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Step into the glimmering world of the Full Figured Industry Awards, where Tawana Blassingame, the founder and force of nature behind the event, joins us to share the sparkle and substance of the latest celebration. As we unpack the 2023 awards, the conversation glides from the heartfelt acceptance speeches to the meticulous process that ensures each nominee is duly recognized. Our own encounter with the nomination system takes center stage, revealing how adjustments in the process have elevated the fairness and prestige of these accolades.
Surprises are the heartbeat of any awards ceremony, and this episode is no different as we peel back the curtain on the nomination journey. Gasp along with us as we recount the moments where unsuspecting winners were showered in glory, and learn how the Full Figured Industry Awards has become a beacon of diversity and inclusion, continuously breaking barriers with categories like Silver Fox. We spotlight the array of ways sponsors can bask in the limelight of this burgeoning event, and playfully muse about the dream partners we envision joining our constellation of supporters.
Finally, we amplify the power of self-nomination, especially when it comes to the impactful Community Service Awards. Tawana demystifies the process, championing the bold move of putting oneself forward, and we outline the critical timelines to keep the awards soaring to new heights. Yet amidst the celebration and empowerment, we take a moment to draw boundaries on respect within our community and a chuckle at the quirky sign-offs that have become our endearing trademark. So plug in and join us for a whirlwind of inspiration, gratitude, and a healthy dose of glam on this episode of Big Sexy Chat!
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BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].
You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.
Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod
Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)
Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.
Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

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Prepare for an eye-opening and inspiring dialogue between your hosts, yours truly, and two incredible women in the world of body positivity – the remarkable Morgie Mone, and the insightful Lindsy from Big Fig Mattress Company. As we take an enlightening journey through the world of fat liberation, you'll discover how Morgie has crafted a powerful platform for encouraging self-love and embracing our bodies, just as they are. Along the way, we'll shine a spotlight on Big Fig Mattress Company's mission in not only providing comfort for people of all sizes, but also fostering body positivity and fat liberation.
Let's heat things up a little as we discuss the spicy topic of sex and the role Big Fig Mattress plays in providing a supportive base for couples of all sizes. Lindsy dishes out valuable insights around their company's commitment to breaking barriers and pushing for inclusivity. We'll also discuss how Morgie, as a leading plus size black woman, is inspiring others to reinforce their relationships and break free from societal norms and expectations around love.
As we wrap up, we dive into how Morgie selects brands that align with her core values, and how this has enabled her to guide her community towards exploring more options. Make sure to stick around for our intriguing chat about the Barbie movie, the crucial need for more body positivity in media, and our future endeavors to champion fat liberation and inclusivity. Join us on this riveting journey as we celebrate the beauty of embracing our bodies and championing self-love. You're in for a truly enlightening experience!
Fat people have sex, too! Thank you to Big Fig Mattress for recognizing this fact! Fat people have Fat money to buy stuff with! Brands: Stop leaving so much money on the table.
Also, at the end of our podcast, Monie and Lindsy share their favorite romance goodies with all of us. #bigfigmattress #bigsexychat #getyours

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BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].
You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.
Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod
Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)
Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.
Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

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What if your weight didn't define your healthcare? In this eye-opening episode of Big Sexy Chat, we're joined by the empathetic and brilliant Dr. Robert, a board-certified family physician committed to eradicating medical fat phobia. He shares his journey of creating a practice where patients of all sizes feel heard and respected, revealing the profound impact of not attributing every health issue to weight. You'll hear the touching story of Asherlee, who found solace in Dr. Robert's unique approach, and discover why finding a doctor like him is a rare treasure.
We tackle the often overlooked challenges faced by obese patients in the healthcare system. From the psychological toll of misdiagnoses to the emotional relief of being truly listened to, we unearth the critical need for holistic and individualized care. Dr. Robert recounts a transformative moment when a patient's persistence led to the discovery of a rare diabetes type, underscoring the necessity for doctors to listen beyond appearances and biases. We also delve into the systemic shortcomings in medical training that fail to address body diversity and anti-fatness.
Shifting to a more intimate subject, we explore the intersection of sexual health and larger bodies. Dr. Robert offers expert advice on navigating anatomical challenges and emphasizes the importance of communication and comfort with one's body. From innovative sex toys like the Balldo to making pelvic exams more comfortable, we provide actionable insights to enhance sexual satisfaction and access. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to understand and combat fat phobia in healthcare while also celebrating body positivity and sexual empowerment.

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Support the show

BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].
You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.
Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod
Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)
Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.
Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

Polyamory is our topic for this episode and we were so delighted to have Sydney on our podcast to help dispel Polyamory Myths.
Sydney LIVES the polyamorous life. She has a husband she nests with. She has a wife who is her bestie and she is married to her, but they do not have sex. And, she has two male partners in her polycule. And, they all practice radical honesty - which is the key to almost all relationships. And, radical honesty is REQUIRED if you are polyamorous. She very clearly describes it and shares with us how she LIVES this life.
Some of you may remember Sydney from a Curvy Girl fashion show a few years back where she dressed as a bride. FABULOUS! She was a show-stopper.
We had about 10 to 15 questions from listeners and friends and we went through the whole list of questions and asked her a few others.
We had a discussion about compersion and jealousy and she shares her theories about jealousy and compersion.
We discussed the fact that poly people come in all ages, all sizes, all skin colors. (Although Sydney would like to see more Black representation in the poly world soon, but we will get into that next time we interview Sydney and discuss Polyamoury 201.
DO NOT UNICORN HUNT is very firm advice Sydney strongly believes can be damaging to the unicorn and cause some trauma. Be honest. Are you a swinger or poly? Be honest with yourself and your future partners.
We discuss if people who are poly are kinky or not.
Resources from Sydney:
1. More Than Two Author: Veaux, Franklin, Rickert, Eve
2. PoleSecure Author: Jessica Fern
3. Love is Not Color Blind: Ruby Bouie Johnson
4. Sydney also recommends a podcast and blog called Polyphia.blog.
Happy Polydays with Leanne Yau
Merf, Sydney, and I are very married to the idea that none of us are in any place
to judge how people live their lives. NO JUDGEMENT. If Polyamory is not for you,
just move along.
Polyamory requires ALOT of talking and communication. NO LIES. Radical honesty,
no deception, no surprises.
We also discussed the meaning of metamour, fluid bonded, polycule, processing, kitchen table polyamory, and so much more.
Merf also recommended a book that is a recourse that discusses how poly relationships
have been around longer than most of us and in hundreds of cultures. I will get that title and add it here, soon.
Thanks a million to our guest Sydney for her time and expertise. Thanks to the best co-host, Merf and to our fabulous (and poly) editor, Asherlee.
Our sponsor is my sex toy website: www.Blissconnection.com

BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and your community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].
You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.
Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod
Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)
Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.
Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

Episode 4: Merf & I chit-chat about ENTHUSIASTIC consent, BDSM, Kink, and all kinds of other fun.
We also discuss Renee Zelwegget wearing a fat suit in her lastest fatphobic role. I despise anyone wearing a fat suit. There are plenty of fat actors to hire. It's gross and should NEVERs be done - EVER. It's never ok.
Thanks to a listener question, we had a fantastic discussion about fetishizing bodies; How to decide if your partner or date is fetishizing you are really into ALL of you? We also chatted a bit about how sometimes people PREY on fat babes and choose to PREY on us because they think we are "easy" and will settle for any kind of attention. I get a little bit heated about this topic. Never SETTLE!
Fat Fetish? Is it ever ok?
At the beginning of the episode, we discuss Ady Bryant's 10 year anniversary on SNL and her new voice role on the new show Human Resources.
Merf also told us about the new show LIZZO is the creator of. It's a reality show where Lizzo and her team are interviewing other "Big Grrrl" dancers to be back up dancers on her tour. It is on Amazon Prime Video and there are 8 episodes. Excited to check it out as well as the new season of Bridgerton.

BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and your community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at [email protected].
You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.
Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod
Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)
Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off.
Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!