in personal success. After all, Real Queens Fix Each Other’s Crowns. And...it's...FREE!!! Make sure you register early because space is limited! And Fellas, make sure you get the women in your life on this!
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Looking for more Black Love content like After Love: the official Black Love after show? Get to getting Black Love+. Black Love+ is an all new totally free app that gives you all 360 degrees of Black Love. You can find it now on Apple, and Android. Plus you can find it on your favorite TV apps like Roku, Apple TV, Amazon Fire Stick and wherever you get your apps! Download it today so you never miss a minute of Black Love.
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Ladies! The YOU Retreat is here and you do not want to miss out! The YOU Retreat is a loving space for Black women designed & curated by Black Love to uplift ourselves while uplifting our sisters. This is an intimate virtual and in person wellness experience is specifically designed to hone into our power as women and to highlight the value of sisterhood in personal success. After all, Real Queens Fix Each Other’s Crowns. And...it's...FREE!!! Make sure you register early because space is limited! And Fellas, make sure you get the women in your life on this!
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Looking for more Black Love content like After Love: the official Black Love after show? Get to getting Black Love+. Black Love+ is an all new totally free app that gives you all 360 degrees of Black Love. You can find it now on Apple, and Android. Plus you can find it on your favorite TV apps like Roku, Apple TV, Amazon Fire Stick and wherever you get your apps! Download it today so you never miss a minute of Black Love.
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