Soul-mate; Not Sole Mate. Polyamory 101: Sydney #Fat_Troublemaker

Polyamory is our topic for this episode and we were so delighted to have Sydney on our podcast to help dispel Polyamory Myths.
Sydney LIVES the polyamorous life. She has a husband she nests with. She has a wife who is her bestie and she is married to her, but they do not have sex. And, she has two male partners in her polycule. And, they all practice radical honesty - which is the key to almost all relationships. And, radical honesty is REQUIRED if you are polyamorous. She very clearly describes it and shares with us how she LIVES this life.
Some of you may remember Sydney from a Curvy Girl fashion show a few years back where she dressed as a bride. FABULOUS! She was a show-stopper.
We had about 10 to 15 questions from listeners and friends and we went through the whole list of questions and asked her a few others.
We had a discussion about compersion and jealousy and she shares her theories about jealousy and compersion.
We discussed the fact that poly people come in all ages, all sizes, all skin colors. (Although Sydney would like to see more Black representation in the poly world soon, but we will get into that next time we interview Sydney and discuss Polyamoury 201.
DO NOT UNICORN HUNT is very firm advice Sydney strongly believes can be damaging to the unicorn and cause some trauma. Be honest. Are you a swinger or poly? Be honest with yourself and your future partners.
We discuss if people who are poly are kinky or not.
Resources from Sydney:
1. More Than Two Author: Veaux, Franklin, Rickert, Eve
2. PoleSecure Author: Jessica Fern
3. Love is Not Color Blind: Ruby Bouie Johnson
4. Sydney also recommends a podcast and blog called Polyphia.blog.
Happy Polydays with Leanne Yau
Merf, Sydney, and I are very married to the idea that none of us are in any place
to judge how people live their lives. NO JUDGEMENT. If Polyamory is not for you,
just move along.
Polyamory requires ALOT of talking and communication. NO LIES. Radical honesty,
no deception, no surprises.
We also discussed the meaning of metamour, fluid bonded, polycule, processing, kitchen table polyamory, and so much more.
Merf also recommended a book that is a recourse that discusses how poly relationships
have been around longer than most of us and in hundreds of cultures. I will get that title and add it here, soon.
Thanks a million to our guest Sydney for her time and expertise. Thanks to the best co-host, Merf and to our fabulous (and poly) editor, Asherlee.
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